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The best method to follow is to apply forgiveness.  If someone has hurt you and you feel betrayed, you should apply forgiveness, in doing so you won't hurt yourself and the person. Forgiveness is letting go and setting free all the emotional attachments. All other methods may lead to self hurt which is not healthy.
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Forgiveness and acceptance. We will be truly happy and will set our hearts with grudges and hate for that person if we forgive and accept that everything changes.
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This is one of the hardest things to do, unloving someone. But still, questions have all the answers. Unloving someone seems will be based on the situation or its history itself. We cannot totally unlove someone, because they became part of our lives already. We can discontinue the relationship, the communication, but there's still time, were able to reminisce our past. What is important, we can move on and believed that it is just a memory already. We may unlove someone through hatred ness, but I guess its not a good thing to set. It's unhealthy, and it will just bring you unending sorrows. Unloving someone really is impossible for me, but it is up to us if how can we handle and accept it. Just always think about what will be best for many. And have the wisest choice, so the regrets will have no place in us. 
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The most important thing to remember is that you don't love that person, you just love the idea of them. Love isn't something that you "think," love is something that you feel. If you are truly meant to love this person then your heart will tell you and because you're trying to "unlove" them then that means you only " think" your in love so that feeling, is essentially, an illusion. 

That's how you unlove somebody.
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Telling them the truth might be very harsh but its always the right thing to do. On the contrary, you can still act cold towards him/her and with time, they'll get tired and give up.
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If you are truly love someone, you can't unlove them. You may hide your feelings or move forward with your life. But unlove is impossible in true love. 
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The first step is to forgive even if you cannot forget what they did to you. Anger and hatred will keep you involved in the person. Start focusing on your goals, career and self growth. Learn from your mistakes and improve yourself. It may be difficult at the beginning, but you have to let go. At the end, you will find peace. 
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The ability to not love someone varies from person to person. The secret to allowing him or her to go on and forget the person who broke their hear into a million pieces.
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To unlove someone you loved is a process and it might be difficult and take a period of time.To forget them block and delete their contacts, spare no time for them,be away from their presence and don't use whatever they gave you as present
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We all live in the world and all religion teach us to love each other. God has teach us to love everyone not to un love. We have to love our neighbours, parents,kids, husband. Also teach us to love even our enemy. Forgiveness is the greatest gift to love our enemy. So I will follow only has god said.
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Once you have fallen in love and it is a true love, even the person you are in love with hurt you, it will be hard and you will hurting your self, why not just forgive and be happy.
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To unlove someone, you need to have patience and be brave. You also need to be consistent with yourself and do what you think will make the person feel better. If the person is cold or unapproachable, then you should then have the courage to end the relationship.
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To unlove someone, focus on yourself, stay busy, cut contact, seek support, and give it time. It won't be easy, but you deserve to move on.
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The best way to unlove someone will vary depending on the relationship between the two people involved. Some tips on how to unlove someone include distancing yourself from them emotionally, spending less time with them, and communicating your feelings to them. If all else fails, you may need to end the relationship altogether.
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