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Would you choose someone who loves you ot the person you love?
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know would ruin my life. I don't think anyone with their rational and right mind will fall for someone who does not care for them and not value other people's life!

I'd rather have a pet dog that would be a faithful friend and would guard my life.

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No, I would not waste valuable time, my life,  my ambitions and goals over anyone I know would ruin my life. I don't think anyone with their rational and right mind will fall for someone who does not care for them and not value other people's life!

I'd rather have a pet dog that would be a faithful friend and would guard my life.
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Wow thanks for that answer. Im actually thinking of having dogs at home and live alone in the forest. Cause dogs are better than humans. 


Good thing I trained myself well to become not dependent on anyone
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Some people are arrived and make such a beautiful impact, you can bearly remember what life was like without then. True friends are never apart, maybe in distance but never in heart. 
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I liked your answer very much. You say that right nowadays there is no benefit from anyone by wasting your precious time.
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Agreed. No one deserves a ruined life usually if you have a big dream that is coming right through
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Well as for me I will definitely choose the person who loves me even if I don't love him I will bring my self to love him because if I go after the one I love I might not fine happiness because he might not love me and the relationship might be a forceful one.
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It's strange because my answer would be I would never stay with anyone I knew would ruin my life even if I loved him but I have a friend who did. She felt that anything was better than being alone so she went back to her abusive husband. She had already left him once because he was such a terrible husband but went back to him. They moved away and we lost touch so I have no idea what happened but she didn't listen to me when I told her not to go back.
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My mother did just the same. Theyre already senios but my father is still abusive. Not only does he abuse my mother but also abuse us. So I wonder how my mother thinks because no matter what my father do,she always chooses to stay
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I'm so sorry to hear that Genie. It must be hard to live with an abusive parent. My father was strict but not abusive and I learned to respect him for it as I got older.
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Maybe she has the patience and still love him . I hope your dad changes to be a good dad and husband. I wish you all the best 
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I share your point of view,infact I think we agree on this,am glad you see things this way because it is indeed the best.
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It is personal choice that depends on each people. It varies on different people. It is personal choice.
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If you think that this person would ruin your life, why need to be with him or her. Sometimes people are just being practical. They can be with someone who loves him or her that much. Eventually, if you open your heart, you will learn to love him or her.
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No one can predict what will be the outcome of this but it's true to love Him back so that no life will be ruined
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It's not about predicting but the problem is, people overlook the first initial red flags thinking that one will change . But truth of the matter is, once one shows their true colors, no need to repaint 
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Obviously we have no choice not to because at the end of the day it's best for us,we have to be able to stand up for what is right.
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Absolutly not. There are so many think that I can do out of love that kind of person. Maybee of course I still have a feel about that person, but I have to forget it.
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This quite a positive mindset and perspective it will change people's way of thinking because you are quite optimistic
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For me as better I will someone else that good enough as my friend but I can still talk to other people who run life but for me I will not move closer to him as much 
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A friend is an asset for us to be a better person, find another one if they don't seem to put good things in you
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Generally your idea is quite wise and eligible for stimulating good thinking and the right mindset keep it up.
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Relationship should be compatible not built on people who ruin your happiness and joy. But try to make the person see how hurt you are. If they still insist on their behavior it will be better to quit.
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Very true I agree with you . Welcoming other person into your life means you are going to complete each other and grow together in peace and happiness, if something doesn't bring you joy, growth, happiness and peace better quit for the better of yourself
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But if it was joined by marriage, then any man can't seperate it. It was some devil making doing so. So I didn't think so.
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Friendship is isn't about who you've known the longest. Its about who walk in your life, said "I'm here for you" and proved it.  Friendshi is the only cement that will ever hold the world together
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Exactly. A friend won't leave you because of a small thing. Both of you are bonded to do such things together 
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I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do
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No, I would not like any such person. I'd rather refuse anyone else to talk to him or keep a friendship. Who can ruin my life, what will leave the other? So  wouldI like to let no one talk to him.
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Basically this point of view is very very legit and understandable let's hope people can take it in the right way.
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I don't want to be married with this kind of person, I would search another person to be life with, the person who make me comfortable, loved and respected. I will give the same to this positive person.
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Same with me. If you know your worth then don't be contented to who is right there. Find someone better if necessary 
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Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.
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Aperson who is after ruining your life is not the right person you should have for the first place. Find someone who loves you for who you are, someone is after betterment of your life. Person who is excited because of your achievement's
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Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.
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No it will be a total waste of time and energy. I would rather leave the person to live their chosen life and fix myself. My happiness matters alot together with peace of mind. 
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Self love first rather than a ruined life for a man who don't deserve the love that you gave Him
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Highly true and justifyable I made some research of my own and found this to be quite reliable.
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Nothing at all separated from your idiocy. I mean when you realize that somebody is good to go to destroy you and your joy  and likely has effectively done that ,still assuming you are blindly enamored with them ,that isn't an accomplishment. Nothing to be pleased with truly. You are simply depicting how frail an individual you are .May be your adoration is only a dependence you have towards that individual. Love yourself ,not somebody who might destroy you. I mean it is miserable on the off chance that actually love them. Be that as it may, then, at that point let it go. It has neither rhyme nor reason.
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You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.
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Now my current situation is totally this question. And how could I answer it if I just couldn't tackle it in real life. He's ruining me day by day more and more moulding me into a person that I don't like either and I am just contnuing being with him. Idk why? It's sad that I am so scared of all these stuffs.
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Learn to choose yourself too and don't let him do that to you. You still have yourself and it's not bad to save it from a wrong guy
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As of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked above.
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Find someone better of course, Love is not just the thing that cause you shivers or sweetness, It has so much element in it. Love have respect,understanding and so much more you can add. If someone is sticking to a toxic relationship then for me it is not love, It;s obsession definitely. You are looking for love because you want to feel better and not feel bitter.
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Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.
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I have a problem trusting people, if I trust someone and he chooses to cheat me then I would not be able to trust him for the second time and if in a relationship there is no trust I don't think it is worth trying it for the second time.
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If you think somebody will ruin your life, run. Nomatter how much you love them, run. If you can think that then something would have happened to make you come to that realization. 
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Assuming you feel that this individual would demolish your life, why should accompany the person in question. Now and then individuals are simply being viable. They can be with somebody who loves the person in question that much. In the long run, assuming you open your heart, you will figure out how to adore that person.
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If you know that person ruins you it is not a healthy relationship. A toxic relationship is worth saving if both partners are ready to alter their ways. But trust cannot be restored until the person allows their partner a chance to earn it back.  
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I would go for the person that love's and i will try to direct my love to that person because i might force myself into chaos with the other person that don't love me.
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