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My lover is not talking to me by phone. I think, he is avoiding me. Earlier, we usually talks about one hour daily. Now he is not interested and says 'I am busy'. What can I do?
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The I am busy tone means something. It means he is busy or wants to be busy so that he will find ways to have an excuse, or he is plainly making an excuse. You should leave a message of how you feel about it. 
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You should be able to tell when someone is no longer interested in you. By their actions you should be able to do this. Like the "I am too busy" statement shows something is off. Try to confront him if he is fed with being with you instead of acting funny.
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do sax with your lover. do kisses with lover. and do suck his penus in different ways. your lover will not avoid you. send him home misturbation videos with feelings.. he will contact you
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If your lover is not talking to you by phone, it could be because he is avoiding you. Whether he is avoiding you by not talking on the phone or just not wanting to talk, it is something you need to talk to him about. If he is avoiding you, it is important to understand why. If you do not feel like he is interested in talking to you, it may be best to distance yourself for a while until he is more willing to talk.

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Hello Teena, I think you firstly you should not just conclude he is avoiding you, he might be going through some personal problems be it emotionally which might affect his communication with u. 

And secondly, I can see you are a lady with a beautiful heart, so you need to be positive about your relationship with him no matter what. 

 

Then you really need to find a way to see him personally since I believe your relationship is not just online thing, so make a way to see him because even if u decided to send a direct message to him or mail him he might not still respond,so meet him one on one, ask him what happened passionately, tell him how much you are worried not hearing from him, let him know how important he is to u and surely with all this tenderness and sure he will open up for you and tell you his stand. 
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Thanks for your positive responses. Yes she shouldn't conclude anything without talking with him.
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Hi Teena, I suggest to try reaching him by sending him a direct personal message to his personal accounts that you may know of like email, text message to his phone, or through his personal social media accounts. Just let him know if it's possible for you to at least meet in person so that you can inform him directly of your feelings. When you're able to talk face to face, you can ask him directly if he's still interested in continuing further a relationship with you and that you would really appreciate his honesty. I'm sure you're a lovely woman and a person who truly loves you would make time to let you know and make you feel special.
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Wow !  No other answer can be better than this.  Great
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Good one, There is no chance for a positive reply from him.
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There are many reasons why a person stops calling or talking on the phone. Speaking each day on the phone can take up a lot of time a person might not have if they have other problems to deal with. Furthermore, if he is living at home with his parent's they could be angry with him for spending so much time on the phone. They are the ones paying the bill and might be putting pressure on him because of how long he talks to you each day. You'll need to consider the different reasons why this has changed. I personally feel if you two cared about each other so much that you'd rather spend the time talking in person and not always on the phone. He might need more of a personal touch and feels like a phone call is rather cold.

The only true way to find out what has happened is by confronting him face to face. I would suggest that you arrange some sort of an event and ask him to attend. You can prepare a nice romantic dinner and invite him over. Tell him it is a special evening and you've worked all day on preparing this for him. You could also go over to his place and bring take out to eat together. I would really consider trying to plan a romantic evening together where you can talk face to face and work out the problems. If you really care about him then show him how much you care and how you want to be with him. Do something special.
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Wow, wonderful answer again ! Teena Collins is getting very nice advice here from our Answeree community
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You are right! Confronting him is the very best way. You just have to prepare yourself to whatever he may tell you. Men are polygamist we can't change that but we can control it. Never give up on him! there are just relationship  that needs storm in order to learn strengthen it the next time.
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You're both adults, you should sit down and sethle your issues, if he doesn't open up then there's an issue .Maybe he's going through hard times and needs quite some time alone to compose himself.

Maybe you let him be alone for quite some time if it persists then maybe he really wants to end the relationship or is seeing someone else.
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As you mentioned here you both were used to talk about one hour daily. But now he is avoiding you saying he is busy for unknown reasons. Let me ask you one thing, did he stopped this conversation or making calls suddenly in a day or gradually decreased the call time length. If he stopped it all of a sudden then there may be some difficulties with him that making him tensed which he don't want to disclose with you. Or there may be any misunderstanding about you in his mind. If he gradually withdrawn from talking to you then there is more chance that he might be having some other relationship growing behind the scenes. Anyway, don't take my words as a conclusion until you confirm it by any means. Be cool Teena. You can be more likeable by others than you think. Regards
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Better ask him directly. If still avoids, at least ask the reason for avoiding you. After hearing that you can make your decision on your own.
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It is better to talk to him personally. Having phone calls can be a hindrance to both of you. A heart=to-heart talk is a good way to break the ice.
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Some people are not good at expressing themselves in situations like this. They just become distant and hope their partner will get the message.

However, you should at least try and sort things out but you will never know unless you ask him directly if there is a problem. Perhaps it is something that can be sorted out, maybe you have accidentally upset him or maybe he really is busy. Speak to him and find out the truth.
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I think he is talking to another one

Don't think about that and just block
If he is giving ecxuses and excuses that is not acceptable then block him from you life
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When your partener starts saying this statement 'i am busy' know that he is no longer interested in the relationship but too shy to say it or he don't want to hurt you by saying it is over.
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If he doesn't make time to reach you then he is avoiding you. A man might be busy but we have a lot of time within the day to update. It may also depend if he is typically a cold person or not, but if he's changed and turns out to be like that, he has a problem that you should talk about on why is he like that
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It can be difficult to understand why your lover is not talking to you, especially if it was something you two were used to. The best approach is to talk to him about it. Ask him what is going on and how he is feeling. Let him know that you care and want to understand why he is avoiding you. Listen to what he has to say and try to be understanding and respectful of his feelings. You can also suggest ways to reestablish communication, such as meeting in person or scheduling a phone call.
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Maybe you should try to talk things through, communication is key in a relationship.If she genuinely busy you should be able to create time for each other, maybe on the evenings or maybe weekends
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i suggest you to wear sexy dress which will attract your partner. every human has physical feelings which become the reason to be close with boy or girl friend.
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There could be two reasons why your lover is not talking to you. First, it could be that he has decided that he is not going to talk to you anymore. This means that you are not the only thing that he is interested in. Alternatively, he could be using phone as a way to try to hide his feelings from you. If he is using phone as a way to avoid you, then you should definitely be sitting down with him to talk about what is going on.
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If you loved one is avoiding you on phone call just reverse your mind back may be you did something that angered her and she does feel good because of you that why she is avoiding you .
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By their actions you should be able to do this. Like the "I am too busy" statement shows something is off. Try to confront him if he is fed with being with you instead of acting funny.
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you really need to find a way to see him personally since I believe your relationship is not just online thing, so make a way to see him because even if u decided to send a direct message to him or mail him he might not still respond,so meet him one on one, ask him what happened passionately, tell him how much you are worried not hearing from him, let him know how important he is to u and surely with all this tenderness and sure he will open up for you and tell you his stand. 
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