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He is terribly mad after me, I think I must move from here. I feel yes.. something is going to happen wrong with me. I can't sleep.... I must move from from this place.. ohh god
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Do you want to close your affair or do you want to end it? Why not talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel? Has he been hurting you?
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If you want close your affair why the panicking? Stay calm and talk things over with your partner. If it is something that can be settled, both of you should agree at resolving the issue, but if isn't let the break up be done amicably.

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Relationships are difficult and men or women can turn so easily. This is not something to be taken lightly if you feel like your life is in danger and your boyfriend is out to hurt you. The first thing you need to do is check all your doors and windows to make sure they are locked. Pull down all your curtains or blinds so he can't see into your home. Make sure that you keep all the lights off near the windows so he can't see if you are at home or not.

If you hear him outside your home, call the police immediately and tell them you are in danger and someone is trying to break into your home. Locate a safe place in your home that you might be able to hide in if he happens to get into your home. Keep your cell phone with you at all times in case he gets in your home you can call the police immediately.

|Start to pack a bag to leave your home quickly. If you have family nearby go and stay with them. Otherwise, you'll need to find a friend you can go and stay with. Go to the police station and file a complaint against him and explain what is happening and why you don't feel safe. If you have a hotline in your area for abused women, call this hotline. They can normally offer a secure location and shelter for people who are being abused or are in danger.

One thing for sure, don't answer his calls if he calls you. Just let it ring and go to your voicemail account. You might need to update all your social media account and take down all your photos online. You don't want him to find you. If you go to a safe location, don't let anyone know where you are at. They might end up telling him if he comes around asking.

I hope you'll be safe and do all you can to leave where you're living right now until the situation calms down and he leaves you alone.
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Thanks for your response. Really it would help her to overcome the problems. 
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I was about to write the same answer but i found that you have answered the same and in a very perfect way , thanks a lot brother for your help.
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Hey, where are you staying now? I think you are in an extreme danger. If you are in your residence call the emergency number as soon as possible. This is not the time for playing around the internet. You must find a way to stay away from his eyes. What is the thing making you scare at this moment? If you are there reply now or find a place to hide.
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Go for a facebook live
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I am sure I am safe till this morning but I don't know how to escape.. He is making harm to me
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I am afraid I am alone
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PM me after two hours. I will give you a guidance. Now I am watching Argentina's match. Be cool !
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I was looking for a perfect answer and this was it. You have a good knowledge about this topic, helped me a lot , thnku you
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Relax.. Don't feel that you are alone. Be sure to close the door and have some water nd just relax.. Call security and ask for help and advice. You have to wait up to the earliest morning. Call your best friend who can help you in this situation pack up your items and get ready to move from the place.
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OK ok.. Am doing the same. Searching my friend list. Our security is a good person. He is now with me.
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OK ok thanks for the support I will be back tomorrow morning. Yz I got the solution thanks for helping me. Thanks
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OK my dear. All the best...
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Thanks a lot brother for this amazing answer.

It was very helpful , seems that you have good knowledge of this topic, thank you
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It can be difficult to end an affair and it can be especially difficult if the other person is angry and you fear for your safety. The most important thing is to make sure you are safe and have a plan in place to protect yourself. You should consider talking to someone you trust, such as a family member, friend, or other support person who can help you make a plan. If necessary, you may need to seek professional help or contact the police if you feel threatened or unsafe. Take the necessary steps to protect yourself and your loved ones.
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You need to take everything simple.If you really want to end the affair then you and your partner should agree to that,you need to sit down and discuss over the matter so that if you both decide to end the relationship it will all be settled.

You just can't move on and make him assume that you're still together only that you still mad over each other.Decide on what's going to be best for the both of you.
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If you want to close your affair, just talk with him. Communication is the only way to solve this kind of issues. Talk to him. Express your feelings. Listen to his feelings too. Then take the final decision.
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Before jumping into a conclusion, it is better to tall to him. A heart-to-heart talk can do the trick. Getting away from a relationship is not easy and the love can still be there. We cannot afford to end a relationship without any closures. You cannot move on if it wasn't that clear. Think about it and if it doesn't work out, then that's time to move on and undergo the grieving stage.
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Being in danger is not right at all to be in panic. You need to calm down and not let out your feelings of anger or expression that would do more harm. Find a place and a friend who can help you get out of that worse situation. All the best. 
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There is always a reason for any thing, if you really wants to close your affair that bad, i will advise you talk to your partner about it and discuss your reason.
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It sounds like you're in a very difficult situation and need to take some decisive action to protect yourself and your safety. It is important to remember that you are not responsible for his reaction or his behaviour and that you are not obligated to stay in a situation that is making you feel unsafe.

The first step should be to make sure you are in a safe environment and that you have a plan. Do you have a safe place to go? Is there someone you can stay with or is there a shelter you can access if necessary?

Once you are in a safe place, it is important to take steps to protect yourself from further contact with this person. You should consider changing your phone number, blocking them on any social media accounts, and avoiding any places you think they may be.

It would also be helpful to reach out to a mental health professional for support and resources. A therapist can help you work through any feelings of guilt, fear, or other difficult emotions that may arise from this situation.

Finally, if you are in an immediate danger, contact the police. It is important for you to take action and protect yourself.
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you hear him outside your home, call the police immediately and tell them you are in danger and someone is trying to break into your home. Locate a safe place in your home that you might be able to hide in if he happens to get into your home. Keep your cell phone with you at all times in case he gets in your home you can call the police immediately.
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