How do you keep a good relationship with your friends?

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In a real-life setting, it is hard to keep friends in our lives. Even if we tried to be trustworthy to them, they still betray us. What went wrong? Is there something wrong with being a good friend?

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Mr. Zack Love+Relationshipsasked Mar 21, 2019

How many trustworthy friends do you have?

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Tweenkie commented Jul 6, 2022

I have friends that I trust but the two of the closest to me are the ones I trust most than my other friends. These are friends that consider my siblings too we've been friends for many years and we know each other so much that I can only share with them my personal secrets than my other simple friends.

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erictsumaanswered Mar 21, 2019

With my life I trust only God who gave me the life itself he is the  creator of the world and the giver of life and the only one who I can trust completely with all my heart . He  always give me unconditional love and support when I needed them  the most.

I can not trust a man because they are not true to themselves and they also  can not keep up with what they say and what they do  they always keep on changing mentally and physically.

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iamdahmmyanswered Mar 26, 2019

Some of us don't keep friends.. not because we don't want to have and keep them in our lives,but because we weren't born yesterday.We have had onslaught of nasty experiences with friends.A friend can make you ..a friend can break you.

The honest truth is we are all human.We are not God..therefore, we can't be perfect. A good friend today may turn bad tomorrow.. This things happen and the sad truth is we have no control over it.

I have friends.. not close friends but people I can just refer to as "just friends".. I'm not an open book to them..I don't tell them my secrets.. I don't discuses my goals with them.We just talk about common things like politics,movies and the rest.

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honest truth is we are all human.We are not God..therefore, we can't be perfect. A good friend today may turn bad tomorrow.. This things happen and the sad truth is we have no control over it.

Answer 1

Sometimes all we need need is a person who will listen to us without judging us. Try to be there to listen to those friend whose hapiness matter to you.

 

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I got your point. A true friend can be our support system. He or she will not pull us down. It sounds so real. Sometimes they can be our number one enemy in life.

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Yes you are correct about what you say bro and I wish you good luck

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Aw. That was sweet. You're a very blessed person to have that one who cherish you at any moment

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@Pessta4real2020 Thanks for agreeing with me. I am grateful that you think so @OnceAnArmy

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Good point of view in the best interest of the readers reading this which widens our point of view.

Answer 2

I think the relationship to be honored. and love from together. they will live like as friends. try to live as like simple life as per your bugdet.

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It sounds like being together without any conditions. If a person is a true friend, he or she can still be loyal. They will make us feel the comfort that we need.

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Yeah that's right. A good friend don't need such money. Anyone whose always with you at all cost is enough to last forever

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@OnceAnArmy I had so many friends who tend to be like this before. Now, they are not in my life anymore.

Answer 3

By taking care of each other in need and being able to understand them emotionally. Random hangouts, playing sports, having fun with each other and have each other's back. 

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I agree. Sometimes it is hard to find true friends nowadays. In the old days, it is easy to make new friends and now, it needs to be more careful in finding them.

Answer 4

A Good friend is equal to 1 good people. A good friend taught us many lessons and guide us in right way. Finding a good friend is tough task nowadays rather than keeping a good friend. A good friend is always with us irrespective of our mistakes. By sharing your true feelings and honesty one can keep good friend with them always.

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It is ideal to have a friend who will be loyal to us. But then, there are times that they can be our enemies in real life, too. I must admit that it is difficult to find them nowadays. It seems that it is easy to find true friends in the old days.

Answer 5

I think i keep a good relationship to a friend is for being honest. Because honesty is the best for you to have a good relationship to others. for you to earn trust to your friends

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It is one of the best qualities that a friend needs to possess. We can be in this way, too. Being honest is tested to build a good relationship with them.

Answer 6

I think the relationship to be honored. and love from together. they will live like as friends. try to live as like simple life as per your bugdet.and am so happy

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I am sure there are some real friends that are worth keeping. It is not good to be so affected if being betrayed. It should be moving on and making new friends who can be trusted.

Answer 7

Good friends always stay and are trustworthy. 

All you need is to be open and have faith in them, you must share with them, listen to them. Listening to them is one of the most important factors in today's situation if you are listening to them and helping them then obviously I believe they will have faith and trust in you too. At the same time one must be having helping nature and must share all the things with them. 

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Trust is a big word. A friendship cannot be in reality if there is no trust with each other. Sometimes it can be questioned through the years of being together. The most important thing is not to fall into the betrayal situation.

Answer 8

Relationship is something that very critical and risk in our life, it doesn't matter with our girl/boyfrieds or with our best friends. Just because of small problem it can break the relations. In order to keep a good relationship with our friend we have to trust each other and welcome with suggestion.

