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In real-life situations, there are some children cannot control certain challenges in their lives. Instead of their biological parents who can take care of them, they need to be with their grandparents. The issue is their parents cannot do their parenting responsibility.


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Yes I really wonder so too my parents always tell me to go and stay with my grandparents when I was a child.

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Many  full-time grandparenting roles,--- because biological parents cannot fulfill the responsibility--- have saved abandoned children's lives tremendously.

If grandparents are willing to 'adopt' their abadoned grandchildren, it will be a means of restoration and saving those precious young lives.
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@WhyWeaver I am feeling bad for kids to experience this. It is a matter of makes or breaks the lives of these innocent souls. For parents, they need to take their responsibility seriously.
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Parents should do their responsibility honesty and sincerely. Grandparents are great asset to grandchildren.
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I think without grandparents life is nothing. We can't learn everything with teachers & parents. There are some values which learn by grandparents.
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Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.
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@anonymousbig02 I am glad that you justified the concern that it is best to let grandkids to be with their loving grandparents.
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The dilemma that we elapsed in thought to this question completely gave us the ability to think for answers like theseI understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.
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Yes, I knew someone who has been taken care by his grandparents and he has better character than me.
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Many full-time grandparenting roles,--- because biological parents cannot fulfill the responsibility--- have saved abandoned children's lives tremendously.

If grandparents are willing to 'adopt' their abadoned grandchildren, it will be a means of restoration and saving those precious young lives. There is nothing wrong to let the grandchildren be with their grandparents. Mutual understanding comes along with being together.
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Yes it is quite fine depending on the level of relating to each other,most grandparents are very close to their young children therefore making it okay for them to live together.
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There is nothing wrong to let the grandchildren be with their grandparents. Mutual understanding comes along with being together.
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I understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.
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Sometimes, grandparents has more lessons shared than our parents, they lived longer and experienced more that's why they learned more
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Yes. It is good for young people to with their grand parents. While they grow up with their grand parents, they learned discipline and good morals. 

They learn family values. 
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I do believe that grandparents are the best people in the world. They can show their love genuinely. I hope that parents out there can do the same thing for their kids @Sathyabose.
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Wonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and i find this relatable understanding from you as an individual.
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I understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.The dilemma that we elapsed in thought to this question completely gave us the ability to think for answers like theseYou are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.
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Yes you are right having grandparents around you and your child are really great thing.
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Yes.It is good for the Young people to live with their Grandparents.Our upcoming generation will come to know about our ancestors.It will create the social environment in the life of people in their Home.It is beneficial for everyone.
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I agree. If the biological parents cannot do their parenting to their children. Grandparents are next in line to do this.
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I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you doObviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.
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Not at all that the children's parents couldn't support them or take care of them, but they do care for their grandparents more than their parents. They have reason to do that.
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I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do.
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@Nocturnal Query I agree that grandmas and grandpapas can do their job well since they did it to their children before. They can raise their grandkids a better person in this world.
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Wonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and understanding from you as an individual.This message Is quite clear and deeply thought through I believe it is a way forward for all.If anyone is looking for an answer to this question I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.
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Yes I believe it is good to stay with grandparents. 

There might be many reasons for such a situation, like not staying with parents and have to stay with grandparents. 

But at the same time staying with them will be beneficial too, don't take the words in a wrong manner.

But staying with grandparents will give the children a good support and can inculcate good habits too. At the same time the grandparents will feel of having support with them and will not feel aloof.
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I do believe that some grandparents still value the importance of having a tight family. Grandchildren can learn so many things from them while the parents need time to be responsible at some point.
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As of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked above.Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.This is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.
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I thing having grandparents is amazing and some how they really become chill and sweet around their grandchildren. 
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Yes and no, for people who are very busy may be engaged in work, it could be a bit hectic combining work and taking care of grand parents, but for people who are less busy, it will be a nice experience showing affection to old people, so it all depends on schedule and work load.  
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If there are grandparents in the house, no matter how much workload is there, it is not known.  
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Very true and adequate people should start opening there eyes and seeing things this way.
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@akanetuk1 You have a point. I do think that parents need to know the importance of balancing their lives between work and family.
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Very true and adequate people should start opening there eyes and seeing things this way.This is very useful information with accuracy,I find this information quite outstanding and relatively important
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Yes is very good for young people to live with their grandparents. As we known grandparents have more experienced about black and white of the life, so as young people they learn the good thing or the step to be success persons in the future.
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I didn't know this,but now I know this is very useful information about the matter at hand.
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@Milautama That's the reason why young couples need to think more than twice before getting married. If they are not sure about having children of their own, then they need to embrace it. I felt bad for some grandparents that need to step in to take good care of their grandchildren because the parents are irresponsible.
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Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.Wonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and understanding from you as an individual.
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Grandparents are a valuable resource because they have so many stories and experiences from their own lives to share. Oftentimes children will listen to grandparents even when they are not listening to their parents or other adults. Grandparents also offer a link to a child's cultural heritage and family history.
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This is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.
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@Pesstar4real2020 I must agree with you about the qualities of good grandparents in their grandchildren's lives. It is not easy to be in such a situation for their parents in earning something for the family and taking good care of their children is not enough. Grandparents are the ones who can fill in these shortcomings.
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If anyone is looking for an answer to this question I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.This message Is quite clear and deeply thought through I believe it is a way forward for all.Brilliant facts now I understand even more this is quite outstanding,this is a brilliant consecutive idea to the question at hand .
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Sometimes grandparents can turn out to be egoistic and manipulative, and this can turn a family's relationships into never ending drama.

