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What would you do if you were in the same room with your ex?
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Exes should be friends and not enermies. You should leave people in a state that if you happen to meet again you can still say hi and have a chat. It is never the end of the world
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As we know it is very difficult to forget about your past relationship especially if you have children from your past relationship you will keep remembering about that relationships

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Why you should catch attention with your ex in the same room. Unless you still have feelings with her. However, if you have in another relationship, don't use your ex to ruin your current relationship.
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Well it depends, if we had mutually got separeted and reason was something very bad then I would not do anything to grab his attention rather I would try to avoid him.
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no not on purpose they are exes for a reason i would be more inclined to just try and be myself and not stoop to the moment where i have to actualy be not me and get his atention he should see you without u having to do that
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i will just talk to her just like friends I will act like nothing happened and I will behave normally in front of her just enjoy my life like all other singles
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Having an ex in the same room with you is not a bad thing but i would rather do my thing and let do him/her do their stuff, the most important thing is that it is no more.
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Well it depends on how I feel about him if I still love him I will surely look for a way to get his attention, but if I don't why waste the time.
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First of all I'll prevent myself to be near my ex to avoid awkward moments. But if I had no choice, I won't get her attention anymore. I'm done and were also done. Just an opinion, I've done what I should've do when we're on but it's useless now.
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No, I would not intentionally do things to get my ex's attention if we were in the same room. I believe it is important to respect boundaries and to move on from past relationships. It is not healthy or appropriate to try to seek attention or validation from an ex.
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I’ll try to be civil with that person even though deep inside me l will still feel uncomfortable after all that had happened especially when there is no clarity at all with what happened between us in the past. I don't want plastic and at the same time pretend that what happens was okay. I’ll be just in the middle and l don't want to be rude l just leave it up to God whatever it is.
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No, I would not do anything to get his attention. I believe that it is important to respect the boundaries of my ex, and that trying to do something to get his attention could be interpreted as disrespectful. If I find myself in the same room with my ex, I would focus on being friendly and polite, but not try to do anything to draw attention to myself.

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It depends on both parties not just one individual because both of them could look for opportunities to get attention from the other.
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As we know it is very difficult to forget about your past relationship especially if you have children from your past relationship you will keep remembering about that relationships.
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Well that depends on myy feeling at that present time if I still love him  then I will try to get his attention but if I don't then I won't try it 
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Trying to get the attention of your ex-boyfriend in the same room can be delicate, and the approach should depend on the context and your intentions. If you're in the same room and want to engage with your ex, consider these respectful approaches:

1. **Positive Body Language**: Maintain open and friendly body language. Smile, make eye contact, and stand or sit confidently. This can make you appear approachable.

2. **Casual Conversation**: Initiate a casual conversation about a neutral or shared interest. Keep the conversation light and positive, focusing on topics that don't stir up negative emotions.

3. **Listen Actively**: When your ex is speaking, actively listen to what they're saying. Show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings.

4. **Respect Boundaries**: Be aware of personal boundaries. If your ex appears disinterested or uncomfortable, respect their space and privacy.

5. **Be Polite and Cordial**: Maintain politeness and cordiality throughout your interaction. Avoid confrontational or emotional discussions.

6. **Express Positivity**: Share positive and pleasant aspects of your life, such as recent achievements or experiences. This can create a positive impression.

7. **Avoid Bringing Up the Past**: Avoid discussing past relationship issues or arguments. The focus should be on the present and the possibility of a positive interaction.

8. **Respect Their Response**: If your ex is not receptive to interaction or shows disinterest, respect their decision. Pushing for attention when it's unwelcome can be counterproductive.

9. **Know Your Intentions**: Understand why you want your ex's attention. If it's to rekindle the relationship, be clear about your intentions and willing to discuss them honestly.

10. **Seek Feedback**: If the interaction goes well, you might consider seeking feedback from your ex about the possibility of re-establishing a friendship or a positive connection.

It's important to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect for your ex's feelings. If your ex is not interested in engaging with you, it's crucial to accept their decision gracefully. Reconnecting with an ex, even in a friendly context, should be a mutual and consensual process.
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