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I had chat with 40 aged men and shared few group pictures and mere information without any selfish thoughts i.e my name and where I'm from.We are from the same state and he got to know my birthday and insisted a lot and sent me a gift card for my birthday. I got to know his intententon was not to be just friends .So I blocked him. What should I do?? Can he be threat to me??

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There is no definitive answer to this question as it depends on a number of factors, including the age, relationship status, and personal history of the middle-aged man and the college student. However, if the middle-aged man is openly flirtatious or aggressive in his interactions with the college student, then it could be considered a threat. If the college student feels unsafe or uncomfortable around the middle-aged man, it may be best to take action and block him from contacting her.

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A middle   collage man cannot be a harm to  collage student  she understand the real motive of that man,once you understand reasons behind his actions  you will know how to deal or to handle him if his reasons are not good.

Sometimes the man may wants to help you because you have a problem but you should not judge him first but to listen to him first so that you can understand him better.
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I guess you have already taking your decision by blocking him..A middle aged man will probably be a married man and giving out gifts to teenager will sure raise eyebrows..you said you know his intention and because of that,you decided to do the needful.

You don't need any advice. You have already blocked him because you saw the signs he was trying to flirt with you.

Some people may just be nice though.They may not have bad intention. That's one reason why one need to look closely before taking her final decision.If you block such a nice person, then its your loss not his. You are the one that stand to gain from him

In a case where the man is sending romantic text messages or asking you to send your sexy pictures or nude pictures, or urging you to hang out with him in a hotel, then you don't need a soothsayer to tell you that he wants to tuck you in nicely.

At the end of the day,it all boils down to you and your decision. Watch out for signs..I believe any girl will definitely know when a guy is flirting with her. I guess you all have a sixth sense about this things.
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You knew already the intentions and blocked him. Which means you were never comfortable with whatever he wanted from you. Trust your guts and its good to keep off him. 
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I do not think there is a problem dealing with old people like him. It is up to you to find out if he has bad intentions toward you. Blocking him is possible if it happens anytime.
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There can be a millions of reasons behind thinking out what this guy's intentions with you! I don't think you should overthink this situation! This guy's what? 40 years old and maybe at that age, he might have moved there recently and knows no one in the town okay but still he might have any sexual intentions with you coz you never know! It should be advisable for you to do a background check on this friend of yours! and if everything's cleared up! He might be a decent polite person e.g a retired navy officer. Still you need to know his background or seek help from a senior. But without knowing entire context, It's still an early stage to have committing this thoughts. But with my experience you'd be amazed!

               I was hanging out with my buddy one day. We went to the theatres and booked our seats at the back and we arrived a little late and wanted to know the beginning of the plot. So, we asked a mid 30 day who was really friendly and polite with us and we kept talking and vibing together. At start, we're like not very new to the city but then this guy seemed nice and have a good IT hiring job and then our mind struck, what a nice guy to network with as we were still in college that time so could have been great help for some internships. Then we exchanged our numbers and my friend was seeming uninterested, so, he stopped talking with the guy. I kept talking with the guy and one day I got a very random kiss emoji and then I was little surprised like you! Then I consulted my friend and he said it might be some typo he might have done, so, I ignored. This guy wanted to meet up us again and we're like, since he has a remote job, so, he might be alone in the city. So, we hangout and then in real life, he was a very professional and friendly guy but on chat he was little salty. But one day we again met and it was only me this time as my friend was out of station that day. This was the absolute turning point!
                                                                Then we met at a bar and we were very drunk later and then I was almost passed out and then he took me  to his house and he was sleeping along with me in his bed that could be felt that moment. Then I got a little conscious when I saw him licking all over my belly button and my belly was all wet and his tongue was inside my belly button and he was poking it really hard and really sweaty. I was still feeling drunk so I didn't said nothing and he kept sucking my belly button and then I woke probably 3 to 4 hours after that. But I had still the whole memory about these moments. So, I knew it but he was very unhinged about it and kept making breakfast and talking nonchalantly as if nothing like that happened. I felt devasted that morning and ashamed about what happened. I left his place asap and I never went back there, blocked him and never connected with him ever again. 

But this is kind of a wild example to base off this situation. So, better be safe than sorry. As of my experience, I would have ran away asap. But hey! It's your life, at the end you have to make decisions. So, think wisely but not be stupidly overthinking!
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Each person's situation will be different, but general answers would be to try to avoid being around an ageing man, or one who is prone to anxiety and stress. You should also be conscious of your own safety and wellbeing when making this type of decision.
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However, if the middle-aged man is openly flirtatious or aggressive in his interactions with the college student, then it could be considered a threat. If the college student feels unsafe or uncomfortable around the middle-aged man, it may be best to take action and block him from contacting her.
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