Lifestyles have made people go against their Christian values, values that were taught by our fore fathers. There areso many things that are making us turn away from God. Education, career, money mindedness, selfishness are just some of the many aspects that are turning people away from God. We can see people nowadays boasting about their success in every area of their lives, basing it on their own efforts when all the while, it has been God. That just tells us that we no longer need God to guide or direct us in our lives. We are sad because we do not know who holds our destiny, we don't know who we are in God, we need to realize that we are God's children, and he loves us regardless of who we are. We tend to think that when we don't get what we ask from God, he doesn't love us so we decide to do things our way which most of the time disappoints us, and then end up blaming God for our misfortunes.