Why do marriages refuse to work?

Question

We marry those we love. At times we do not listen when advised. That man or woman is your life. Why then, in marriage, it does not work out? Is there some lie lie somewhere?

Answer 1

Marriages refuse to work if there is no love, patience, and understanding from one another. Sometimes if others say there is no more thrill in their relationship. Either one or both are weak which leads to sometimes cheating with their partner. Once you get married its a forever commitment with your partner what trials come your way. You should learn to understand and support each other weaknesses to make the relationship stronger.

Answer 2

Marriages will work and should work. It is in our hands only. In any relationship, what is most needed is mutual understanding and trust.

Comments

I agree

Marriages should work

God wanted them to work.

Marriages are the denominator of all successes in the world.

Answer 3

There are so many reasons why marriage does not work despite loving one another. The most common root cause of marriage failure is a financial problem. It cannot be denied because money is needed to have a family. But then, it is not an excuse to have a marriage problem for me.

Answer 4

The disadvantages of marriage may include restricted personal freedom due to canstantly compramising with your partner: getting bored of each other time, having to deadl wit hthe in-laws.

Answer 5

Most marriages which divorce is as a result of lack of understanding, communication, love, loyalty, and respect, if these attributes are not there, it won't work.

Answer 6

Well according to what I have heard and even seen some marriage despite love being there the spouse lack understanding and this alone can destroy ones marriage.

Answer 7

Sometimes marriage can fail to work due to some personal reasons but mostly causes are marrying because of sexual desires, forced marriages where by after being impregnated you force marriage and marrying because of pressure sometimes fails to work.

Answer 8

Before marriage people can act and be faked , they act in a way which is not their reality , after marriage things start to appear in different situation , here you will discover things that you don't know about the person you loved , you will find the second face.

Answer 9

Marriage refuses to work when there is no maturity,love,understanding and tolerance,the above mentioned things must be applied in marriage otherwise,it wont work.Patience is also important.

Answer 10

there are many reasons of marriages refusal to work. main reason is mental un competablity between two partners husband and wife. both should have daily at least 3 times shorts of sax.

Answer 11

There is no lie there is no need for a lie there is no fear of a lie there is no fear of being truthful to someone we love

There is a problem with the statements made herein. A marriage may be refuse to work because the two families that areurally love each other, but the husband and wife do not. The husband is living in a different world and does not understand the Tagalog way of life. The wife does not care for the same things that her husband does and does not have to do with. The husband is FAMILY without the wives family. The wife does not want to be with her husband because he makes her feel this way.

The problem with this marriage is that the two families are not compatible. The families are not like the families that the husbands and wives have. The families that areural love each other are like the families that their husbands and wives have. The families that areural love each each family. The families that areural love each each family.

Answer 12

There is no lie there is no need for one to be told. The issue is more about a lack of communication between the parties. They may be able to communicate sometimes, but there may be other factors that need to be communicated. It could be that the couple is not ready to start a relationship with each other. There are many things that can hold us back from being happy in relationships. One being that we do not listen to others when they tell us what we need. We are our own Controller. We can make or break a relationship what we are. We are not perfect, and we make mistakes. However, we are more likely to be happy in a relationship if we are in the driver's seat and communicating what we want and need is part of our control.

Answer 13

Lack of understanding is part of reasons marriage do not work. People tend to fall in love for the wrong reason. And also some people were not trained to tolerate others which is a critical part of every marriage success.

Answer 14

Marriages may fail due to communication issues, unresolved conflicts, lack of intimacy, incompatible values or goals, financial problems, infidelity, or unrealistic expectations, leading to emotional distance and eventual breakdown.