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I don't know how to start but I hope that I won't confuse you. I am a transsexual girl who is turning eighteen in September. Since my whole family is transphobic, I have been through a lot. I tried to focus on positive things, so I decided to set three goals that are really important to me.  

Here are my goals:

1. I want to speak many languages like native speakers.

2. I want to become a conference interpreter.

3. I want to become a woman.

Unfortunately, my self-esteem is not the best. I think that I am not good enough to fulfill my dreams. I have already tried to commit suicide and I self-harm. I don't want to be rich or become a writer. Those three dreams are the only ones I really want to fulfill. I don't even want to be in a relationship, nor do I want a family. 

Also, I think that I may be too old and that my mother tongue (Hungarian) may prevent me from fulfilling my dreams.

I know that this sounds stupid. But Hungarian is so different from other languages. 

Should I just throw in the towel and commit suicide?

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First of all you must know that nothing is impossible in this world,this means that it is really possible to achieve all your dreams and goals in this world and you can do it if you really want to. You must never give up so soon because in every success there will be also failures but you must be determined and focused and you will eventually became the winner.
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Yes,when it comes to our mind that this is our goal,then definitely we will work.
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Here's how I see what you should do. 



  • Take one dream a day. 
  • Break the dream into small steps. 
  • Document your each step. 
  • Enjoy the journey. 


If your dream is stronger than your fears, you will get there. If your dreams are smaller than your fears, you will not get there. So it all comes down to the you working harder moving ahead in life. 

Suicide is answer only when you have no purpose left in the world. And trust me, god or universe is powerful enough to take you when your purpose no longer serves.
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Yes,the steps you suggested that's very good. I also try to follow the same.
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Hi, I am here to tell you 1. You are beautiful, inside and outside. 2. You are YOU! No one else on this planet can dictate how you feel and what you MUST do. You have to do what you WANT to do. I'm not sure what you believe in, but I believe in fate. Each and every one of us were placed on the beautiful world for a reason. And it is YOUR journey to figure out that reason no one elses. You need to put you and your happiness before others. And you pursuing all your goals will not only make you happy and at peace within self but it could be the inspiration that someone else needs. Find yourself, and then thrive. You are worth it.
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Life is most enormous thing. Which can not be attained again.....and committing suicide is a sign of cowardice. But it requires courage... If you apply 10%of the courage which you have for committing a suicode, you can definitely overcome every obstacle in life.
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Great comments bro,courage to suicide is much bigger than courage to work on our dreams.
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Committing suicide is not the answer to these personal problems. It is not like snapping fingers and you can have them all. We can do it one step at a time. Working hard is the next thing to consider. You can find ways to achieve these goals. 
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No should not give up on your dream because God had reason why he allowed you to be born in this world. be patients and trust in him everything will be okey.
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Everyone are blessed life on earth because of a cause,so anytime suicide comes into your mind you should think about its outcomes twice.And your dreams are quite relevant and I appreciate it but giving up will neither help you.

So,You should be patient and take small steps everyday to fulfill it in future:).

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Don't commit a sucide, it is not the way especially, if it doesn't go well (if you became an invalid, for example) so, you'll feel even worse and end up in a nut house and, i know you're smarter than that. Right now, you're just emotionally damaged and, I'm sorry how you're feeling.
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No you shouldn't do that. You need to realize that there are so many people out there who are struggling with hard lives that when given to you, you can't mange even a single day. 

Surround yourself with positive thoughts and have someone you trust whom you can talk to. 
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Suicide is not always the best way of ending our problems in life but it always good we face our problems and handle it carefully and after it you will gain peace of mind and happiness.
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If you ask any successful man out there they will time you that there was a time in their life when they wanted to give up, but no they were consistent no matter what.
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I don't know. There are so many wonderful people in the world that would love to see me. I may be mistake, but I want to make sure that I am not mistake.
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No, absolutely not. You should never give up hope and never give up on your dreams. It may seem like there is no way to achieve them, but that doesn't mean you should give up on them completely. You should always strive to find a way to make them a reality, no matter how difficult or impossible they may seem.

You are not too old to fulfill your dreams and your mother tongue should not be a barrier. There are many resources available to help you learn other languages, and with a little hard work and dedication, you can make it happen.

Most importantly, you should never consider suicide as an option. There is always hope and help available, no matter how dark and hopeless things may seem. There are people who can and will listen to you, and there are also many organizations that offer counseling and support. Please seek out these resources if you are feeling overwhelmed or hopeless.
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 it is really possible to achieve all your dreams and goals in this world and you can do it if you really want to. You must never give up so soon because in every success there will be also failures but you must be determined and focused and you will eventually became the winner.
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