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Do you agree with same sex marriage?

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To be honest, I only know that man is for woman and woman is for man. God created me as woman so I should go for a man. They say that anything that is happening like same sex marriage is abnormal, but who can speak with people's real happiness. Real happiness cannot be bought in a grocery store. If it can be bought somewhere then surely I have a stock now. I don't agree that they should be married because they are of the same age, but I cannot stop them and their happiness. They are really brave in fighting for real love that they had found so I only give them the highest respect and happiness. I don't want to judge but surely I am still not go for it. I just wish that their decision is right and for pure happiness indeed. I am not too bothered by this.
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I totally and fully agree with you for your firm stand to defend Christianity.
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I don't agree with same sex marriage. I can never agree with that but still, I try as much as possible not to judge them even when my morals says otherwise. I'm having a tough time not judging and at the same time not supporting it.
I don't understand how these feelings they have  can be do distinct from normal. Is it even safe to call it abnormal? They say that normal is overrated. I reason that same sex love, relationship and marriage is a sin before God. So is fornication, stealing, lies, etc. So just because our sins are different from theirs doesn't make it more or less a sin.
All judgement is for God alone and I think that as humans, we should respect everyone regardless of what they are as long as they aren't hurting others.
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I agree with you  I don't support same sex marriage I hate it and its never allowed in my society 
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My belief and moral up bringing couple with my level of exposure it is not a good idea. God in his infinity Mercy created Man and woman for a purpose, God promotes marriage between man and woman in so many scriptures of the Holy Books but I have never seen anywhere where same sex marriages is promoted by God. It is so funny and annoying at the same time because if same sex marriages had been promoted I am sure those practising it now won't even be alive to do that because same sex marriages can never produce a child.
The medical implication of sex marriages can lead to untimely death because it more of pain than pleasure that they derive and psychologically they are not always looking normal. I don't support and I pray God intervene.
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When God created Adam and Even he was setting an example that man should marry a woman
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In issues like this my Christian teachings will always kick in no matter how it will be explained to me.i can't never agree to this lifestyle and way of life.But come to think it,is it even normal to date and marry the same sex.Even in science we are taught that opposite attract so why would one be attracted to the same sex. God is against same sex marriage so I'm I. I will never be a party to same sex marriage it way out of God's and nature injuctions.


This is why many ladies are husbandless,the husband that would have married them are getting hitched to another person's husband too. The only way we can pleased God is by listening to his instructions which is having our own Adam or Eve not Eve getting another Eve same with a man.
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Congratulations for your answer and firm stand against gay marriage.
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I think i've come a long way in understanding why we have gay people in the society. Gay life was mostly a thing of western countries, or so I thought while I was growing up. And as such, i felt it was just one of many negative immoral behaviors obviously enjoyed by westernerns. But as I grew older, i began to notice the same behaviors exhibited by people around me. I couldn't help but do a proper research on the subject.

During the course of my research, I came to understand that human psychology which revolves around sexual orientation are categorize into three groups. Heterosexual is the medically accepted standard for humans. It's defined as having emotional, romantic or sexual attractions to the opposite sex. More than 85% percent of humans are naturally born with heterosexual traits. This is the reason why it's both medically and psychologically accepted as the normal and standard sexual orientation of humans. Anything below this point, automatically falls below standards and becomes unacceptable with perspective of normality.

Gay/lesbian (having emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to one's own sex) and bisexual ( having emotional, romantic and sexual attraction to both sex) happens to fall below standards with less than 15% of human population naturally born with those traits. From the perspective of health and human psychology, these sets of people lack proper sexual orientation and are classified as abnormal. What this simply means is that gay/lesbian and bisexual people suffer from certain hormonal defects, as much as they hate to admit it.

Drawing from the above, i've come to realize that having gay/lesbian and bisexual people is of normal circumstances. They didn't choose to be that way, they were simply born that way. And since they're faced with a medical condition, i can live with the fact that other people do not have the same sexual desires as the majority of people. But I still do not subscribe to same sex marriage. Just like I said above, such people suffer from a medical condition and should engage in clinical activities to help correct their defects instead of furthering the condition by having same sex marriage.
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You have given a very long but you have come to a very good conclusion.
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On a lighter note, I believe that the same sex marriage can be linked to a situation where these people came across being marginalized and it is not fair. While I am someone that is in support of a marriage between a man and a woman, I believe that we should allow those that wants to gay to live their lives.

There is nothing that can be done to make them come out of this situation unless it is that situation where they are being made to change by God hands and mercy. It is not something that making harsh laws will make them to change from as well. There is this belief that they are doing things that is wrong, which I agree, but as long as they are not going against some fundamental Human Rights, we shouldn't be pushing them against the wall.

