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How to deal with negative people who are very close to you:


1. Never assume. Ask them if you really want to know the answer. Since you are really close to them, it is likely that they are comfortable with sharing personal details, thoughts, or opinions about different matters. Also, contrary to the popular belief, the way a negative person thinks is highly unpredictable so to stay safe from misunderstandings, never assume.

2. Mean what you say. Do not make promises that you can't keep. Do not sugarcoat anything. Do not assure them about something that you are not sure of. Just tell them what you can do to help them or what you can do that they will appreciate at the moment. Also, whenever you make a promise that you will be there to support them, make sure that you will do it.

3. Show don't tell. When the negative person is having a problem, act on the solution and instead of telling him or her that there is a way to solve the problem, show how you are solving it. This will most likely result to a long-term change in their point-of-view.
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Well said. Act is better than telling to negative people. Definitely it will bring change their point of view. Thanks for your answer.
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Very negative people are downers. They do not see any positive thing in life. They will always say and do negative things.

Remain positive always. Think of all the successful things you have got to be a positive person.

My view is to ignore them. If you give them much attention is when they will come to you more.
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I am positive and easy going person. I always make friends of this kind. If suppose I surrounded by negative people, I will stay away from them.

Negative thoughts kills our future, hopes, relationship, etc. So stay away from negative people.
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To deal with the Negative people, which are very close to me, i don't think about their viewpoints. I hear to them and give them the Solutions of the problem.
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If you have the chance, then try to uplift their souls for not being negative. I am sure there are so many ways to do this. Perhaps you can try to know what makes them in misery. People have their own moments and problems in life. Try to help them out and break free from being pessimistic.
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Sometimeshe biggest pain that we experience come from people who are really close to us. In such a case I would completely ignore them and live my life after all this has shown me that you are not a friend but an enemy. 
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It dosen't really matter if a negative person is talking with you , because it totally depends on how your brain makes an understanding about someone , because there is no such thing as totally negative or totally positive , everything has it's negative side and it's positive side. One's should always be open to accept anything or any argument.
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If they are negative for only one issue and it can be solved then I try to help them and let them think positively, but if it is their habit to be negative just I ignore to talk to them about things that they will be negative at. I treat them in a normal way and I don't get involved too much with them, because they will spread negative energy and change my mood .
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6 techniques to manage pessimistic individuals

Be secure.

Tune in without judgment.

Assume command over your time.

Act with goal, don't respond.

Put down stopping points.

Acknowledge liability.
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We don't have the choice if someone close to us is a negative person. We have to deal with them whether we like it or not. We need to adjust to their attitude if we think at times they are being negative just be quiet and not clash with them if we can avoid them or just be civil with them to avoid too much attachment that later that might lead to something bad or misunderstandings. If we can correct them and tell them to stop thinking like that or better suggest something to change their way of thinking much better. We are concerned about them we can help them by advising or correcting them if they are about to say something bad or negative.
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If you are leaving with negative minded people I will advice you read motivational quotes and try changing them but you shouldn't take everything they say serious.
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I try my best not to get involved in anything they do, avoid their conversion, just keep quiet and let them be who they are, and i can help them change if they want.
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Dealing with negative people who are close to you can be challenging. It's important to set boundaries and communicate effectively with them. Try to understand their perspective, but also assertively communicate how their negativity affects you. Seek support from friends and engage in self-care activities to maintain a positive outlook. It's okay to distance yourself if the negativity becomes overwhelming.
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There are a few things you can do to deal with negative people which are very close to you. First, you can try to build a support system for them in your own life. This could mean being around people who will support you as you deal with the negative person. Secondly, you could try to build up a positive attitude towards them and make sure they are treated with respect. Finally, you could try to find ways to get along well together.
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There are a few things you can do to deal with negative people which are very close to you. One thing you can do is talk to them, ask them how they are feeling, and express concern for them. Additionally, you can try to build a support system for them, include in their social environment people who support them, and make sure you are always there for them in case of an opportunity for support.
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Ask them if you really want to know the answer. Since you are really close to them, it is likely that they are comfortable with sharing personal details, thoughts, or opinions about different matters. Also, contrary to the popular belief, the way a negative person thinks is highly unpredictable so to stay safe from misunderstandings, never assume.
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You can only overcome negativity with positivity. You can't extinguish fire with fire but only with water. Where hatred exist, show love, and where there is confusion bring peace and calmness.
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Set clear boundaries , focus on your own positivity and limit your exposure to their negativity. Surround yourself with positive influences and be firm with your views.
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Dealing with negative people, especially when they are close to you, can be challenging. Here are some strategies to navigate such situations:

1. **Set Boundaries:** Establish clear boundaries with the negative person. Let them know what behavior is unacceptable and communicate the impact it has on you.

2. **Maintain Positivity:** Focus on maintaining your own positive mindset. Don't let their negativity drag you down. Surround yourself with positivity and engage in activities that uplift you.

3. **Empathize and Listen:** Try to understand their perspective and listen to their concerns. Sometimes negative behavior stems from underlying issues. Empathizing doesn't mean condoning negativity, but it can help you approach the situation with compassion.

4. **Choose Your Battles:** Not every negative remark requires a response. Choose when to engage and when to let things slide. Sometimes, disengaging is the best option.

5. **Encourage Positive Communication:** Encourage positive and constructive communication. If the person consistently focuses on the negative, gently guide the conversation toward more uplifting topics.

6. **Offer Support:** If the negativity seems rooted in personal issues, offer support without enabling their negative behavior. Encourage them to seek solutions rather than dwelling on problems.

7. **Limit Exposure:** If possible, limit the time you spend with negative individuals. Create distance when necessary for your well-being.

8. **Surround Yourself with Positivity:** Cultivate relationships with positive and supportive individuals. Spending time with people who uplift you can counterbalance the negativity from others.

9. **Practice Self-Care:** Take care of your mental and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation to help manage stress associated with negativity.

10. **Seek Professional Help:** If the negativity is causing significant emotional distress, consider seeking the guidance of a counselor or therapist who can provide strategies for coping and improving communication.

Remember, you have control over how you respond to negative behavior. Prioritize your own well-being and make choices that contribute to a positive and healthy environment for yourself.
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