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She said she's not happy anymore. I was devastated and hurt.

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It is not wrong to make a try, if truly you love her, did you find out the reason she is not happy, if her unhappiness is your fault then you need to adjust your character. But remember you can't force love, it should be free and come from the mind. 
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The girl was seeing someone else. She's not worth winning her back. I've moved on. And I am happier now with my work, business and good friends. Good luck with her life, though.
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If she truly loved him, she would never had left him. She loved something else or maybe she was just killing her time.
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Acctually it's just depends on you. If you still love her or want her to back to your side, you can do something amazing in order to win her back. But if you dont love her anymore, so just do your best to forget her and find another girls.
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Nah. Tears have run dry now. I'm over with feeling sad now. I'm very glad we are over.
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You can do something amazing to win her and she will leave again.
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Relationship is like a mirror. Once it has broken, it can't be attached or same as before. But if you really want her back in your life you can try to solve the problem. But I don't think the relationship as same as before.
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Thank you. I'm beginning to believe your reason to be true and logical for not getting back together with her.
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Wow that was a good example but a bit painful. Work hard to pursue her mate if she still deserve you.
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If your Girlfriend has broken up with you,leave her.She will not come back to you.You search for your wife.That will be the settlement of your situation.If you will avoid her,she will regret about her decision to leave you and that will not make you devastated.Thanks.
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Thank you. This advice sounds workable, comforting and reassuring, somehow. Thank you for your kind and firm advice for me to consider.
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I agree with your answer. It's really good and firm decision that one should take in this kind of situation.
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Thanks for your answer. It is really practical advise. Move on and search for better half.
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Just leave the relationship,take time to heal and move if she seen it not necessary to solve the differences.
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Meet up with her in person and get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, forgive you and become open to being with you again. ...

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Redefine the relationship and start again. ...

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Make her feel jealous by enjoying your life without her. ...

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Get her to have sex with you one last time.
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Nah. She lost all my respect and trust. It's not worth it getting her back.

I'm good friends with a Christian girl now. Just friends where there is mutual respect, trust and faith in God.
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I have my personal principle in life and that is, "If you hate me, the more I hate you." We cannot force her to stay in your life. It is not also healthy to save the friendship if she finally decided for cutting it. Sometimes it needs to give someone a time to think. She will have the moment and realize that you are important to her.
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Thank you. I agree with you. I'm better off without her in my life. She's been seeing someone else while we were in a relationship. How bad is that!
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That was so bad I think you just made the right choice of staying alone . If she was cheating then it is horrible. She will continue to cheat on you. Go find other girls.
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its a good idea to give yourself time after a breakup, to work on yourself, improve and grow.

If you are considering getting back with an ex, then if you can go back into the relationship
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No. If shes not happy with u and u go and convince her to get back with u. U wont be happy knowing shes only settling for u. And her mind wont be with u its gonna be somewhere else and this wont be healthy for either of u. 
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Let her breath for awhile. A girl is sometimes a mind shifter if there's no reason for her to love you again hse will never realize that, but when she realized that it was really a bad decision leaving you, then she will definitely reach out for you.  Just guve her time to think..  And try not to disturb her,  let her miss you.
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It depends with how you broke up. Was it your mistake, did she dump you or it was issues to do with unfaithfulness. If you think you can still talk to her it okay. The greatest risk is what we have not taken try your luck. 
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If you really love a person, her/his happiness will be your top priority. Being in a relationship, you must do all the things you need to do to make it work. If it is not working at all, giving up is the best solution. Giving up doesn't mean losing. Sometimes, it simply means you should let go the love you already lost to find your right one.
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As she said that she is not happy anymore without caring about how you would feel, I think you should not try to win her back. Let her go. A relationship is not always about the happy moments, there are ups and downs. And if she is not happy in a relationship, its better to let her go. Don't allow yourself to suffer more. 
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Meet up with her in person and get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, forgive you and become open to being with you again.

When getting a girlfriend back after a break up, the most important thing that you need to do is meet up with her in person.
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Why not if you still love Her, It is not bad to ask for a second chance. Everyone can commit a mistake but be aware upon your actions second time around because She will be more careful and be more assertive with the action you may show. But if it is a toxic relationship then forget about Her and find someone better in order for you to be happy.
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i think u should make how u feel about her very clear to her and then just let it be if she feels the same things will progress on their own 
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Everyone know what is reak deep down in their heart, some just ignore it while other take courage to acept it. If you had really hurt her, or never made effort to make her happy or had given importance to other things over her then you know the answer. If you truy love her and cannot lose her then this time give your 100% in this relationship, but if you did everything, but still she is  not happy or you are not affected by her decision of  leaving you, then just separate mutually move on with your life and let her move on with hers.
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I will advise you to move on with your life. When she told you that she was no longer happy with you, she had found a greener pasture some where.


Your bid to convince her back to your life is a totally wastage your time.
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If you are going to beg her to win her back you will have to make some changes like stoping doing things that will make her unhappy and do things that will bring happiness.
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If you really love your girlfriend then you should try to win her back.

Know why she exactly broke up with you and also let her understand nobody is perfect.

There is need for tolerance in relationship. Let us forsake unrealistic expectations in any relationship.

We are all humans.
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The question is DO YOU LOVE HER?

If you do you should try and win her back.

It is worth to have a conversation, calm, respectful, to understand what brought her to this decision.

When people are hurt they may say hurtful things, try and not fall into an argument, just listen to what she has to say.

You can say that you are sorry and still love her and want the relationship to succeed, and willing to invest the efforts for it to succeed.

She might still want to break away, give her time to reflect, think, be without you.

Then calculate the situation.

It is possible to win an ex girl back even after noisy break ups.
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