Some grandparents do this:

They keep interfering with your parent's decisions
They make you feel guilty in order to manipulate you.
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Important and ver reasonable information that should be considered when trying to understand this topic/question.
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@Polar Bear You described the traditional grandparents well. That's the reason why some daughters-in-law called their parents-in-law as monsters-in-law.
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Important and ver reasonable information that should be considered when trying to understand this topic/question.Very true and adequate people should start opening there eyes and seeing things this way.Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite right.
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Yes it is good for young people to live their grandparents. Grand parents take care of their grandcgrand and take full care of them. 

Children learn their grand parents something that builds their future well. They learn good habits like love, respecting elders, loving children, helping the elderly & poor elderly persons. They also learn moral values with their grandparents.
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I agree with you. These kids will be able to understand the principles of taking good care of their grandparents. It is also like giving back the love and care done by their grandparents.
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As of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked above.You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.I understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.
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Yes it is good but biological and physically it is not good. It is love for his children's. May be he can leave some extra time. So they will be happy.

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Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite right.keep up the useful information.
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@Sanjeev raja I do think that some children cannot understand why grandparents need to take good care of them. Since their parents are as busy as a bee at work, they need to ask for help from the elders. In fact, it is a common scenario in China now.
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The sensitivity to this topic aloud us to think accordingly and you did.Educating and encouraging each other is what we are here for I think you have fulfilled the mission with this answer.Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.

 
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Yes that's good, as old generation, they will teach our kids some traditional and earthy habit and culture. And grandparents is also need happiness in their remaining life by spending time with the grandchild.
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You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.keep up the good work hopefully you will get better.
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@Shayens Spending time with grandparents is the best thing for them to experience. We cannot bring back the old times if they are not here in this world anymore.
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Indeed this is true I am glad you see things from this perspective because this is quite rightThis is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.
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I grew up at my grandmother's place. It was a nice experience since my mom was busy at work and had no one to take care of me. But she never neglected me as she performed all her duties well. She was a responsible mother. Right now it has changed children are thrown to their grandparents and the parents even forget if they have children. It's so bad 
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I am glad that you can comprehend the real situation for your mother needed to work and leave grandma. It is still a win-win situation because you can spend and learn something from your grandma.
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This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimisticI find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you doBasically this point of view is very very legit and understandable let's hope people can take it in the right way.Brilliant facts now I understand even more this is quite outstanding,this is a brilliant consecutive idea to the question at hand 
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This message Is quite clear and deeply thought through I believe it is a way forward for all.If anyone is looking for an answer to this question I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.
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There is nothing wrong if the children grow in their grandparents as there  are some parents who cannot handle the responsibilities that they enter, simply has no  interest or because of the situation calls for it. But we need to acknowledge that majority who grew from their grandparents are sweet, loving and caring individuals.
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We cannot deny that some parents are irresponsible and the loving grandparents are always to the rescue to save the faces of their children in the faces of their grandchildren.
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You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.
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This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimisticI find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you doObviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.I understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.
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It may seem untrue,but this days grandparents want to live trendy life,they don't whant responsabilities,especialy kids.They usaly think"you wanted children,so YOU gotta rise them"
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Some grandparents do not want to take good care of their grandchildren. They claimed that they are done taking good care of their own children.
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I understand what you are trying to say, keep it up.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.

 
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Having grandparents nearby kids who get to spend a lot of time with them tend to have fewer emotional and behavioral problems. Having grandparents can get away with a little spoiling, which gives them a special place in a child's heart. They tell great stories, bearers of family history. They provide a stable, safe, loving, and fun environment for their grandchildren.
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I do agree that most grandparents love their grandchildren with all their hearts. They do not want to let them feel neglected despite the biological parents do not have enough time with them. 
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Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimisticI find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do.
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Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.

 This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimisticAs of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked aboveWonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and understanding from you as an individual.
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Is it beneficial to live with your grandparents?

Grandparents provide a stable, safe, loving and fun environment for their grandchildren and the closeness between grandchildren and grandparents may keep older adults sharp, ward off depression, boost social connections, and solidify an important family relationship.
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Grandparents are the ones who build the strong foundation of the family. Some biological parents are so busy at present and they asked for some help from the elders.
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I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you doObviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimistic.
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Grandparents, with their rich parenting experience, can provide support, role modeling, and encouragement when they are raising children.
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I can understand why biological parents entrusted their children to their parents. For the reason that they will not let their grandchildren stray into certain bad things. 
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I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.
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My childhood was in my grandmother home

And it's not a problem i think we know that they're just grandparents and we know our family

The emotion for two is same 
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If I can turn back the time, I want the young ones to experience life in the province. It is simply life to live there. In such a situation, they can able to know the differences between the city and country.
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I appreciate you taking the time to give some information I needed. Thank you for sharing your information.I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.

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