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Is there something you're still holding on to? Is it time to let it go?

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Letting go does not mean you stop caring. It means you stop trying to force others to. 

In the end, only three things matter...how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.
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If anyone is looking for an answer to this question I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.
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Yes. I am still holding my relationship even it's hurts. If there is no trust, then no use in holding the relationship. It's time for to go.
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This message Is quite clear and deeply thought through I believe it is a way forward for all.
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Letting go is freedom, some of us still hold on to the pain of the past in our hearts, but the lesson is that forgiveness does not only set the person we hold at heart free but also the person that forgives, so it is a mutual act that benefits the forgiver more. 
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Wonderfully presented and am sure it is based on a high level of research and understanding from you as an individual.
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Yes, I currently still hold my relationship. Even some of people suggest to just let that person go, and find someone else. But for me sacrificate will make me happy at the end of the day.
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Important and very reasonable information that should be considered when trying to understand this topic/question.
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As I grow older, I stopped dwelling in the past. For the reason that it cannot help me. Moving on is the course of action to be more productive and the time to loving oneself. If we keep on whining about in the past, then what will happen to our lives? It is a nada moment and can make us feel more depressed or even depressing when thinking about the old days.
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You're expected to sacrifice your personal values and change into someone you're really not. ...

Your trust is continuously broken. ...

Staying in it always makes you feel broken, depressed and frustrated. ...

You feel inferior. ...

You justify that it's worth holding on, when it's really not.
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Yes i am holding onto a relationship that has nothing left in it. I am in a relationship in which i get abused emotionally and mentally. Whenever i try to show him his mistakes instead of accepting and resolving it he says" i am like this, i won't change for anyone" . I really don't know if i should continue or i should give up. I really want to rid of all this pain but then i think this way i will get used by him and he'll continue his normal life. I also don't know whether he's good or bad, he makes me so confused with his actions or maybe i am confused because i don't want to let him go. I wish if somehow I could get a certain answer of whether he is good or bad for me. I don't want to waste my life like this & that too on a person who is not worthy. Please someone help me get out of this prison which is made by myself. Because i can leave him whenever i want but i just don't have the courage to do so. And now by this time of relationship i have also lost the clarity of what is right & what is wrong for me? Who is bad & who is good for me? I really hope to better be single all my life rather than this.
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No there's nothing am still holding on to I've decided to keep an open mind in everything Ido and by doing this my life is better and way enjoyable.
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In my life i don't think there is anything i am holding onto but there are times when i get really upset and i feel like just shuting my myself away from the world.
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I'm still holding on to a few things, but I'm starting to let them go. I'm not as bad off as I used to be, but I'm not perfect either.

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There's something I'm still holding on to. It's time to let go. There's nothing left to lose.

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In the end, only three things matter...how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.I mean why not just look at it from this perspective it is quite wise.
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Moving on is the course of action to be more productive and the time to loving oneself. If we keep on whining about in the past, then what will happen to our lives? It is a nada moment and can make us feel more depressed or even depressing when thinking about the old days.
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Well for three years of my life I have been having feelings for my best friend but now though he is showing me that he is very interested and he also love me but I don't think I want him any more that is it
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