How do i manage my girlfriend to fall in love deeply with me, while we are in a long distance relationship?

Question

I'm seriously feeling insecure about my long distance relationship, please what should I do or be doing to make my girlfriend fall deeply in love with me, and as well protect her from other guys in her city?

Answer 1

There isn't 1 way to handle a long-distance relationship.

If she likes you now, stay who you are! Don't change yourself.

If she has some complaints you should maybe consider them and adapt to them.

Protecting them from other guys on the other hand would be difficult.

Just try to get her 'hooked' on you, try to be her perfect match.

If she just isn't 'into' you you should just let it to, it might be terrible advice but if the love isn't from both ends then you might run into trouble.

To summarize, Just try to become her perfect match and see how the situtation plays out.

Good luck and I wish you the best of luck.

Comments

Sometimes a perfect match is not around you, that's why long distance relationship truly works

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Indeed I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.Keep it up.

Answer 2

Come on! Just be yourself. Love her unconditionally. If she loves you truly, she never leaves you in any circumstances. So long distance or small distance is not a matter. How loyal the love is matter.

Comments

Loyalty is one good trait to show. Trust her and prove yourself to be trustworthy as well. In that way you can last forever

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Answer 3

Just relax my friend. She may be feeling how you feel at the same time. Keep on talking to her on Skype, Facebook and telegram. Do it in a way not for her to think you are stalking her.

Keep on telling her you love her. If she sends a photo, comment how attractive she looks.

Comments

Good one, appreciate her at all cost because you love from the heart and distance cannot separate you two.

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I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.

Answer 4

I am speaking based on personal experience. I had been in a long distance relationship and we manage to make it work because we trust each other, we are very secured with the feelings we have for each other. It is also very important to have an open communication. 

Comments

Good one mate, Trust is the commonly used factor in long distance relationship because you have to believe in your partner

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Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.

Answer 5

If your girlfriend really loves you, there is no need to worry about it. This is the time that you will know if she is loyal or not. In a real-life setting, there are only a few people can make the long-distance relationship works. Trust is a big word that needs to make it work.

Comments

Trust is another factor on how a relationship last longer. It is how you believe on what you're partner cand do. 

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Answer 6

Give her call, text her, and send her surprises. On her birthday put up a surprise, you can pay for delivery of a cake, without informing her prior to doing this. Women enjoy attention, but too much attention can be a problem because it will look as if you ain't giving her breathing space. 

Comments

Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.Generally your idea is quite wise and eligible for stimulating good thinking and the right mindset keep it up.

Answer 7

Make her crave you and your messages

1. share your surroundings
2. remember the big and the small events
3. put your life into context
4. be specific when crafting your text message
5. send positive energy

Comments

Thanks for this idea. Inspire her on how you live so that she may be motivated by your doings.

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Answer 8

No matter how busy you are, take 10 minutes every day and video chat with each other. This will keep your contact and your partner will also realize that you are interested in him

Surprise is very useful in such a relationship and it keeps the importance of the relationship. Surprising your partner from time to time shows how much you mean to him even if you are not far from him.

Comments

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Answer 9

Manage consistent communication with her through video call, chat of everything. Always show your caring to her even as little as asking if she has great day or not.

Show/share/tell her everyday of your activities, like meet a friend, going to work, so she knows you do a positive things during you two in ldr.

Comments

I have already experienced that when we scheduled our calls every night. It is sweet and such a relief for both of us

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Answer 10

Long distance relationships can work just like any other relationship but it requires much effort to have the relationship work. The most important thing is open communication with each other. With modern technology you can chat via video call which is interesting. 

Also make time to go to her city and see her. It can even vmbe twice a month depending on the much you can afford to visit the city. 

Comments

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Answer 11

Always talk to her. Every day make call her. At least manage in month to have meeting with her. When you get chance tell her how much you love her. 

Comments

That reduces my stress at work. Keep cherishing her even on a busy day at the office. I guarantee you to be more cheerful and active after that conversation 

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Answer 12

Trust, compassion, proper communication and love can solve all relationship problems in this world. Show your live, trust your partner, always stand besides her, love her, show her that you are proud of her. 

Comments

This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimisticObviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.

Answer 13

First of all wait for her call or message for 4 months to know If your girl friend really likes you. It really makes sense of fake relationship or real one. 

Comments

That's relatable for me, I used to wait my partner's call and vice versa when I used to call her

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Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite rightThis is quite a reasonable and knowledgeable answer and I think you are quite right considering the angle you are seeing the question from.

Answer 14

As what I've said earlier in my past answers communication and love is the best virtue to have whether it is in friendship or relationship. Love them for whoever they are and tell them in chat or calls. No need to prove it if it is felt by one another. Spend some time talking to each other online is a better way to strengthen your love. Presence is the reason why you miss each other.

Comments

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Answer 15

If she falls easily for other guys,it's not worh it to keep such a girl!Wait for the right one to come! There are many girls who wouldn't give you suspicions!

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Answer 16

Move to her city and start a life there so you can let her get to know you. Show her your willing to do whatever it takes to be by her side.

Comments

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Answer 17

You should simply do it by keeping in touch with her and calling and taking to her on a daily basis and making sure she's into you by doing this you guys will stay lovers.

Answer 18

you simply can not just make this happen it has to happen in time and relationships are like a good cheese they take a long time to forment to becomeing mature and desireable

Answer 19

Yiu can't stop the feeling to other boys, but you can do something to make sure your girl knows that you love her and she meant everything to you. If the girl is genuine then all really want is your love, care, attention and sometime. It okay, if you are busy, and can't speak to her whole day, but even you speak to her for 5 min make her realize how  badly you missed her, show your concern and care for her, always try to express your love in a creative way, whatever is possible to from a long distance. 

Answer 20

A long-distance relationship cannot survive without hope. To make a long-distance relationship work you need to discuss together the level of commitment to each other and to the relationship, avoid jealousy and trust each other, and check and catch up with each other.