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     A love and hate relationships in friends, family, lover... We're not perfect after all. But if someone really hurts you or your loved one, can you forgive that person???
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If God forgive human beings from their sins, so what about us. Everyone deserves a second chance but there is an instances that we know specific people who could only fool us. We can forgive them but we cannot forget what they had done. 
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I believe that everyone deserves forgiveness, even if they are bad. After all, there are no perfect people after all. If someone really hurts you or your loved one, then it's time to get right with the person and move on.

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Honestly, for me, I have a very hard heart to forgive and most of the time I tend to revenge but I usually don't like acting like the weak person, I hence tend to ignore. Surely, everyone deserves a second chance in life and it's according to biblical teaching.

Once you're forgiven, please try and don't make the same mistake again although the bible says that you have to forgive 7×77 times. We're human beings and won't stand forgiving someone for the same mistakes and we keep on being hurt.
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Right, thanks.
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Thanks.
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Thanks for your comment. As you said we can't forgive the people again and again for the same mistake.
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Yes..Thanks. One shouldn't forgive the person for same reason again and again.
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I normally will give a person 3 chances if they continue to make the same mistake and continue to hurt me or my family. After this it is very hard for me to forgive them again. Because a strain has been put on our friendship and it seems the more you forgive them, the more they take advantage of you.

Now, on the other hand, a relationship between husband and wife, it is necessary to forgive and move forward. This can build the relationship and help each other. If you truly love your husband or wife it shouldn't be an issue to forgive the small things in life that happen. But if either one of the partners cheats on the other, then this is not forgivable. In this case, it really hurt and the trust is broken. This can be one of the hardest acts to forgive for anyone. 

I normally don't forgive a person who screams at me and embarrasses me in public or in front of their other friends to show off. However, I had a really good friend that I really liked to be with and do things with. She had a bad habit of yelling at me or acting like I was her servant in front of her friends. Finally, it was too much and I could no longer overlook this act. I finally just quit calling or accepting her invitation to do things with her. I have never treated a person with disrespect and it is hard to accept a person disrespecting me all the time. I can forgive more now than I could when I was younger. However, there comes a time when you run out of forgiveness and just have to say good-bye.
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Don't give a person 3 times, give as many times as you can more so forgive and forget
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I do believe in second chances. All people can do mistake without noticing it, but if the person is kept on doing the same mistake not once then that is a different issue, and it's so hard to forgive for those people who commit the mistake for the same mistake, if that person is sincere to do the right thing he or she will never repeat the mistake but if she or he repeat the same mistake, then don't accept him or her again
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Yes, a real person change his approach to us if he really feels sorry on what he have done
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if your loved one hurt you its hard to forgive them because there will be a lot of questions on your mind that you dont know the answer. but like what you said we are not perfect. if they hurt you once its ok to forgive them as long as you see that they are willing to change for the better and they learned from their mistake. 
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Yes. Everyone deserves forgiveness. Not everyone is perfect at all time. Doing mistake is human nature. 

Live and let live. So forgive and live happily.
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If Jesus forgave us for betraying Him, then why not do it by us. Everyone deserves to be forgiven. 
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Yes. IF they only seek your forgiveness wholeheartedly. But it is right to forgive someone even though they are the least deserving of your forgiveness.
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It's good to learn how to practice forgiveness for you to be forgiven as well.
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If you are a devout Catholic, you would know the answer and that is Yes, every one deserves forgiveness. If God can forgive, who are we to not forgive our neighbor. Forgive those who sin against you and your Father in heaven will also forgive you.

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I agree. We can forgive those people who showed bad deeds to us. I do not have a low opinion about this matter. How about forgetting them forever?
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This question is quite tough. There are some people who cannot forgive easily. Why? It depends on the severity of the situation. It takes time for them to forgive because they need time to heal. He or she needs to undergo the Stages of Grief before forgiveness will be given.
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Forgive others not because that deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
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Yes. But don't mistake forgiveness for acceptance. Forgiveness mainly helps the forgiver so tkae your time and forgive whole heartedly so that you can free yourself. Once you forgive someone you give yourself peace. 
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Yes, even how hard it is on our part to forgive someone we should learn to forgive anyone who has hurt us even if it takes time. It is the only way we can move on to a new chapter in our lives and free ourselves from the burden that we are experiencing in the past. Always pray that we enlighten our hearts from any hurt or bad experiences or memories of those who did us wrong.
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Everybody deserve's a second chance, if you have been hurt by someone so dear to you forgiveness help you heal from the pain and don't forget that our heavenly father forgives us everyday.
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Everyone in life deserves forgiveness because God himself who is our creator first showed us example by forgiving all our sins  matter how heavy it is.
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Everyone deserves to be forgiven but it's hard for us to accept what they've done. We may forgive someone who hurt us but we can't figure out how long. And to some who committed deeper mistake to us may be forgiven as well but cannot be as close as we used to.
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Yes, I believe that everyone deserves forgiveness. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. Forgiveness is an act of kindness that can help people move forward and rebuild relationships. It is important to forgive those who have hurt us, even if it is difficult to do so.
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as per my opinion, everyone does not deserve for forgiveness because forgiveness is the mean you are providing him another chance to do another mistake. if he realise his mistake then its fine.
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As a Christian I think everyone deserves to be forgiven irregardless of offense and mistakes they have done.forgiveness is the best practice ever for Christianity.
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My ability to forgive is very limited, and since I despise playing the victim, I often choose to ignore rather than seek retribution. The Bible teaches that everyone should be given a second opportunity in life. Even if the Bible says to forgive seventy-seven times, once you've been forgiven, please make an effort to avoid repeating the same error. As human beings, we cannot bear to keep forgiving the same person for hurting us over and over again.
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I believe that everyone deserves forgiveness, even if they are not perfect. This is because we cannot truly understand or forgive someone if we do not understand what that person is going through. We may feel sorry for them but we cannot truly be angry or devastated. We need to talk to our friends, family, and lover about what happened and what needs to be done to move on. We need to take them away from the situation and do our best to make a new life for ourselves.
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The concept of forgiveness is subjective and varies among individuals. Some people believe in the importance of forgiveness for personal growth and healing, while others may find it challenging based on the nature of the transgression. Whether everyone deserves forgiveness depends on personal values, the severity of the actions, and the impact on others. It's a complex moral and emotional consideration that people navigate differently based on their beliefs and experiences. I for one believes that everyone deserves forgiveness no matter what.The concept of forgiveness is subjective and varies among individuals. Some people believe in the importance of forgiveness for personal growth and healing, while others may find it challenging based on the nature of the transgression. Whether everyone deserves forgiveness depends on personal values, the severity of the actions, and the impact on others. It's a complex moral and emotional consideration that people navigate differently based on their beliefs and experiences. I believe that not everyone deserves forgiveness.
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