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I was born as a female and I feel like a female, but I don't feel comfortable with my genitals. It's not like I'm transgender nor am I non-binary, so what's wrong with me? I was told before that this could be due to a trauma, but no matter how hard I think, nothing comes to mind? I'm starting to question my sexuality, gender and even my memory! I mean.... WAS I traumatised?? Do I not remember?? Am I gay or maybe asexual? I'm so confused... 

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The only thing that I can suggest is to have a consultation with a shrink. It is better to know what is really going on to you. The shrink can tell more specifically in regard to physical, mental, sexual, etc. I am sure you can find the real answer from an expert.
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I'm sorry but there's nothing I could say about that. If its really bothering you and you feel something isn't right about yourself it would be best to consult a mental health expert. Its only them who could provide you the answers to all the questions that's troubling your mind right now. 
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Sometimes we feel similar too, but I quickly understand that my body is part of me and I have to appreciate and accept it the way it is. You have to configure your thoughts and feeling to think differently, and you have to start liking your body. 
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Some body parts, like our genitals, mean we can get gendered by others in ways we may not be comfortable with, or at a pace that doesn't feel comfortable. That too can be a reason for feeling the way you've been feeling. Anything like this is something a qualified counselor can help you with.
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Acceptance, self love and confidence are key to helping you love and accept yourself better. There's no point of getting confused whatsoever but if it continues you need to seek help from an expert. 
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I will advise you that at this stage of your life you need a therapist who would help you out of this, because that feeling that you are having might lead you somewhere.
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I can only ask you to consider personal development sessions with your therapist. However, becoming confused must have a reason in your life. Something could have happened in your childhood that is projecting in form of confusion. Something related to gender. Go and get help on self awareness with your therapist.
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People may not feel comfortable with their genitals due to cultural beliefs and stigma surrounding their anatomy. Society can often be quick to pass judgement on bodies that are different than the "norm," and people may internalize those feelings and become insecure about their own bodies. In addition, a lack of comprehensive and comprehensive sex education in many schools can make it difficult to access accurate and positive information about one's own anatomy. The silence surrounding our own bodies can contribute to an atmosphere of discomfort and awkwardness. Ultimately, it is important to remember that there is nothing wrong or shameful about one's genitals - no matter their shape or size.
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There is no one answer to this question. Each person is different and might experience different feelings about their body parts, which is why it is important for you to seek help from a sex therapist or counselor if you are struggling to feel comfortable about your body parts.
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There is no one answer to this question - it can be due to a number of factors including trauma or not feeling comfortable with one's genitals. It may be that you are just not feeling comfortable with your sexuality or genderfluid state within your personal story. It is important to remember that you are not alone and there are many people who feel confused and struggling with this type of issue. You are not alone in your struggle to find your place within this world and you have choice to make about how you feel about your body.
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It is better to know what is really going on to you. The shrink can tell more specifically in regard to physical, mental, sexual, etc. I am sure you can find the real answer from an expert.
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