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The biggest thing I learned when planning my wedding was that the details matter. From the flowers and decorations to the food and music, every small detail can have a huge impact on the overall atmosphere and experience of the wedding. Taking the time to plan and consider all the details is essential for creating a successful and memorable event.

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Planning a wedding is very stressful, especially if you want a large wedding with a sit-down dinner. The planning stage, making sure everything has been done and getting the invitations out on time all take a skilled person who can organize and accomplish these tasks. One great way I learned to accomplish all this was through delegation. Don't try to do it all on your own.

  1. Make a list of what needs to be done.
  2. Break the list down into easy tasks that a single person could accomplish for you.
  3. Make sure the task that you ask a person to do won't interfere with your plans and cause an issue in the end.
  4. Now meet with both of your families. Have a dinner to present this to them. The family is the best way to get things done.
  5. Ask them for their help. Tell them about the lists and what needs to be done. Explain that they can easily complete these tasks to help out. They will be so happy to help you plan your wedding. Furthermore, this will help bring you closer to his family in the end.
  6. Tell people to text you anytime if they can't decide on the color or what items you'd like.
In the end, each person plays a small role in your wedding and your stress levels go way down. You are able to accomplish everything that needs to be done. In the end, your wedding is a beautiful day. 
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Thanks for your answer. It will really help others to make easy planning. 
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I helped in organizing for the simple wedding of a good friend before. They invited me as a wedding singer and end up one of the organizer and donated some of my money. I never thought that my simple role would be stressful and that is to find a band that will play music on the wedding ceremony. I learned to make a research first and thorough review. I even learned how to trust stranger but for a little while only, for the wedding only. I also learned how to know myself when handling the stress in wedding planning. I remember I learned to ask help. Even the couple that about to get married ask help to everyone. Share your problems to your family because family will always supports you, even your closest friends. To add to this, just believe that great things happen if you want great things happen. You can make everything possible if you believe.
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When I was planning my wedding what I learned was the act of patience. I never knew event planners could also do very bad job of over seeing ones day. The tailors weren't left out the was a long delay in getting the groom suits ready it wasn't funny at all.

I have used that act of patience to learn a lot about life and try to always applied to other life's situations too. I don't expect too much again from people and I know I don't need to depend too much on people and most importantly I need to do most things myself to get it right.Because a day to my wedding I needed to do a lot of things myself because some things were done wrongly.
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The key thing is to use professionals at every step of preparation. Our wedding was in NY and it was really great (at least I think sowink). We paid special attention to the event furniture rental (NYC) and it wasn't in vain. It's a year since we got married and our guests keep talking about our weddingheart and they have profile pics made at our marvelous photo zone. 

If you delegate the preparation process to the professionals who have years of experience in this sphere, you will be less stressful on THE day and even if something goes wrong there will be people responsible for it and they will fix it immediately. 

One more thing I want to point out - is to plan everything thoroughly, write everything down and visualise in details the wedding you want to have. Thus you will have more chances to make your dream come true.

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My wedding planning is very stressful. I found it very difficult. But I have managed somehow. The hardest thing is purchasing clothes and Jewel. I spent most of the time with that. 
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I am not married yet, but I have an idea about this topic. The biggest thing that a couple will learn about getting married is it is expensive. It depends on what country they are in. All I know that it needs to be extravagant for those who wanted to practice the old fashion ways.
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In Africa you plan in excess because when a popular person is wedding there is bound to be excess people turning up and if you didn't plan for excess then your guest won't have enough drinks and food going round and some people may leave disappointed, so always plan ahead and plan for excess. 
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I have had friends planning for weddings and saw how stressful it was. I have learned from them and am positive and confident that I will work to make it less stressful. 
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Planning a wedding is very important and it need to be handle carefully and with caution or even invite an event planner to help relieve you of the stress.
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The biggest thing I learned when planning my wedding was that it takes a lot of time and effort to create your perfect day. From researching vendors, to deciding on a budget, to finding the perfect venue, it can be quite overwhelming. I learned that it is necessary to take the time to really think through what you want and to be organized in order to get everything done in a timely manner.
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i have learned the thing while planning about wedding that sax is the most important factor to keep strong relation. so try to focus on penus stifness. use vigera daily for two months before marry
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The biggest thing you learned when planning your wedding is that it is important to have a planner who can help you plan your weddingdule and make it to all your events. Additionally, you should know what you need to know to plan your wedding and make sure it is the most beautiful and meaningful event possible.
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making sure everything has been done and getting the invitations out on time all take a skilled person who can organize and accomplish these tasks. One great way I learned to accomplish all this was through delegation. Don't try to do it all on your own.
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Although I haven't wedded yet, the biggest lessions I want everyone to learn is this: wedding is different from marriage. After the wedding the business of marriage begins. Wedding lasts for a day, marriage lasts for a lifetime, therefore pay more attention to marriage, acquire know on how to build a successful married life and home than how elaborate the wedding will be, because when the guests are gone, it is you and your spouse for a lifetime.
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