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When I was walking in town today I went into a shop in town and a man said "bloody hell" at me. What does that mean? I get weird remarks all the time in town, sometimes they're good and sometimes theyre bad and its awful for my anxiety; it gets my overly paranoid. I get told I'm pretty by my male friends but when I'm outside it's a mixed bag. I seem to attract a lot of attention for some reason, be it what a guy is saying is rude or a compliment. Sometimes peoplepwalk in the strert and they dont get any remarks whatsoever, idk what makes me stick outoso much that men specifically feel the need to imply im ugly or pretty. Do men do that and what did it mean when that guy randomly said bloody hell at me? I dress pretty normal. I'm not exactly the ugliest person on the face of this planet, I don't have a clue. Could I have a males view on this? 

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The best thing to do is to ignore anything that you hear. Sometimes, it's probably something else that they're exclaiming about so we can't be certain that it's intended for you. Just ignore anything you hear and don't think too much about it. You should worry when men follow or even go as far as getting physical.
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I'm not sure I understand your question though.People make fun of other people all the time.It happens to the best of us.

Firstly,you need to be comfortable in your own skin. Be proud of yourself. Low self esteem should be a foreign thing to you.Wear clothes that fits you.Don't be a slob.Cleanliness should be in your dictionary.

Secondly,you need to ignore those that are making rude remarks.Some people just get their kicks from hurting other people with abusive words.Be sure not to be the butt of everyone "s joke.Make their comments invisible and walk with your nose in the air.I'm not saying you should be cocky and brash.I'm just saying you should be confident.

Confidence comes with good dressing,cleanliness and good oral hygiene.

What you are experiencing usually happen in white countries .Their you experience racism as  a black person.Don't bother yourself with petty matters. You are beautifully designed.Never allow anybody to talk you down.y

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