You can be a good wife but boring one. Don't be too good, do some crazy things to cause drama, that's what makes a good marriage. You can always adhere to your husband, respect him as the eldest of the family. Always do your chores as a wife, cooking, doing laundry, taking care of kids and etcetera, only if you're a house wife. For a working wife, always find someone who will help you on making sure the house chores are done well.