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I am a bachelor. I don't know what is better love marriage or arrange marriage?  please suggest me...
replied by LEGEND (5,611 points) 2 10 28
Does arranged marriage part of your society? There are arranged marriage that they love their future husband or wife, but I still go to love marriage because I want to be happy despite challenges of life. 
replied by ELITE (4,673 points) 3 9 21
Love marriage wins it anytime anyway. With love marriage, you can be rest assured that you're spending the rest of your life with somebody you share emotional ties with. Unlike arranged marriage where you can barely vouch for the person you married, because you don't know a thing about him/her before you guys got married.

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Today many marriages based on love end in divorce, while many arranged marriage never ends in a divorce. Some cultures will never change and will always think it is best to arrange the marriage of their child. In some ways, this is great for the parents because they are picking their new in-laws.

I have never actually agreed with an arranged marriage and I feel sorry for the children involved. Parent's seem to think they know what is best for their children, but they have never asked them what they want. In America, mail order brides were outdated years ago and women were given a choice of who they wanted to marry.

When a person decides to get married they need to consider many things. Do you actually feel like you want to share your life with this woman and settle down and have a family? Does she feel the same way you do? You also need to be sure that you have common interests, want the same things out of life, and you are willing to give up your free life and settle down and have a family. If this is the case then it is a good idea to find a person that you love deeply and are willing to give her all of you and she is willing to do the same in return. Otherwise, it is best to have your marriage arranged for you and take it one day at a time.
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Both have pros and cons. It all depends on the personalty and character of yourself and your partner. The answer can only found after when you get to know your partner in deeper level once starts living together.
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That depend upon your society, cast and nationality. Love marriage is not possible in some countries like Pakistan, some part of India and some undeveloped countries where cast and religion dictates.
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The only thing that matters in a marriage is that the partners agree on division of responsibilities. How they divide them does not matter, only that they agree. Most people have no clear idea what "love" means, so there is not much point in discussing that subject.

Among the Navajo tribes in Arizona, a boy who liked a girl might give her a fish that he caught. If she liked him, she might cook it and give it back. Thousands of boys and girls married and raised families with no more experience than that. Except of course that they had learned by watching how Daddy and Mommy treat each other.
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Doesn't matter if it's love marriage or arranged marriage, the most important is when opposite sex bound together or married as time goes by they will know every little details about themselves and they will learn how to adjust to their weakness and discover more interesting things... Then, that's the time when they realize if they are really meant for each other.
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answered by LEGEND (6,391 points) 5 9 21
I trust I love marriage.Arranged marriage can really ruin you because this is a person you've never known and you'll have to adjust and force yourself into loving her and it will take you quite some time to build trust on her.

On the contrary,planned marriages can be good since your parentsknow the girl and in case of anything they'll be responsible and it wllalso strengthen the relationship between the two families of the man and the woman.

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