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Basically, he is my friends ex-boyfriend’s best friend and I like him. we met like a week ago and we started talking but nothing special. we did know each other’s existence before, but it wasn’t like we were really really talking. He’s being pretty kind and pretty good to me but I don’t know what to do. I feel like I shouldn’t do this because my friends ex boyfriend likes me. It’s not that I care a lot about his feelings but I don’t want him to be hurt because he was hurt before by my best friend. But I don’t know how to break it down to him and tell him “I don’t like you”. Also, the ex-boyfriend is more obvious about his feelings(that he likes me) while my crush is doing small things but nothing that could be taken seriously as a sign that he likes me. What should I do?


P.S.1 we did go out two times with my crush (And others) and we’re planning on going to the movies so it’s not like it’s really easy for us to go meet up or something

P.S.2 we have two weeks of school so I have to do some thing like right now

P.S. 3 I have to somehow win him over and make him my friend or start talking with him because for now I can’t just go to the ex-boyfriend and tell him that I don’t like him. If I do my crush is gonna stop talking to me (if he doesn’t have mutual feelings) because that ex-boyfriend that likes me is also our only “connection”

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The following are some general tips that may help you:

1. Start by getting to know him better: Talk to him, find out more about his interests and hobbies, and spend some time together. You can initiate conversations through text or social media platforms.

2. Be confident: Being confident and showing interest is key. Smile, make eye contact, and let him know that you are interested in him.

3. Take it Slow: Don't try to rush things, love takes time. Enjoy this phase of getting to know someone new.

4. Be yourself: Be true to yourself, don't pretend to be someone else to impress him. 

5. Take the first step: If all else fails, muster the courage to take the first step and tell him how you feel. Honestly is the best policy in relationships.

Remember, when it comes to relationships, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Trust your instincts and do what feels right for you.
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If you like someone, the best thing you can do is to be honest with them. Consider expressing your feelings and see if they feel the same way. However, it's also important to respect their response and boundaries. If they don't feel the same way or aren't interested in pursuing a relationship, it's important to be understanding and give them space. It's important to remember that not everyone will reciprocate our feelings, but that doesn't make them any less valuable as a person or friend. Ultimately, the most important thing is to take care of yourself and do what feels right for you.
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Start with the level of friendship, get to understand him better, know the things he likes and dislikes. From conversations you can establish what he likes and dislikes, get him a gift to show him some likeness and appreciation. 
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It sounds like you have a difficult situation to navigate. It's important to be honest with yourself and with all of the people involved.


First, it's important to consider the feelings of your friends ex-boyfriend. It's understandable that you don't want to hurt him, but it's important to be honest with him about your feelings.


Second, it's important to consider your own feelings. If you like this guy, you should be honest with him about it. You don't need to rush into anything, but you can start by getting to know him better.


Finally, it's important to be aware of the potential consequences of your actions. If you pursue a relationship with this guy, it could have a negative impact on your relationship with your friend's ex-boyfriend.


It's up to you to decide what to do, but it's important to be honest and considerate of everyone involved.<3

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If you have feelings for someone and want to explore a potential relationship. here are a few step you can consider: 1. Evaluate your feelings, 2. Build a friendship, 3. Show interest and flirt subtly, 4. Communicate your feelings, 5. Respects their response, 6. Take care of yourself. Remember, there's no guaranteed formula for success in matters of the heart. It's important to be genuine, patient, and understanding throughout the process, Good Luck!
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If you saw a guy that you like, don't stay and be dieing in silence. Make a chance to talk to him about how you feel about him.then two of you can go a long way.
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You should probably make him you friend first let you get to Know yourselves better let him see the kind of person that you are then frame his friend which is your ex into doing something that will stop his friendship with your crush then you are free to do anything other thing with your crush.
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First know him better, give some time, be patient and then if you feel that you can step forward disclose your feelings in front of him.
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