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Can you still be friends with your long time friend after she scammed you with big amount of money?
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its not possible to be friend with anyone if he ever sammed to you. scammer never be loyal with anyone even with their parents
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this person is most likely using "friendship" as a reason to wheedle cash favors and small opportunities from you. They've earned your trust, just to stab you in the back, and most likely don't value you as a friend - instead, they see you more like a piggy bank to take advantage of. 
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 a reason to wheedle cash favors and small opportunities from you. They've earned your trust, just to stab you in the back, and most likely don't value you as a friend - instead, they see you more like a piggy bank to take advantage of. 

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No, you cannot. If this "friend" scammed you and stole a large amount of money, you should think twice about sticking around them. One, this person is most likely using "friendship" as a reason to wheedle cash favors and small opportunities from you. They've earned your trust, just to stab you in the back, and most likely don't value you as a friend - instead, they see you more like a piggy bank to take advantage of. Furthermore, even if they honestly considered you a friend, they clearly breached on the mutual trust that should be between you two. Needless to say, your friend certainly doesn't value your relationship as much as you do if she decided to scam you. Drop her!
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I already ditched her, however, she is facing some problems right now. So I was thinking of reaching out to her but on the other hand I am afraid that she might just scam me later in life again. I just let her be.
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Yes, you should do that. Don't try to reach out, since you might sink with her, but you can let her be. Or, if you're feeling chivalrous, offer help, but no money. Any other kind of help - a shoulder to cry on, someone to help find a job, etcetera. But don't give her money again. 
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i think scammers should be hated. they should not be able to look in the eyes of friend. call the cheater in the room and say that you hate him
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A real friend should be someone you can trust with your life.Someone who cares about you and someone you know can never hurt you no matter what.

If I can't lean on someone I call a friend, then that person is not my friend.I can't be friends with a two faced individual. I can't be friends with a slimy person.

One honest truth is a friend that can scam you of a huge amount of money without considering your feelings is not your friend.Such person can kill you at the drop of a hat.

I have learnt a lot in this world.I have learnt enough to know that a friend that  can abuse your trust should not be trusted ever again. I can forgive you but I will never trust that person again and I will never be close to that person again.

I wouldn"t want such a thing to happen again and a friend who duped you today can dupe you tomorrow if given the chance. Once beaten, twice shy.
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We used to be really close. We've been friends for more than two decades. It just saddens me that our friendship is equivalent to an amount of money.
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Life itself is a teacher.I have learnt that their is nobody in this world that cannot mess up.We are all humans and we all have that sin nature. That's why I always expect the worst from people knowing fully well that we are all imperfect.
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Good point of view in the best interest of the readers reading this which widens our point of viewImpeccable answer which is quite understandable and reasonable in various percpectives.

 
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It depends on the severity of the scam. If the person scammed you with a small amount of money, then it's likely that you can still be friends. However, if the person scammed you with a large amount of money, then it would be difficult to be friends with them.

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Ask from your heart, you know very well once you got hit by someone you can't trust her again, but if you wanted to, it simply means you like or love her. Now, at this stage the question is really simple, is she loves you? Why did she scammed with you? The obvious answer is she just used you and if you trust on her she will use you again.
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Something is hidden in the middle here, it's not about friendship maybe there is oneside love in the middle, no one give large amount of money this way.
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No. I cannot. Friends should be loyal and genuine to each other. I may forgive and I couldn't able to have a friendship again. It is impossible. 
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Never, it's so hurt if someone we trust have a heart to do something bad to us. We might can forgive them but not to be friend again. Even when they have changed to be the better person, I don't want to be close again and just pray for them to stay doing good things in life.
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No I cannot since the trust that existed between us ende after scamming me. If we get back together you never know maybe she has another bigger and worse plan. So I cannot 
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No I cannot since the trust that existed between us ende after scamming me. If we get back together you never know maybe she has another bigger and worse plan. So I cannot 
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Yes. We can be friends because I believe in change. She/he may changes.his or behavior. So I am able to forgive and continue our friendship.
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Of course not, Friends are made because you share same vibes and some other stuffs that you can bear with. Money is a big necessity for us but then He/She will mock me that way? Make friends by making a business is better than making business with friends if that happened.
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This will be a BIG no for a friend who scammed me. If he or she is really a good friend, it will not happen to hurt me at all costs.
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yes i think u can but u would never have any trust in her again and would allways be waching your back forgiveness is a great thing for yourself afterall you are not the one who did wrong
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You simply can't be friends with someone like that. She obviously has shown you that she doesn't care about you nor does she respects your feelings. No one does that to the person they love.
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Yes we can be friends again after he/she realised their mistakes and even taken the action of apologizing for me.


For me as a Christian the bible denies me the ability to keep such a gradge to my heart instead I am supposed to forgive and forget.
 Not only that I am also supposed to pray for that man so that they can change for the better 
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Nothing lasts forever. Friends come and go...faux friends especially so. A real friend would not rip you off, but for a fake friend...that would be the ideal opportunity. This one may of started out as a real friend, but somewhere along the line became a fake one who just hung around for the opportunity to stab you in the back. Mission accomplished and true intention revealed.

Any problems a faux friend has is no longer any of your business, and most likely the result of its own actions and choices. Call it Karma or 'reaping what you sow'. Unless you are in training to be a masochistic doormat, it's time to walk away, and never look back. If this parasite operates in the same manner as most do, it will eventually try to worm its way back into your life. If you let it, you deserve another knife in the back.
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It depend if you gave her the money and she doesn't return them, or if she get the money as a loan and never return them.

But no one take something from you by force .

If she scammed you as you said then she is not a long time friend , something wrong and missing here.

Also how she scammed you,is she an online friend and you send her money  transfer? Or how?
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No. Friendship has to have trust. If u can't trust you then there's no point to be friends. If a friend sees it as okay to scam me then that friend doesn't care about me or my feelings. They are too selfish for me. So I would pass ona. Friend who scams me
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No you cannot still be friends If she shas did it before then she will most likely do it again so I would advise avoiding her at all costs.
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In my point of view yeah why not I mean she literally just took your money nothing else so yeah you can still be friends or even lovers.
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Somebody who scamed you is a thief and not is not supposed to be your friend,dont associate yourself with such a person,she may plan something bad against you in future,quit her.
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