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With knowledge. Experience. Understanding of my own self-awareness from all my mistakes and failures that helped me improve the meaning and purpose of my life. And offer advice only when I'm asked.

Do you have any other ways that you can add that I might be missing out on?

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A lot of ways you can be in for influencing the people and their mind. 

1. By being positive. 

2. By making positive changes in their life. 

3. Not being negative. 

4. Avoiding the arguments.

Like this we can learn from the progress of the various people and their action. And also we can check out what we can influence and what we can let go as well. 
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Thank you, @Esmee Your way of thinking is a positive influence to intelligent, rational  people. Debate is healthy and worth gaining something good. Only with people who can be calm and civil about it. :-) I agree with issues we can let go. Thank you. You're amazing!:)

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We can learn from other people's mistakes or failures in life. That's the reason why some people watch biography films. They can learn something from real-life stories. Even if we are not committing mistakes, enhancing existing soft skills can improve our lives. Unless we are not afraid of trying new things. There are some people who are afraid to do this because they are contented with their lives. However, the downside is that they will be left behind.
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Thank you, @Shavkat  You gave an enlightening answer. Like you, I also read and watch biographies about people of interest who passed on great things to the world. You are correct-- change (of heart and mind) is a good, healthy thing for the purpose of making our world a better and peaceful place.
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In my heart of hearts, I want to know more and be shared with others. You do not need to thank me. I just want to share what is running in my mind. It is my tool to spread my words even if it is virtually.
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By doing some simple works --

* When you talk with anyone listen them as much as you can.

* When you mess up, fess up fast and furiously.

* Give them honest and heartfelt appreciation.

* Talk to people about themselves and they will listen to you for hours.
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Thank you. Significant points to consider doing. I love what you said, "Give them honest and heartfelt appreciation" for the hard work they have done to help others.

Listening attentively when people talk to us is also a way of influencing people's minds to do the right thing. I agree with what you said. Thank you!
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Be mindful of social learning. 

Beware of the equality bias – weigh people's opinions according to their expertise on the topic.

Influence behaviour by building on common ground instead of trying to prove others wrong.

Your emotions are contagious – use them thoughtfully.
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I just wanted to make people still believe on themselves. That's the influence I want to share, they might see me struggle but I hope it's not them. Always complementing them can make them not to give up.
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1. Use your knowledge and experience to share your mistakes and failures with others who may need them most.

2. Offer advice only to people who may be helpful and relevant to you.

3. Use your knowledge and experience in your own writing and writing about your life and your progress as it relates to knowledge, purpose, and hope.
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