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He keeps on showering me gifts, sends me home, does favors for me but when an acquaintance asked him if he is courting me, he denied it in front of my face.
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He cares but hes scared in my opinion, i have the same issue in a way just without the gifts but he shows in different ways . Hes been talking to my family members and my family member and him both thought I exited and he told them that he did truly love me he just cannot tell me his true feelings because i will take it to the head and it will ruin everything we have right now, and hes scared he’ll lose me. Just accept that he truly actually does what he does, and try and talk to him when you guys are getting along real well and let him know what bothers you. 

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The true feelings of this guy are that he is interested in this other girl and is trying to keep his distance from her.

There could be a number of reasons why this guy is doing this. Maybe he is trying to keep things casual with her and doesn't want to make things too serious. Or, he may just not be comfortable admitting his feelings to her yet.

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A guy that showers you with gifts definitely likes you although their are some two faced slimy individuals who would spend a fortune on you just to jump your bone.Thats why you need to be careful and throw series of test to him to be sure he actually like you.

Some of us are coy and discrete about out intentions.We are tight lipped about our love life. We don't want others to know about our private life because you could be the butt of everyone"s joke if you are an open book. Maybe that is why the guy is not telling your neighbor the truth. It doesn't mean he"s not smitten by you.

To be on a safer side,study him carefully.Test him.Don't be quick to jump into conclusion. Look before your leap.Guys can be deceptive and he may really be enamoured by you.Just test him and be sure he likes you.
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You know people always say women get attracted to men who give them gifts, but sometimes that's not the case. At times it is the heart that counts. It's hard to know for sure when a guy is truly in love with a girl. They could be communicating something different when the whole time we are thinking that they are in love. In your case this guy could be in love with you but he is just scared to say it for out loud, for fear of being rejected, and he looks bad in front of his friends. There could also be another reason for him to do those things, sometimes men can do things to women that can be very hurtful, they may not know it, but for some reason they still go ahead and do it. He could be doing this because he had a bet with his friends that he could win you over that's why he is not accepting that he is courting you, he probably has a girlfriend elsewhere, so he has to play his cards right or he fails on the bet. You must be very careful with this kinds of boys or you may fall into his trap. For now just go with the flow, you don't always have to receive the gifts, sometimes decline his offers and see how far or how long he will keep up with it. He will eventually give up and throw in the towel.
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He is in a friendship mode, and this is the best. Love is grows and transforms from friendship to something big. Some friends are just like that, they want to help, assist and provide with the best, he has a free mind, so it is left for him to take it further. 
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Oh I got it. Maybe He is just starting to know you as a friend at first then develop His feelings as time goes by
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I think true felling is that in which you are cared ,not only show off. Good feeling is like a inside happyness. It is a long time run. It will always with you.
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He may be in love with you but is afraid of telling you. He wants you to just guess he has feelings for you. He is doing it through actions. 
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Yes, A man is always afraid to lose his loved one once He admit His feelings to her
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He is maybe just afraid to admit His feelings for you. That's not a friendly thing because you may show kindness to a friend but not that sweet tho. He likes you at all because it is shown by His efforts. Remember this Action speaks louder than words.

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If a guy has true feelings for the girl, he expresses feelings outwardly through body language such as physical gestures, facial changes, and muscle tension, and he is likely to stare at you from a distance. Sometimes a guy truly has feelings for you he always takes "no" for an answer without question and he never tries to manipulate or pressure you in any way.
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Didn't get impressed with gifts and nice behaviour. If someone is showing or telling or doing some thing extra ordinary then they are fake. He may have some hidden agenda behind it. He has see on your wealth or money. 
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I think he is scared of tell you how he feels inside, i also think he is too shy to say it to you that's why he has been doing you alot of favours, i think you should ask him if he loves you, then watch him break
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It will depend if he is really a nice person doing such things not only for you but for others too. On the other side with what he is doing most likely that he also likes you. People's actions speak louder than words. It might be he is not yet ready or accepted to himself that he is in you but the truth is that he likes you. It is better not to assume first doing these things to you so that you won't get hurt. He might feel awkward and uncomfortable discussing these things with you for now. Maybe you can ask those people close to him like his colleagues or family to find out if he is really in you. It is hard to expect a such thing and in the end that you will get hurt for the wrong interpretation of things.
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I think that this guy truly loves you a lot but is shy or don't know how to tell you, you should know this true his expressions at times when you are with him he at times tends to be lost in thoughts.
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It's hard to say for sure without more information, but his behavior suggests that he may have romantic feelings for you. However, his denial in front of you may indicate that he is unsure about taking things further or may be trying to avoid commitment. It's best to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and intentions to clarify where you both stand.
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The feeling of this person is one of DirectX(2) - patience and persistence. The feeling of this person may be due to their True Feelings score which is a measure of how much an individual cares about others. This person may feel like they are in a "couple game" with their friends, and may be hoping that someone will court them. Additionally, they may be confident and happy without having to put on a show.
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Some of us are coy and discrete about out intentions.We are tight lipped about our love life. We don't want others to know about our private life because you could be the butt of everyone"s joke if you are an open book. Maybe that is why the guy is not telling your neighbor the truth. It doesn't mean he"s not smitten by you.

To be on a safer side,study him carefully.Test him.Don't be quick to jump into conclusion. Look before your leap.Guys can be deceptive and he may really be enamoured by you.Just test him and be sure he likes you.
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 I exited and he told them that he did truly love me he just cannot tell me his true feelings because i will take it to the head and it will ruin everything we have right now, and hes scared he’ll lose me. Just accept that he truly actually does what he does, and try and talk to him when you guys are getting along real well and let him know what bothers you. 
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