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answered by LEGEND (6,086 points) 3 27 50
To be honest, I only know that man is for woman and woman is for man. God created me as woman so I should go for a man. They say that anything that is happening like same sex marriage is abnormal, but who can speak with people's real happiness. Real happiness cannot be bought in a grocery store. If it can be bought somewhere then surely I have a stock now. I don't agree that they should be married because they are of the same age, but I cannot stop them and their happiness. They are really brave in fighting for real love that they had found so I only give them the highest respect and happiness. I don't want to judge but surely I am still not go for it. I just wish that their decision is right and for pure happiness indeed. I am not too bothered by this.
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answered by ELITE (3,663 points) 7 14 56
It's not an issue for me at all but at least nowadays it is open to public. Unlike long time ago, the LGBT  keep fighting for their right and now they have it. We are human and as a human we have all the rights to do what best for us and to show who we really are. I have a close friend of mine who is about to get married with her same sex partner, and I have another friend of friends being married to the same sex. So, basically the society now is very open to it and there is acceptance. There is no problem with it because I believe that they have freedom to do what they want as long as they don't do any harm to the society. Even Ellen D her wife is same as hers, so why stopping this people when they can get married with the person that they love even if its just same sex marriage.
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answered by VISIONARY (9,009 points) 7 17 69
In issues like this my Christian teachings will always kick in no matter how it will be explained to me.i can't never agree to this lifestyle and way of life.But come to think it,is it even normal to date and marry the same sex.Even in science we are taught that opposite attract so why would one be attracted to the same sex. God is against same sex marriage so I'm I. I will never be a party to same sex marriage it way out of God's and nature injuctions.


This is why many ladies are husbandless,the husband that would have married them are getting hitched to another person's husband too. The only way we can pleased God is by listening to his instructions which is having our own Adam or Eve not Eve getting another Eve same with a man.
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answered by LEGEND (6,021 points) 6 13 26
I don't agree with same sex marriage. I can never agree with that but still, I try as much as possible not to judge them even when my morals says otherwise. I'm having a tough time not judging and at the same time not supporting it.
I don't understand how these feelings they have  can be do distinct from normal. Is it even safe to call it abnormal? They say that normal is overrated. I reason that same sex love, relationship and marriage is a sin before God. So is fornication, stealing, lies, etc. So just because our sins are different from theirs doesn't make it more or less a sin.
All judgement is for God alone and I think that as humans, we should respect everyone regardless of what they are as long as they aren't hurting others.
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answered by ELITE (3,009 points) 3 8 16
My belief and moral up bringing couple with my level of exposure it is not a good idea. God in his infinity Mercy created Man and woman for a purpose, God promotes marriage between man and woman in so many scriptures of the Holy Books but I have never seen anywhere where same sex marriages is promoted by God. It is so funny and annoying at the same time because if same sex marriages had been promoted I am sure those practising it now won't even be alive to do that because same sex marriages can never produce a child.
The medical implication of sex marriages can lead to untimely death because it more of pain than pleasure that they derive and psychologically they are not always looking normal. I don't support and I pray God intervene.
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answered by ELITE (3,221 points) 5 12 23
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I think i've come a long way in understanding why we have gay people in the society. Gay life was mostly a thing of western countries, or so I thought while I was growing up. And as such, i felt it was just one of many negative immoral behaviors obviously enjoyed by westernerns. But as I grew older, i began to notice the same behaviors exhibited by people around me. I couldn't help but do a proper research on the subject.

During the course of my research, I came to understand that human psychology which revolves around sexual orientation are categorize into three groups. Heterosexual is the medically accepted standard for humans. It's defined as having emotional, romantic or sexual attractions to the opposite sex. More than 85% percent of humans are naturally born with heterosexual traits. This is the reason why it's both medically and psychologically accepted as the normal and standard sexual orientation of humans. Anything below this point, automatically falls below standards and becomes unacceptable with perspective of normality.

Gay/lesbian (having emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to one's own sex) and bisexual ( having emotional, romantic and sexual attraction to both sex) happens to fall below standards with less than 15% of human population naturally born with those traits. From the perspective of health and human psychology, these sets of people lack proper sexual orientation and are classified as abnormal. What this simply means is that gay/lesbian and bisexual people suffer from certain hormonal defects, as much as they hate to admit it.

Drawing from the above, i've come to realize that having gay/lesbian and bisexual people is of normal circumstances. They didn't choose to be that way, they were simply born that way. And since they're faced with a medical condition, i can live with the fact that other people do not have the same sexual desires as the majority of people. But I still do not subscribe to same sex marriage. Just like I said above, such people suffer from a medical condition and should engage in clinical activities to help correct their defects instead of furthering the condition by having same sex marriage.
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answered by ELITE (3,008 points) 4 13 28
On a lighter note, I believe that the same sex marriage can be linked to a situation where these people came across being marginalized and it is not fair. While I am someone that is in support of a marriage between a man and a woman, I believe that we should allow those that wants to gay to live their lives.

There is nothing that can be done to make them come out of this situation unless it is that situation where they are being made to change by God hands and mercy. It is not something that making harsh laws will make them to change from as well. There is this belief that they are doing things that is wrong, which I agree, but as long as they are not going against some fundamental Human Rights, we shouldn't be pushing them against the wall.

With love, we can make them all change from being gay to being straight beings once more.

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