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Enumerate five reasons why marriage crash or why couples get a divorce.

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1. Communication problems: lack of communication or poor communication may lead to divorce. Couples who find it difficult to express their feelings, work together and solve problems may end up in a divorce.

2. Financial problems: differences in spending habit, financial goals may lead to conflict.

3. Infidelity: cheating on a spouse is one of the major reason for divorce all over the world

4. Growing apart: over time, some couples may find that they have grown apart and no longer share common interests and goals. This can lead to loneliness and disconnection and may finally result to divorce

5. Abuse: this includes physical, emotional or psychological abuse. Any form of mistreatment in a marriage can lead to divorce.
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There are several reasons why married couples end up divorcing. Some of those reasons are:

(1) The distrust between them. The triggers including dishonesty. If they don't trust each other, it will be very difficult to put them back together. This sharp but true reason is of course mostly left unsaid. What is usually disclosed to cover up this reason is a lack of communication or a lost sense of love.

(2) differences in belief, understanding, thought, religion, or the like between them. These differences are very difficult to put them back together. This common reason is also mostly left unsaid. What is usually disclosed to cover up this reason is the lack of communication.

(3) heartache or revenge; difficult to extinguish between them. The triggers may be domestic violance, unfulfilled promises, and misconduct by one of them. This sharp but true reason is of course mostly left unsaid. What is usually disclosed to cover up this reason is a lack of communication or a lost sense of love.

(4) economic (household) needs that are not met by the husband, and wife does not accept this situation.

(5) the marry under conditions of status that are not justified so that their marital status is invalid. For example, a man marries a woman who is still married to another man in another city or country; a man marries a woman who turns out to be his own biological sister (they live separatly from each other because they were adopted by different adoptive parents and live far apart); blood marriage (for the shake of maintaining property); polyandry; and so on.

(6) one of the husband or wife has made a very important decision (eg. selling their house, taking/spending a lot of partner's money/property, or adopting a child) without first seeking the consent of the other.

(7) the course of their household tends towards destruction (bad), especially if both have hurt each other (at least with words), and they are aware of it but have not found a way out.

(8) They (or one of them) are tired of their obligations and unable to continue their obligations as husband (for example, no longer able to support his wife) or wife (for example, no longer able to serve her husband at home/bed).

(9) Infidelity (one or both) is one of the causes of divorce. Some people can forgive a spouse who cheated on him/her, while others can't (get a divorce soon). Ironically, partner's non-jealousy in cases of severe infidelity (forgiving) is inappropriate; not normal & not good. People who are not jealous of their legal partner are less likely to take good care of their family (especially his/her daughter). Even so, if forgiven, of course this fact will be deeply recorded so that it will leave grudges (along with its various implementations) if the behaviour does not improve. Therefore, if their behaviour is not going to improve, divorce may be the best way for them.

(10) A wife's pregnancy that is not caused by her husband. This can be caused by several things, including: (a) severe infidelity, (b) fertilization of the wife by the sperm of another man (the husband is infertile but wants to have children in the family), (c) the wife becomes a surrogate mother, and the like. Of course, this condition is dangerous; can cause anger to the husband who can come at any time and cause unclear heredity and representation of the child. In this condition of pregnancy like this, to avoid bigger problems in the future, the husband should divorce his wife.

(11) Pressure or coercion from a third party (usually a parent or son/daughter from one of the parties) can also be one of the causes of cases of divorce between husband and wife, regarless of the reasons for these third parties. This reason is actually not really strong as long as the couple in question does not have a motive to divorce. However, in some cases, this general reason may be expressed by one of the parties (husband or wife) who really wants a divorce.

(12) Living apart for a long time without attention, news, and support (marital status becomes unclear or hanging) can also be one of the reasons for divorce. In this situation, in fact, the couple in question can maintain their marital status, although it is not clear. But in cases where one of the couple (especially the wife) wants to marry the other (obviously and officially), then this couple needs to get a divorce first.

(13) One of the spouses has violated (gross) religious rules (which have been agreed upon), violated the agreed (oral or written) prenuptialagreement (for example not having affair or/and drinking alcohol), or has committed and act that is very disturbing or disliked (hated) by the partner (eg. consuming drugs, alcohol, etc..). Of course, the real reason for this is rarely revealed. To cover this reason, some people say the lack of communication or the level of love that doesn't exist anymore.


Discussion:

Some people say that the communication gap (miss comm or lack of communication) between husband and wife (for example due to differences in wealth, education, insight, and association) is also one of the causes, factors, or reasons for divorce. Nonetheles, this seems odd, weird, or biased. Because, in general, communication gap (regardless of the cause) occur at the beginning of the meeting. If this was declared to be a big problem, then they would take this issue with it on the spot and they wouldn't get married. When a marriage occurs, it means that they think there is no communication gap between them. Then, after living together for a while, normally, the communication would get better; more tolerant between them. Therefore, it is strange if the communication gap is used as a reason for divorce. Of course, I still have a good opinion that the communication gap could be used as an excuse, but it means that this communication gap is a "result". So, the real reason, in this case, was not disclosed. Anyway, they want to divorce immediately in the name of "communication gap" or "miss communication"; misleading reason, but seem more elegant and common.

