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Introverts are people that don't talk much and always want to be alone. What tips will you suggest to them on how to improve their social life? 
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I am introvert when I was in my teenage,  like I walk looking all time on the ground and when someone calls me, I own bother turning my heads, eventually my personal develops in time when I started to go to college. So, a person how is introvert needed more people to support there to talk to, and to hang out with to gain more confidence.

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In as much as some people love to spend time alone like me,I think we shouldn't take it to the extreme.introverts should always find a common ground and try to live a balanced life and this is what I try to do. I still try to socialize despite the fact I enjoy my solitude life but I mingle alot too.

An introvert should try to leave the confide of the home at least once a week to events to meet people and try to let out steam.

Even online can chat up people intermittently even inbetween work to ease stress.

In a gathering one should try to speak up or out if need be and don't just be a listener alone.

Hang out with friends,it either one go over or bring over friends to have some good time with them

Basically,one should just kill the phobia of hating crowd or coming in contact with people as an introvert.
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If you're an introvert, then you'd understand how almost impossible it is to socialize more than already done, talk much of taking tips to improve on social behaviors. This is because most of the recommendations i've come across as tips on the said subject involves everything disliked by an introvert. That there is the major problem why it almost won't work.

Regular physical engagements like group outings and others are red flags for introverts. It is in their nature and not much can be exercise to undo such character or personality, correct me if am wrong, as they say, change is constant

The only possible way for an introvert to engage more in social activities is by doing so anonymously or behind the cover of some device, like am doing right now on answeree. Using this model, an introvert feels more relaxed as there's no prying eyes to cause any physically unnerve. But to what good is being social without physical contact? Anyways, that's what the world is gradually turning into. 

Technology and today's social media is slowly turning the world into one big introverted community. 

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First off, I don't think that it is something that's much of a problem. Not everyone likes to talk much. There are plenty that are much more expressive in writing or other crafts. This is just to say that not everyone must be a talkative that likes to socialize all the time. I don't see any problem with the introverts as long as they are not shy and timid with social anxiety.
If an introvert really wants to improve their personality like you said, they can always make a conscious effort to interact more with the people around them. "conscious" because that is not in their nature. Go out once in while, join groups, go for seminars and conferences and get into healthy discussions. They can take it one step at a time and always remember to be themselves wherever they go.
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Start with small steps, start talking to your family members.

Than start going out, like go to a park try not to sit silently in a corner, but start walking on grass near people.

Try to observe people and have a gentle smile...

Wish goodmorning  or evening to the ones you know and ask how are they...slowly you will be in short conversations with people around you...

Do it for some days and than start expanding your area, like appreciate a stranger for their kind deed towards you or you can also be the one who is helping someone...

Try to attend parties if you are invited in them...

Or you can join some hobby clubs..

Slowly you will feel change in your personality....

Hope it helps
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Practically I'm an introvert. I want to be alone. I don't want to mingle with other people.

I began to like other people and join with them when I attended a leadership training in high school. There I learned how to come out in the open and be heard.

The simple lesson I learned was "no man is an island." 
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The first thing that an introvert should do is to have a strong will to change. If they can not do this, then it will be useless to break free from being an introvert.
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1. Take small steps. Start by introducing yourself to one new person at a time and don't worry about making friends right away.

2. Get out of your comfort zone. Try attending a class or joining a club or group activity to meet new people.

3. Make time for yourself. While it's important to make time for other people, it's equally important for introverts to make time for themselves.

4. Talk about your interests. Talking about something you're passionate about can make you feel more comfortable and confident, which can help you make connections with others.

5. Practice active listening. Instead of talking constantly, focus on listening to the conversations around you and engaging in meaningful ways.

6. Ask questions. Showing genuine interest in someone else’s life can help you make friends and build relationships.

7. Find an introvert buddy. Finding someone who’s also an introvert can make it easier to find common ground and build relationships.

8. Use technology. Social media, video chat, or even texting can be great ways to connect with others without feeling overwhelmed.
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We have different structures of personality as we all know that personality can change over time. However, it can only do so if you decide to make an effort to boost your social life. Try attending co activities that are of interest to you like playing games, travelling hiking among others. visiting the market and trying to bargain. Joining online media and giving your views is also good. Going to family gatherings and doing social and teamwork activities is also going to improve your social skills. reading and doing research on the same will give you points on what to do to improve your personality. Going for therapy with a professional counselor who will guide you to improve your social skills will also be of good help.
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 1. Make time for social activities. Even if it feels uncomfortable, try to make time for friends, family, and colleagues.

  2. Practice small talk. You don’t have to talk about deep topics all the time. Small talk helps build relationships.

  3. Find people who share similar interests. If you like to read or watch movies, find someone else who enjoys the same activities and invite them to do something together.

  4. Try something new. Going out of your comfort zone can be intimidating, but it can also be rewarding.

  5. Get comfortable with silence. Silence can be awkward, but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. It can give both you and the other person a chance to think of what to say next.

  6. Be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. People will appreciate your honesty and authenticity.

  7. Take breaks. Socializing can be exhausting, so don’t forget to take breaks and come back refreshed.

  8. Know your limits. Don’t push yourself too hard. Take it slow and recognize your own limits.
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