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I'm really socially awkward, I find it difficult to talk to people face to face, and more if I have a crush on a guy I "met??" a couple days ago. I'm a 16 y/o guy who likes guys. So... from what I suppose he is a guy between 20 to 25 y/o, at least he looks like one. I met him while I was omw to the institute, I was running late and he was going out with his dog. He was holding the entrance door for me, so I gave my thanks and he responded with a warm smile. I legit couldn't get him out of my head all day long and now I wish I had talked more with him that day. What should I do? Should I try to talk to him and see if I can ask him out? Or just leave it as friends? Oh and yeah he lives in the same building as me. The age of consent in Spain is 16 y/o "Individuals aged 15 or younger in Spain are not legally able to consent to sexual activity, and such activity may result in prosecution for statutory rape or equivalent local law. Spain statutory rape law is violated when an individual has a consensual sexual contact with a person under age 16."

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answered by Patron (1,551 points) 2 9 24
I don't care whether the age of consent in Spain is 16years old ..forgive me for coming hard on you. I'm doing this because I don't want you to make the same mistake that young girls make today.I weep when I see young girls walking on the street with unwanted pregnancies. It all starts from the statement"I love that boy..he is so cute"

You are too young to be in a relationship.You don't even know what love is. What you are feeling is not love. Its infatuation..its just a passing fancy..it will fade with time.A whole slew of young girls feel this way..its normal..they think they are in love..they may have this feeling for their teacher or the boy sitting next to them or their neighborhour..

Young girls tend to be attracted to older people like their teachers..they want to experience the fantasy they formed in their head probably due to the movies they watch or stuffs like that.

My advice to you is to focus on your studies..know what you want to be in the future..wait till you are in your twenties before you think of going into the dating game.By then,you will be mature and you will understand life better.

Unless you want to end up with an unwanted pregnancy at a young age,you may consider dating that boy but I will strongly advise against it.

If I were you,I won't slough off this piece of advice...
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answered by ELITE (3,008 points) 3 11 21
Oohh my goodness, to tell you the truth love is a very tricky issue, it's not as easy as it may seem or sound. First and foremost you a very young to even start falling in love with guys. Surely if my guess is right, you must be in high school or something like that right? Let me give you a piece of advice as a young woman note, not a young girl. I say young woman because I have been there done that. Men will always be here they are not going anywhere. You have a lot to look forward to and achieve concentrate on your schooling first,get a degree or certificate so that in any eventuality you will have something to fall back on. You already want to ask the guy out without even knowing him? Just because he opened the door for you doesn't mean he likes you. He was probably just being a gentleman, please get to know his name first be a friend before anything else. You will be making the biggest mistake of your life if you make that move. I can assure you he doesn't feel anything for you or he might not even noticed you or how you feel that's the sad truth unfortunately.
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answered by VISIONARY (9,061 points) 5 21 52
First off dating an older guy is not fine because of your age. You are young and there will be many crushes in your life. This guy you are talking about more than likely is in a relationship and has someone in his life. Guys are after one thing at this age and it is sex and a relationship. You have many years ahead of you and need to not get your heart broken at such an early age. My granddaughter dated a guy that was a few years older than she was and I saw what it did to her. Her parents let it go and allowed her to go out with him and finally put her on birth control. Now she is heading off to college and her head is all messed up wondering about the relationship with him and if she will ever see him again or not. She is young and has a lot going for her and this can really stop her from reaching her goals in life worry about a guy that is older than she is and wondering if he has found another person or not.

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