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My ex-boyfriend broke up with me. When I have already moved on, he keeps on messaging me on facebook (I unfriended him already but did not block. he might think i'm bitter if I blocked him) that he broke up with me because I have a third party (which is not true. it's the other way around. actually he broke up with me because he has a new girlfriend.) So I just ignored him and moved on. When they broke up, he messages me again asking if I'm still mad at him. I just keep on ignoring him. If I lose my temper, I am going to block him.

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I read your post and I laughed. Now,you care about his feelings and that is why you did not block him on Facebook. I think you still have feelings for him and that's why you don't want to block him.

The truth is the guy did not care about your feelings before cutting you loose and bonding with his new girlfriend. I guess he later discovered that the grass is not always green at the other end  and that's why he is back again. I'm sure if he is happy in his new relationship, he would not have come back to you.

My advice is never care about his feelings. Block him on every social media their is.Ghost him.Be incommunicado .He will get the message .Don't ever care whether he thinks you are brash or not.To you,he doesn't exist  .He was in your past and let the past be. Tell this guy you can never date him again even if he is the only man on planet earth .Block him and stop picking his calls.

Don't ever trust a two faced individual. If you give in,he will hurt you again.A cheat will always be a cheat.
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Yes. She care for his feelings. She should block him on Facebook. Thanks for your answer. 
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It is unfortunate to say that men can be very jealous when it comes to love matters,  i hope i don't offend anyone. But there is evidence to show that this happens. Usually when a guy goes astray and cheats on his woman, he may not say much but whatever he does will surely show eventually. When this happens the girl would probably set him aside and go silent, it's usually not long when someone will start a coversation with the girl, and when the ex sees that, it's automatic he will always be in your business, to know who your talking to, where you are, what your upto and so on and so forth. So don't be surprised when all the messages come into your inbox, he is just trying to keep tabs on you. They won't accept that they have lost you, and that they need you back. It's also a way of trying to apologise, but if you truly believe in your heart that you are over him just tell him so that he can stay in the know, and he will stop sending you messages. 
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Better to block him on Facebook and other ways he tries to contact you. You should keep avoiding these kind of stupids. You can tell him once clearly about your decision. If he continues to bother you, block the ways he tried you. 
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Yes block Him. He blame you the cheating He have done for Him to be not guilty but now He should feel sorry because of His cheat
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I think it is best to keep in distance with him. It is his fault that he betrayed you. You do not deserve to be treated that way. Unless if you wanted to have a second chance with him. If not, then love yourself in the meantime.
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Block him right away. That  would  be the best thing for you to do so  you will still have peace of mind. Keep yourself away from  those  people  and  situations  that are  toxic.
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I'm sorry if I laughed. Is He insane? I am a man too but How could He just dump a relationship and when the third party didn't work He'll return? Just ignore Him because He haven't seen your worth at the first place. If you are out of temper then block Him. All the source of communication must be cut off.
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If you don't have any feelings for her it is better for you to ignore him and totally blocked him if yiu wanted to have a peace of mind.
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Don't avoid him by not being mad at him. If he keeps asking if you're still mad at him, you might just have to deal with him. If you're still mad at him, you might have to block him.
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Don't bother meeting him at all, that's the risk you will take and regret it for the rest of your life. (Happened with me ).

Be stable and have control on your emotions. Psycho boyfriend will not leave a single chance to provoke you by blaming everything on you and will ask you to prove yourself. It's just a trick to have a conversation with you.
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The truth is the guy did not care about your feelings before cutting you loose and bonding with his new girlfriend. I guess he later discovered that the grass is not always green at the other end  and that's why he is back again. I'm sure if he is happy in his new relationship, he would not have come back to you.
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These things happen my dear but I think you should consider your feelings first, this is about your mental well-being, you should just block him on Facebook or continue to ignore his messages. I believe he just realized that he lost something more valuable to him but is afraid to admit.
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