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Imagine that your boss is a fault finder and keeps on mumbling in the office. What would you feel? In my opinion, it is not a good working environment. He or she is trying to demotivate his or her subordinates.


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Yep. My team manager is a fault finder. I am the top agent and I am the one who contributes a lot in our team. But he always sees my faults. I had to be absent for a day because of a follow up check up for brain aneurysm but he got mad because I didnt file for a leave but he disnt thank me for always coming to work on time and that's the only time I went absent. I am the one pulling our team score's up but he got mad because I accidentally created a wrong ticket. He didnt thank me for being the top agent but he got mas at that one mistake that I did.

So let us just continue putting our beat foot forward cause apparently,no matter what we do, Fault finders would always seek at whats wrong with us
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I am sorry that you experienced this with your boss. I had a project manager before and he always finds mistakes in his team. In fact, the team can work without his existence. The bottom line is that an incompetent boss. Eventually, I quit my job because I cannot bear working with him.
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I resigned too. He's just too dull of himself and I cant stay under his supervision
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Sometimes we need to quit our jobs because we simply feel don't like it. A good working environment is a factor that makes employees work effectively and efficiently.
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That is right. Wouldnt it be amazing to be able to earn a living while enjoying going to work
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I do agree with that. My only rule when working in a company is to enjoy what I want to do and earn at the same time. In this way, we can function normally and no need to be stressed out.
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By behaving graciously with them. I love my sister but she is always calling out other peoples mistakes. I bear with it because she's honest. If I try to call out hers, she becomes angry and argumentative. She has assumed the role of always correcting others and telling them when they are wrong. It can be annoying.
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Let me guess, she is your older sister. It is common that some siblings who are older than us need to portray like our parents. We cannot deny that parents rely on them if they are away. Being frank and straightforward is fine as long as there is a basis for doing it.
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I have experienced this before and it's very bad for the self esteem especially if you feel you don't deserve it. In my case I was in a new job and I was the only one being picked on so it was particularly hard. I talked about it with a friend outside work and she told me to confront my boss and ask her she had a problem with me. It worked like a dream as she stuttered, looked embarrassed and insisted she didn't. After that things were a lot better so in my case this approach worked.
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That's a good personality. We can confront someone and ask if he or she has a problem with us. I am sure it is uncomfortable to be confronted with the least expected. Sometimes I always perceive this as a sign of insecurity. 
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I listen to them, then compare their words to my life, I do not immediately dismissed the comments, If what they said is true on my life, I make efforts to correct them and live a better life, but if it is not then I ignore it and move on. 
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The truth is fault finders hurt the ones they see faults in. We all have faults, we fail and miss the mark. Most of the time these are not intentional and when someone comes along and highlights your faults with anger or mockery or disdain, it hurts. Sometimes people put on a brave face and do their best to “suck it up” but there is a wound within the soul that desperately needs to be healed. And it does not matter if you are a man or a woman.

And what about all the times when we ourselves are the fault finders? How many times have we hurt someone with our words because they did not measure up to our standard? The truth is we all suffer fault finding and we have all been guilty of finding fault in others. Scripture says that offenses must come but woe to him through whom the offense comes! And remember, offenses are caused by the WORDS and ACTIONS that have been released. Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words can destroy you!

There is one person, however, that never deliberately looks for your faults. He does not look for them and neither does He base His decisions concerning you on them. In fact, He never examines you from a natural human perspective. He does not see anything wrong with you. He is NOT a “fault finder”. He is your Father. He is the one that made you, that loves you, and that sees you perfect, holy and pure.

This truth is often hard for us to grasp, especially when we are feeling hurt because of some fault finder. The problem is not with God but with the way we see and think about ourselves. We engage the words that have been spoken and very quickly join in the fault finding. This is how we justify and defend ourselves. However, this causes us to spiral into a realm that we should not be venturing into.
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I deal with it in a way of art of ignoring and moving on. In every people we encounter there are diffrent attitudes. So you must be patient in every situation.  Do not be affected of what he or she is saying. As long as you know your good doing and know the true situation do not be affected. 
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It is always difficult to work in such an environment. I was working and had same issues no matter how and what I do am always wrong. It became so unbearable that I had to face my boss but she denied. It was a toxic environment I had to quit. 
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Everyone should have a clear understanding abut themselves , their weakness , their strength. If fault finder is with you it is only good for you , you just have to think about the fault he ( fault finder) told you about and it would help you to have a better understanding about yourself. only thing you should do is to look at yourself with a neutral perspective and not not taking someone's advice on your ego and feelings.
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If the fault finder gives constructive criticims, then it is fine to be corrected. However, if they give statements otherwise, then it is not a good thing.
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It is very difficult to work under fault finder. It make because of his or her ego that makes them to find the fault in others. But we have adjust for understanding their weak point or fault. Consider them has a problematic person and we normal person should forgive them. Also remember in mind that they doing so for hidding their fault.
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It's not the job for you.

In my opinion, it is a problem to the team.

I would like to fire him or her.

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To deal with a fault finder, remain calm, listen actively, acknowledge their concerns, offer solutions, and set boundaries if necessary.
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absent for a day because of a follow up check up for brain aneurysm but he got mad because I didnt file for a leave but he disnt thank me for always coming to work on time and that's the only time I went absent. I am the one pulling our team score's up but he got mad because I accidentally created a wrong ticket. He didnt thank me for being the top agent but he got mas at that one mistake that I did.
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Dealing with a fault finder is not really easy you have to do things that the person will not be able to find fault in you then find a big fault in him then you have dealt with him.
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