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What is the best way to deal with the situation when somebody is angry over you?

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Be calm,  think what has made angry situation, think are you responsible for the situation, don't argue,  no manhandling,  listen carefully, analyse gradually and react positively and politely.
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Sometimes, silence is the best medicine to handle the situation. If you are silent, the other person may get sometime to understand you. Even mistakes is not yours, be silent to handle the situation smoothly.

Smile is also great way to handle the situation.
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Silence but he/she will still remain angry on you,the best way is to solve the issue causing conflicts and misunderstanding.
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Make sure you don't talk back. Because talking back just stirs up more trouble but keeping quit makes the person feel guilty for being angry with you.
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At the end of the day if someone if angry with you it honestly wont matter if you take the right or wrong way to approach the situation or event it may be caused over or the individual itself in that fact, if the person is angry there's no point stoking the fire any more than what it already is.

Simply depends on the personality of the person involved and how they retaliate towards you actions in relations towards the anger. some people like to be left alone too cool down, others might like to be hugged and comforted. you will know how to make the right approach if you have sincerity and good intentions aimed towards the angry one.

best way to make yourself feel more at ease in the meantime would be to take into consideration that this individual may have their own build up of personal issues at that present time and is expressing it towards you in a horrible way is actually a sign of them self venting. do not verbally or physically retaliate in anyway, just simply let them know that you are sorry if you had ever done anything to upset them in anyway and that you will always be there for them if they need to talk about anything. and allow some time for the fire to cool down.

After the anger has left and is not more present in the same environment as you, do not mention it to the person or ask questions as to why the outburst took place.. 

simply allow that person that was angry at the time to gain the courage themselves within to either apologize or open up and tell you the reasons behind all the promotion. This builds a strong trust and connection platform for everyone involved.  

  
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Anger heats things up. What you should do is to try to calm things down. You can explain what happened and ask for forgiveness, or leave the scene and send an apology message to the affected person.
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Yes true, cool down the situation first so that the apology may be more serious and be humble to him although he's the one angry at you
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As you have said apology has great impact when solving conflicts and misunderstanding.
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It is better to cool down the situation. You can walk away and give him or her time to think about what had happened. If both of you are ready, then it is about time to talk in a calm way. Sometimes we need to do this because it is not a good thing to clash again and again.
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Stay calm and thinking clearly. Meet them and respond wisely if they still angry with you as gradually ask time to explain anything if you feel in the right side or apologize if evidently you're doing wrong.
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Exactly that is the only Best way to solve misunderstanding and conflicts
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The best way to go is to keep silent as time is the healer of everything. Try to keep calm and avoid confrontations to avoid a heated argument. With time the situation will be resolved. 
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I think remaining silent will not solve the conflicts and misunderstanding cause by his or her anger.
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When somebody is very angry on you when there is no mistake done by you at that time you have to do that you have to keep silence to your mouth and mind both because if you also get engage with them in his conversation then he will become more aggressive on you and then the situation would might become more worst than before if you keep silent yourself at that time then after sometime when that person anger is over then he will realize its mistake and there is a respect come in his heart for you that he didn't reply me back at that time when there is no mistake made by him.
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If they are angry for a worthy reason and if you are really guilty. Then apologize and keep patience they will forgive you soon. And try to reach out to them and promise not to ever repeat the same mistake. That would be enough.
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i think u just have to completley leave the angry person alone and hope that they can find it in their heart to overcome being angry with u its not something u can really make happen
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Well if it was my fault I will try not to retaliate because it will only add fuel to the fire and if possible I will just give you sometime to get over the anger before showing him my face.
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If someone gets angry over me i would try my best to make sure i get that person's forgiveness, i would beg the person if necessary to make that anger goes away.
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Yap forgiveness is the only tool to resolve conflicts and misunderstanding.
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Just chill out, you may ask questions from that person carefully, maybe he saw bad attitudes from you or maybe you've done something he might not like. It's hard for us to move on a place where someone is mad at us but a sincere talk may make peace between you two.
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When someone is angry on you then the best thing to do is to finger out between you and him/,her who wronged the other,then you calm down and seek forgiveness.
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The best way to deal with the situation when somebody is angry over you is to try to find a way to communicate your anger. This could include writing to yourself in what feels like a calm and rational tone in order to apologize, telling yourself that you are wrong to be upset, or talking to someone else about the situation. Whatever work best suits you can try to do.
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The best way to deal with the situation when somebody is angry over you is to try to understand the person and what they are feeling. You need to try to come to a resolution or understanding with the person so that they do not continue to suffer from the anger. Additionally, it may be helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor to help the person cope with the anger.
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When someone is angry with you, it is important to stay calm, listen to their perspective, apologize if necessary, and communicate your own feelings respectfully. Avoid becoming defensive or attacking back. Seeking a solution together can also be helpful.
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If you are silent, the other person may get sometime to understand you. Even mistakes is not yours, be silent to handle the situation smoothly.

Smile is also great way to handle the situation.
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don't ignore the person.

be open to listening to what they have to say.

keep your voice calm when they're upset.

try to talk things through.

acknowledge their distress but don't feel like you have to back down if you disagree - your opinion is important too.
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