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When I was walking in town today I went into a shop in town and a man said "bloody hell" at me. What does that mean? I get weird remarks all the time in town, sometimes they're good and sometimes theyre bad and its awful for my anxiety; it gets my overly paranoid. I get told I'm pretty by my male friends but when I'm outside it's a mixed bag. I seem to attract a lot of attention for some reason, be it what a guy is saying is rude or a compliment. Sometimes peoplepwalk in the strert and they dont get any remarks whatsoever, idk what makes me stick outoso much that men specifically feel the need to imply im ugly or pretty. Do men do that and what did it mean when that guy randomly said bloody hell at me? I dress pretty normal. I'm not exactly the ugliest person on the face of this planet, I don't have a clue. Could I have a males view on this? 

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There is no one answer to this question since it can vary from person to person. However, some people believe that men may say remarks to women in the street because they find them attractive or want to talk to them. Others think that men may make these remarks because they are just trying to be funny or friendly. Additionally, some people may think that men may say these remarks to women in the street because they are angry or rude.

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The best thing to do is to ignore anything that you hear. Sometimes, it's probably something else that they're exclaiming about so we can't be certain that it's intended for you. Just ignore anything you hear and don't think too much about it. You should worry when men follow or even go as far as getting physical.
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I'm not sure I understand your question though.People make fun of other people all the time.It happens to the best of us.

Firstly,you need to be comfortable in your own skin. Be proud of yourself. Low self esteem should be a foreign thing to you.Wear clothes that fits you.Don't be a slob.Cleanliness should be in your dictionary.

Secondly,you need to ignore those that are making rude remarks.Some people just get their kicks from hurting other people with abusive words.Be sure not to be the butt of everyone "s joke.Make their comments invisible and walk with your nose in the air.I'm not saying you should be cocky and brash.I'm just saying you should be confident.

Confidence comes with good dressing,cleanliness and good oral hygiene.

What you are experiencing usually happen in white countries .Their you experience racism as  a black person.Don't bother yourself with petty matters. You are beautifully designed.Never allow anybody to talk you down.y
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It's called "catcalling". Most of the time, catcalling victims are women and men mostly do that because it's tolerated in your society. However, you can do something about it. Report it on the police station, if ever there is a law already in your country that protects catcalling victims because in my country there is already. If there's none, try to talk to the person who catcalled you and ask what is his problem. I know this is kind of take a risk option but try to be brave. In that way, you can also protect other women by not tolerating that kind of personality.

In addition, I know you're doubting yourself if you're beautiful. You're beautiful, other people's opinions about you are not your problem anymore. Embrace yourself and in that way, people can no longer hurt you with their opinions about your body.
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Sometimes we say being complemented is a good thing. Am just trying to understand you, you said someone said to you bloody hell, if you did not do anything to them, why would they something so nasty. The first thing that came to mind, is maybe you were wearing something that's not appropriate, or something that looked ridiculous. That comment would only come up when something is not right. You probably need to check yourself, when you go out, what are wearing, how do you look, are you giving out signals that will make people look and wonder? Because it makes no sense for someone to come up with bad comments when you are perfectly well. There must be something peculiar about you, that either makes your fellow men disgusted or something it wouldn't be for nothing.
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No need to get anxiety over it some men dont know how to approach women, they sometimes thing the best thing to do is say something thatll catch a girls attention (which rarely ever works) best thing for you to do is ignore it.
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You can ignore those kind of comments on you. No matter whether it is good or bad comment you should ignore it completely. Not all men like this but some behave like this. 
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Men are moved by beauty and the type of cloth you put on, these two things you need to check. Try and dress properly to see if the name calling will change, then change your style of walking, add confidence to send a message to people looking. 
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You will always hear slang spoken more often than you'll see it put in writing, though...Though slang sometimes gets a bad rap for being inappropriate or incorrect, It's also...
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You should that being beautiful would attract alot of attentions especially from males and their remarks are all pointing to the fact that you are a beautiful being.
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remarks are basic weakness of women. women want to listen her admiration. so, females should be admired. there is no issue, whether on the street or on the bedroom
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It's difficult to know for sure what the man meant by saying "bloody hell" without more context. It's possible that he found you attractive or he could have been reacting to something else. Unfortunately, some people feel the need to make comments on others' appearance, but remember that it's not a reflection of your worth as a person.
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It can vary depending on the person's personal beliefs and values. Some men may walk down the street wearing "bloody hell"talent while others might not at all. Some may think it is funny while others might not. It is up to the individual to decide what they believe the "bloody hell" phrase means.
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Do men do that and what did it mean when that guy randomly said bloody hell at me? I dress pretty normal. I'm not exactly the ugliest person on the face of this planet, I don't have a clue. Could I have a males view on this? 
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The reason why men remarks ladies in the streets in because the lady is beautiful but most of the men just do I to tease you and to get your attention.
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