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Whatever it takes, a friend will not put us in vain. He or she needs to be at our side no matter what circumstances will happen.

Answer 9

Always be loyal to them.

Always participate in their troubles as well success.

Never be jealous.

Never look down upon them.

Never lie to them ⁵for our self.

Be talkative.

Be prapare to help them in need.

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It sounds like you are a good friend. I am sure that your friends are so lucky to have you. All I want is that they will do the same thing to you. It is not cool if you are the only one doing it.

Answer 10

A friend who always cares for you and never make excuses when you need,he is your friend.So,if I have that friend I should do the same.

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I hope you can find a true friend in life. Personally, my best friend is in heaven now. He left me at a young age. He died because of leukemia. It is my first time to witness death. I am sure he is in good hands now.

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Oh! Sorry for you bro. These diseases ruin everything and losing a best friend really hurts.

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I always believe that it happens for a reason. The best part is that he is not suffering and cannot feel pain anymore.

Answer 11

I do two things. 

• Ask them how they are on regular basis. 
• Ask them how was the food. 

These two things have helped me with the way people look at positively and also making changes in the routine to they not think of me as something odd. 

If you want friends to be around, you have to learn to set limits and yourself. And also you need to understand how the friendship can help you long term and based on that you have to approach some friends. 

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I do think that simple gestures can make a good relationship. I also do the same thing with my casual friends. I do not have a best friend because I am a choosy person. I cannot trust someone if not seeing the real motives of being friends with me.

Answer 12

A person is acquainted with many person in their life. However, the closest ones becomes our friends. You may have a large circle of friends in school or college, but you know you can only count one or two people with whom you share true friendship. 

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You said it right. I am quite choosy in having friends in my life. I do not usually mingle in the crowd.

Answer 13

Be Honest

Make time and show appreciation

Make time to connect

Set and respect boundaries

Communicate mindfully

Be open to feedback

Keep them accountable

Get to know them personally

Give them space

Build trust

Resolve disagreements in emotionally mature ways

Be a positive force

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You shared the good qualities of a good friend. I hope I could still find them. Nowadays, they are like special gems, which means they are difficult to find them.

Answer 14

First do not argue with your friends. Try to resolve your dispute with mutual understanding. And don not shout each other . Try to resolve misunderstanding among you. 

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I agree with you. We do not need to argue with them because it will not in good terms.

Answer 15

We can keep a good relationship with our friends by following some simple steps--

* Show up your feelings for your friends.

* Don't gossip about your friends.

* Don't push them to do what they don't want to do.

* Don't use your friends secrets against them,etc.

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In having an argument or something, we do not need to take sides. For the reason that it can make the situation worst.

Answer 16

Communication and love is the most powerful bond a friendship should have. Both of that can connect you better because it is used to talk to each other whether it is personal or online. If you put love in it, the friendship will grow better because it has all aspects any relationship or friendship has to have.

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It is a good thing to maintain open communication with our friends. If we do this, no need to worry about being paranoid with them.

Answer 17

sometimes we need our friends and sometimes your friend needs you there are many things that we can share to friends only so helping them in need and listening to them is all

Answer 18

In my book, I tend to be honest and not to be a pretender. They can get what they can see from me. I am straightforward to them as much as possible.

Answer 19

There are a few things that can lead to a good relationship between friends. First, it is important to be trusty and honest to them. This will help to keep them safe and in good spirits. Additionally, being able to share some of our own personal information with them will make their safety a priority. Finally, there is often a sense of community that can be created by being open and communicative. This allows for others to come and go as they please.

Answer 20

There are a few things that could lead to problems in a real-life relationship. One is when we try to be the bad guy and our friends. Sometimes, they do things that we don't do. They might put theiracoies in our face or badger us iniera with. Other times, they might not be nice to us or our friends. It is hard to be a good friend if our friends are not always the best for us.

In order to keep a good relationship, it is important to have boundaries. When our friends are too nice to us, we feel insecure and exposed. We need to be in a position to say, "This is not acceptable." When our friends start to make good on their promises and do things that hurt us, we don't feel safe. boundary-setting is a process, and we are always in change. We need to be willing to let go of people who are not good for us.

Some people recommend setting boundaries by " Setting boundaries based on our values . " Other people recommend setting boundaries based on what is good for us. One person recommends setting boundaries based on our values and our sense of justice. Another people recommends setting boundaries based on our sense of justice. 

There are many different ways of setting boundaries. Some people choose to set them based on their values, while others choose to set boundaries based on their sense of justice. We even recommend setting boundaries based on our sense of justice, but we still encourage our readers to experiment and set boundaries as they feel best.