Similar to the above, some people say that one of the reasons for divorce is that their love (for their partner) has disappeared (lack of love); family life without love. This reason is of course a bit strange, it seems not the real reason; although it might happen. This reason is often used by some people (husband or wife) who want to divorce immerdiately because he/she has started loving someone else.They want to divorce in the name of "the lack of love". Misleading reason, but it seems more elegant.

Reflecting on the points above, there are several reasons for couples to divorce. Some of these reasons are highly interrelated; some of them may form a causal-loop.
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There are many reasons why couples may choose to divorce, and it's important to note that each divorce is unique and can be caused by a combination of factors. Here are five common reasons why couples may choose to divorce: 

 -Infidelity: When one or both spouses engage in an extramarital affair, it can cause significant emotional pain and damage to the trust and intimacy in the relationship. 

-Communication problems: When couples are unable to communicate effectively, it can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and a breakdown in the relationship. 

 -Financial problems: When couples face financial difficulties or disagreements over money, it can cause stress, tension, and resentment in the relationship. 

 -Incompatibility: Sometimes couples may simply grow apart over time, or may realize that they have fundamental differences that are irreconcilable. 

 -Domestic violence or abuse: When one spouse is physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive towards the other, it can create a dangerous and toxic environment that may require divorce to ensure safety and well-being. 

 It's worth noting that these are just a few examples, and there are many other reasons why couples may choose to divorce.
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Communication problems: lack of communication or poor communication may lead to divorce. Couples who find it difficult to express their feelings, work together and solve problems may end up in a divorce.
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There are numerous reasons why couples may choose to divorce, some of which include:

1. Infidelity: Cheating is one of the most common reasons for divorce. It can lead to a breakdown of trust and communication between partners.

2. Incompatibility: Sometimes, couples simply grow apart or realize that they have different values, interests, or goals. This can lead to feelings of resentment and a lack of emotional connection.

3. Communication breakdown: Communication is essential in any relationship, and when it breaks down, it can cause misunderstandings, conflicts, and eventually, a breakdown of the relationship.

4. Financial problems: Financial issues, such as debt, overspending, or financial infidelity, can put a significant strain on a relationship and lead to divorce.

5. Domestic abuse: Any form of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse can be grounds for divorce. It is a serious issue that can lead to long-lasting emotional and psychological trauma for the victim.
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The conflict between husband and wife,stressful relationship,difference in perspectives etc.there is no commitment with one another.Infedility and lack of faith intimacy problems.
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There are many reasons why couples get divorced or experience marriage problems, and each situation is unique. Here are five common reasons that can contribute to a marriage breakdown:

Infidelity: Cheating or having an affair is a common cause of divorce. When one partner is unfaithful, it can lead to a breakdown of trust and communication in the relationship.

Communication problems: Poor communication can cause misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and a lack of intimacy in a relationship. Over time, these problems can escalate and lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

Money issues: Financial problems, such as debt, overspending, or disagreements about how to manage money, can put a strain on a marriage. Money problems can lead to arguments, stress, and feelings of resentment between partners.

Compatibility issues: Sometimes, couples simply grow apart over time. Differences in personality, interests, and goals can create tension and conflict in a relationship, making it difficult for partners to stay connected.

Domestic abuse: Physical or emotional abuse is a serious issue that can lead to divorce. In situations where one partner is abusive, it can be unsafe and unhealthy to remain in the relationship.

It's important to note that these are just a few examples of the many factors that can contribute to the breakdown of a marriage, and every situation is unique. Seeking professional help from a counselor or therapist can often help couples work through their problems and find a way to rebuild their relationship.
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  • Infidelity  When one or both partners are unfaithful, it can lead to serious trust issues and can be a major factor in the breakdown of a marriage.
  • Financial Issues  When couples are unable to manage their finances or have disagreements over money, it can cause major stress and tension in a marriage.
  • Lack of Communication  When couples are unable to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts, it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship.
  • Abuse  Physical, emotional, or verbal abuse can be a major factor in the breakdown of a marriage.
  • Growing Apart Over time, couples may find that their interests, values, and goals have changed, leading to a disconnect and ultimately to divorce.
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Five reasons for divorce are;

Lack of communication

Lack of commitments

Infidelity

Cheating

Betrayals

Inconsistency

Stealing and so on.

All these above can cause divorce in marriage
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Infidelity, communication problems, financial conflicts, incompatibility, and abuse are common reasons for divorce, affecting couples' trust, compatibility, and overall marital happiness.
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From my wealth of knowledge I know and understand that the main reasons for a divorce in a marriage are no children,low communication, cheating, lack of trust.
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There could be various reasons for divorce of a couple. Few of them are: 

1 -lack of communication 

2- lack of trust 

3- abuse 

4- family reasons

These are only few but there could be more than these.
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Marriage crash because of lack of love and understanding. People go into marriage because of several interest which does not bother on love. And when the object of interest is gone, there is every likelihood the marriage will crash. 
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