With love, we can make them all change from being gay to being straight beings once more.
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I am very broad minded and do not have a problem with same sex marriage. I have friend who is married to his male partner. All I ever wanted for him was to be happy so I have no problem with them being married. It's called a civil partnership here in the UK.

 
People seem to think that being gay is a lifestyle choice but it really isn't. Research has shown that sexual identity starts in the womb so a person does not choose to be gay it is already predetermined. Why should he/she be judged for that?
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No. It's natural one. Woman seek man. Men seek Women. This type of gender marriage is good. Normal and Natural Marriage. I don't believe or like same sex marriage. 
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I do not agree with same sex marriage because it does not conform with the laws of nature. The law demands two opposite couples to come together for the purpose of love, procreation, learning and assisting each together. It is like negative and positive which enables the instrument to work.  
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Marriage is both ubiquitous and central. All across our country, in every region, every social class, every race and ethnicity, every religion or non-religion, people get married. For many if not most people, moreover, marriage is not a trivial matter. It is a key to the pursuit of happiness, something people aspire to—and keep aspiring to, again and again, even when their experience has been far from happy. To be told “You cannot get married” is thus to be excluded from one of the defining rituals of the American life cycle.

The keys to the kingdom of the married might have been held only by private citizens—religious bodies and their leaders, families, other parts of civil society. So it has been in many societies throughout history. In the United States, however, as in most modern nations, government holds those keys. Even if people have been married by their church or religious group, they are not married in the sense that really counts for social and political purposes unless they have been granted a marriage license by the state. Unlike private actors, however, the state doesn’t have complete freedom to decide who may and may not marry. The state’s involvement raises fundamental issues about equality of political and civic standing.

Same-sex marriage is currently one of the most divisive political issues in our nation. In November 2008, Californians passed Proposition 8, a referendum that removed the right to marry from same-sex couples who had been granted that right by the courts. This result has been seen by the same-sex community as deeply degrading. More recently, Iowa and Vermont have legalized same-sex marriage, the former through judicial interpretation of the state constitution, the latter through legislation. Analyzing this issue will help us understand what is happening in our country, and where we might go from here.

Before we approach the issue of same-sex marriage, we must define marriage. But marriage, it soon becomes evident, is no single thing. It is plural in both content and meaning. The institution of marriage houses and supports several distinct aspects of human life: sexual relations, friendship and companionship, love, conversation, procreation and child-rearing, mutual responsibility.
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It's not an issue for me at all but at least nowadays it is open to public. Unlike long time ago, the LGBT  keep fighting for their right and now they have it. We are human and as a human we have all the rights to do what best for us and to show who we really are. I have a close friend of mine who is about to get married with her same sex partner, and I have another friend of friends being married to the same sex. So, basically the society now is very open to it and there is acceptance. There is no problem with it because I believe that they have freedom to do what they want as long as they don't do any harm to the society. Even Ellen D her wife is same as hers, so why stopping this people when they can get married with the person that they love even if its just same sex marriage.
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You have a right to do what makes happy but remember not to offend your Creator.
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No, I don't agree with the same sex marriage because same sex marriage is never related with love, but rather it is about sin, perversion, lust and violation of gods plan and design.
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It would be wrong to say that a person cannot marry someone just because they are not of the opposite sex. The court's ruling makes clear that clergy and religious organization are not obliged to perform a same-sex marriage.
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God forbid. The stuff to me creates confusion. There is a sacred reason why God created living things male and female. Plus it how can they bear children successfully without complications. There is even monkeypox out now and I hear it is among gays and lesbians.
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Am totally against it reason been that if two people love themselves why the hurry if love move quickly to sexual urge then it not love at all.
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I do not agree with such marriage because as a christian i believe GOD created man for the woman and not the other way round, if i have the power i would stop it.
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I think that if two people love one another and understand their relationship and feel it is sound then they should marry. People who hide their feelings can really miss out on a lot in life. You only go through this life once and real love doesn't happen that often.
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That is a personal opinion and it is up to each individual to decide how they feel about same sex marriage.

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Am a Christian and strictly following Holy Bible teachings.i will never agree or accept same sex marriage so long as it's against Christianity and God's teachings.
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i do not at all support any of this. There is no science nor religion that has actually proven that this exists. I have not read anything that actually explains why same sex should be intimate. Look for example our sexual reproductive organs, They way they are created, it clearly shows that only opposite sex should get intimate. That is religiously and scientifically proven. But matters of the same sex do not in any way make sense to me. I can not even try to explain how a man can marry a man or a woman can be intimate with a fellow human. Sex has two role. The main one is for procreation; What we term in science giving rise to individuals of the same kind. This actually happens even in plants and that is one more broad reason to understand that male is for female and female for male. 
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