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There is no one answer to this question, as different people have different ways of feeling happiness, joy, and satisfaction. Some people may feel that because they have happy thoughts, they are more likely to be happy thoughts away. Others may believe that happy thoughts make them feel good, so they might have thoughts about themselves or others that they can't help but feel. Ultimately, it is up to the individual to decide what feels good to them.
It is human. You have the evil side and the good side. At times you get evil thoughts and at times good thoughts. It depends on which ones you have filled yourself much with. Our eyes and ears are the entrance points of good or bad. Each person should know what he sees and hears. It has to be sensored.
Whenever a horrible thought creeps in to your mind, welcome it on a standstill position. You know how a brave warrior stands still and calculates his options, his moves, his enemy's position, and strategies how to fight his enemy? He is quiet, calm, strong, logical and using his rational capabilities on how to fight his harasser, or worst, his accuser.
With us, with all our human frailties, our worst enemy is the self. We accuse ourselves of horrible misdeeds and submit to telling ourselves, "you're doomed." And the good side within us, called the conscience (soul) is trying to fight what our human self (flesh) has gone through, is going through--harmful and bad things--in its existence.
Forgiveness. When you are on a standstill position, you will be able to think things through-- the pain, the sorrow, the bad decisions, and the failures and mistakes-- rationally. Those past thoughts that make you feel horrible are the means and ways our conscience (soul) is gently and kindly telling us to deal with it, once and for all. And forgive yourself and feel remorse or very sorry for any particular bad (evil) choice we made. And promise yourself never to do it again, or never to allow the reason for the pain to hurt you again.
"Unforgiveable" people are hard to pardon. This is hard to do. But it's the only way to be released of horrible thoughts and guilt. On the bright side, they are the ones that strengthen us to be bolder, courageous and brave to make sure that such bad things will never be allowed to ever happen to us, again.
And move on to a clean slate, so to speak. Try to find joy to erase those horrible thoughts with good uplifting music, messages of hope and of our kind God. You are forgiven, remember?
Even I am facing this issue for quite a long time and I wouldn't say that my problem is cured coz I still get a lot of horrible thoughts whenever I am doing something or going somewhere or while having conversation with others.
But I think we can stop thinking negativey indulging ourselves with more lively activity which boosts our brain energy like;
•swimming
•exercising
•spending time with family
•meditating
•painting
•drawing
And so on..
But I think we can stop thinking negativey indulging ourselves with more lively activity which boosts our brain energy like;
•swimming
•exercising
•spending time with family
•meditating
•painting
•drawing
And so on..
We have horrible thoughts because we think negative, remain stress and talk less and think more, we need to become positive thinker as
" Two men looked out from The prison bars one saw the mud while other saw the stars." when we started thinking positive our mind will started to fill with pleasing thoughts.
" Two men looked out from The prison bars one saw the mud while other saw the stars." when we started thinking positive our mind will started to fill with pleasing thoughts.
Whenever a horrible thought creeps in to your mind, welcome it on a standstill position. You know how a brave warrior stands still and calculates his options, his moves, his enemy's position, and strategies how to fight his enemy? He is quiet, calm, strong, logical and using his rational capabilities on how to fight his harasser, or worst, his accuser.