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The relationship is on the rock right now coz of difficulties from adjustment from having us now having a baby.
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I am not married but from what i have learned over the years, apparently it is the best thing you would do for your marriage. rekindling those moments keeps the fire burning. You will always remind yourselves of the things that brought the two of you together.

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Well, since you're married to your husband, I would assume that it's alright to go out on a date and let loose every once and a while. If you need a break from the baby, you can always hire a local babysitter for a couple hours while the two of you go to a nice restaurant or do something to unwind. It's at this critical time in life that you need to establish trust and good communication with your husband - otherwise, the relationship can become volatile and blow up in your faces. Be sure that the two of you save time for each other outside of the baby, so that the relationship doesn't spiral out of control. However, do keep in mind that the baby should be a first priority at most times - it needs to be cared for!
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Marriage is not all flowers,roses and perfumed.Their are thorns too especially when babies come in.At that point,you discover that marriage is way different from a relationship.

When you were dating,their was no baby.. tension was almost non existent but with the baby comes a whole slew of responsibilities.You need to take care of the baby..baby food,baby clothes.. all the things the baby need does not come free.Bills start piling up..In addition,the wife  pays more attention to the baby at this point..knowing the amount of laundry this little creature can generate is enough to drive a sane wife cray cray .

Well, you are still married and you guys need to weather the storm together.Going on a date once in a while wouldn't hurt because if you don't water the relationship, it will die.

Marriage requires work from both party and you need to both make sure that your marriage doesn't crash.

You may use the help of your mother in law to help in taking care of the baby while you guys go somewhere to mellow out.Goodluck
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Yes,  I think going on dates while married is one good way of keeping the marriage strong. When you go on such dates, you get to have a couple's time without the interference of kids and house chores. This way,  you see each other as two people who love each other,  you get to share ideas during the date and just enjoy your love.  This will keep the love strong which makes the marriage  stay stronger. 
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I don't think its such a good idea. You're already married and even have a kid, the best thing you can do is to focus on your marriage and how you can make it stronger. Of course you'll need his attention some of the time. Everyone wants a happy family and the moment you start following him here and there he might even become worse.
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It is not bad to go on a date every once in a while as a husband and wife. You also need a little time for each other to talk about your family, to bond with each other just like when you are still in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. 
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Dating is a good idea, because at this stage of relationship you get to understand each other strengths and weaknesses. Habits that are not compatible can be discussed before the real marriage. So courtship or dating is actually a test of the relationship if it will last through marriage. Mistakes most people make is to observe strange behavior without communicating their concerns with their partner.
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I think it's hard to worry about silly things that single people care about. Like your looks, car,...but being married is a blessing. To share your life with one person who matters to you and yes they have to go on dates to keep the romance between. I think it's a must. 
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Yes of course that is perfectly fine, I am on that same page right now. I definitely feel like it is best to take breaks out of the day and give one another space so fights don't emerge. Every once in a while have someone like a relative watch the kids and you guys go on a nice relaxing date. Then come home spend time together with the baby. Movie dates, dinner dates. Both of you need time together need of a break you could also see if a relative can watch them for 3 days.
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Dating your hufrom time to time isn't bad in fact, it's a good idea and this helps in rekindling your love it serves to remind you of your past and what brought you together. 
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Yes. Life is all about enjoy your life with your partner. I think every couple need to date his husband or wife after marriage the same way they date each other before marriage. Your life journey is just started you both need to explore more often so that you can spend more time with each other. Some couples life becomes boring after marriage and kids. It is advisable to have date with each other at least in one month or in few weeks. You can drop your baby to one of your relatives or friends for some time and go for a dating and have fun. If not possible then you date each other at home also without leaving your baby. When your baby is sleeping you can date each other by decorating the table for two and light some candles on tables with some wine glasses and wine. Order food online and order some flowers to make that moment special for you both. Talk with each other and enjoy your food and you can also watch your favorite movie each other. 
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i think its definently ok dont know the situation as different situations need different answers but in my book its ok to see your husband  your husband is a soul mate and freind and lotsmore
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I think your husband is stressed and pressured about having the family. Why not talk to him heart-to-heart and see what makes him like this?
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Dating even after marriage will keep the track of your relation smooth and happy, mostly people stop putting efforts in relation after long years of marriage life. This can make your relationship dull and unhappy.
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You could keep your parents or your husband's parents in charge of the baby and am sure they should do a fine job , and you just go and have a blast with your husband and spend some nice quality time
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Yes I think that this is the best idea because it always make that particular relationship very lively and comforting for each partner but it's also important to give birth to children.
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Yes, it is absolutely okay to date your husband every now and then. In fact, it is a great way to help keep your relationship strong, especially during times of difficulty. Taking time to focus on each other and the positive aspects of your relationship can help you both to appreciate one another and to work through challenges together.

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good communication with your husband - otherwise, the relationship can become volatile and blow up in your faces. Be sure that the two of you save time for each other outside of the baby, so that the relationship doesn't spiral out of control. However, do keep in mind that the baby should be a first priority at most times - it needs to be cared for!
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Well am not yet married but I think it will be good for the relationship to last dating your partner awakens the love you both share and keeps that love going
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  1. Set Goals: Redirect your focus by setting personal goals and aspirations. Channel your energy into achieving things that are important to you.

  2. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques can help you stay present and manage obsessive thoughts. Techniques like deep breathing, meditation, and grounding exercises can be helpful.

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Certainly! Regular dates with your husband can be beneficial for maintaining a strong and healthy relationship. It provides an opportunity to connect, communicate, and strengthen the emotional bond. Whether it's a simple dinner, a movie night, or an outdoor activity, spending quality time together can help keep the romance alive and reinforce the foundation of your relationship.
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