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How can we show our kids greater amount of love without spoiling them? 
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I don't know if that is possible, because my understanding of pampering is spoiling someone.. So if there is a way i may not be aware. When you pamper someone you are giving them whatever they want regardless of how you feel about what they want.

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The relationship that exists between the parents and the kids is something that we should always have a strong thought about. I have always said that parents should be careful the way that they treat their kids in the sense that when you are too harsh on them, you are definitely teaching them that they can behave the way that they want which will broad in stubbornness.

Also, when the parents shows too much love to the kids, you get to see that it is going to make the kids look spoilt and disrespectful to even elders of the community. One thing that I always do when I am with the kid is to improve the communication level to push through their emotions. I flog my little siblings with cane when they misbehave and when they perform better, I always find a gift to celebrate them. Keeping this kind of balance is something that will definitely help them to remain aware of the wrongs and right in the family.
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You're right I think what they kids needs Is a balance.And parents should try to create this. Let the kids know they will be rewarded for both good and bad deeds.
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Very true and adequate people should start opening there eyes and seeing things this way.when the parent shows too much love it makes the kids look spoilt.
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  • 1. Spend quality time with them. Set aside some time each day to focus on your child and engage in activities they enjoy. 
  • 2. Offer words of encouragement. Praise your child for effort, not just results. 
  • 3. Show physical affection. Give your child hugs and kisses, and let them know you love them.
  • 4. Give them choices. Allow your child the opportunity to make certain decisions, such as what to wear or what to eat. 
  • 5. Help them with responsibilities. Encourage your child to help out with chores and daily tasks. 
  • 6. Offer rewards. Consider giving your child rewards for completing tasks or achieving goals. 
  • 7. Allow them to make mistakes. Let your child learn from their mistakes and guide them in making better decisions. 
  • 8. Respect their privacy. Provide a safe space for your child to express themselves and give them the freedom to explore their interests. 
  • 9. Engage in meaningful conversations. Ask your child open-ended questions and listen to their responses. 
  • 10. Laugh together. Share funny stories and jokes, and enjoy some light-hearted moments with your child.
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Our children doesn't really need material things to make them happy or to satisfy the attention they needed from us. As a parent, a hug, kisses, cuddles and playing time with our children is the best yet priceless can give without spoiling them. At young children, most of them are vulnerable and just learning and developing how they manage or control their feelings. When you see your child's eyes, you can read if they are sad or happy or if there is something bothering them. Our children needs more of our attention when at young, and needed guidance when they are getting older.

If you see your child, talk to them, and ask them how they feel,how their days going, it's simple but it makes them think that you recognize them. When they have tantrum, it is hard to handle this type of situation,but make sure you have to calm yourself,and bring your child into a private room, where to of you can talk. Sometimes get tantrum because they are overtired, bored, and or they are just hungry or thirsty.

To become a parent is not easy but its rewarding.
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I totally agree with you,it shouldn't always be about materials things. We can pamper our kids in.other ways without spoiling them. 
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To become a parent isn't easy indeed but it is rewarding in the end.That is quite a positive mindset and perspective it will keep you optimistic no matter the situation.
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I think one of the challenges that parents face is how to discipline their children, show them love and not spoil them at the same time. Sometimes you'd find that some parents over do one part and leave the rest out.

I think the key is communication. Children are much more smarter than we think and they can take in a lot. While we let children be children, we should always try to explain to them the reality of situations. The goods and bad and the reason they have to obey.

It is better when someone is told the reason they have to do something and not do it mindlessly. Most of all always let them know that whatever you do is because you love them. Do not spare them the lessons of life. They can also share your little pains once in a while.
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Yea,ccommunication helps alot. It will make the children see and understand things from the parents perspective which is the best. 
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I now see how the key is communication.By reading this I have managed to add up on my knowledge about this topic this is very useful information about the topic.
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when the parents shows too much love to the kids, you get to see that it is going to make the kids look spoilt and disrespectful to even elders of the community. One thing that I always do when I am with the kid is to improve the communication level to push through their emotions. I flog my little siblings with cane when they misbehave and when they perform better, I always find a gift to celebrate them. Keeping this kind of balance is something that will definitely help them to remain aware of the wrongs and right in the family.relationship that exists between the parents and the kids is something that we should always have a strong thought about. I have always said that parents should be careful the way that they treat their kids in the sense that when you are too harsh on them, you are definitely teaching them that they can behave the way that they want which will broad in stubbornness.image

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Rewarding them when they do well and punishing them when they do bad is the way to making them even better.
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The best way is to take care of them,show them love and keep them on the right track protect them from the dangers of the world and by doing this the child will become outstanding.
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Well said, i hope you take care of your kid like this . but there are parents who didn't like girl child and not ready to look after too
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Encourage positive behavior by rewarding good deeds such as buying them what they have always desired. Nurturing them in a proper and acceptable norms so as to grow into responsible adults 
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You can show love for the kids without giving them material gifts as a reward most of the time if they are doing good deeds or being a good child. To teach them the right values of being kids like sharing their personal belongings that they don't use with other children like clothes, toys, and shoes. Doing good to others makes them much better kids. Being appreciative and thankful will help their kids understand as good children many will love them back also for all the nice values they have learned as they grow.
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Pampering a child is giving a close attention to him or her. You do not need to overdo the reward system. Overdoing it means you are creating a spoiled brat in the future.
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Some ways to pamper kids without spoiling them include spending quality time with them, giving experiences instead of material items, setting boundaries and limits, encouraging gratitude and kindness, and promoting a strong work ethic and sense of responsibility. This helps to instill healthy values and habits while still showing your child love and attention.
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1. Make it a regular habit to do nothing but play with your kid. This will help them learn to be comfortable around others, and make their ordinary lives a joy.

2. Make sure they have plenty of open space to explore, and don't leave them alone when they're not old enough to drink or wear clothes of their own. This will help them develop their social skills as well as their physical skills.

3. Make sure they're getting the right amounts of sleep, and make sure to keep them as active as possible. By doing things like playing games or doing creative projects in addition to their normal activities, your kid will be able to learn and grow.
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Raising kids is like a balance trick. Too much weight on one side of the beam is bad. both beams need to be balanced. Kids should never get everything they want. They need to learn that things don't just get handed to you in life. One must earn or work hard for what they want. There is a big difference between letting your kids enjoy life and being able to get rewarded with certain things and just giving them whatever they want. If you give them whatever they want whenever they want they will not have any sort of respect. 
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The best ways to pamper kids without spoiling them are.

1. Not harrassing kids 

2. Advising and guiding them 

3. Counseling and teaching them 

4. Correcting their mistakes 

5. Respecting their private 

6. Supporting them financially 
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