The best way to solve a problem in any kind of relationship is to communicate with each other, be it partners, family and friends. Why then is it too hard for people to communicate their problems and let it out? 

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I think they are not really into saving a relationship because communication is the key and that even makes them hard to initiate that, well that would be very difficult to solve the problem itself.

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Several things contribute to hard communication. Some of them include:

Poor communication skills - some people are very poor when it comes to expressing themselves. They lack words to say or rather cannot air out their views.The only solution to this is just understand them.

Anger - this is the main reason behind dispute.Its very hard to solve a dispute with someone whose short tampered because you'll end up arguing like forever without solving the issue.

Misunderstanding - at times people tend to misunderstand words especially when Solving issues.It creates another issue and the issues end up piling up.At the end of the day you've not come up with any solution.
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Yes. Some people really don't know how to express their feelings. Thanks for your answer. 
I agree some people do not know how to do it and my end up being misunderstood. 
Yes agreed, they avoid misunderstandings when communicating. They must use right words to prevent hurting the people they talk to
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Some people just find it harder than others to talk about their emotions and I think in particular men. Men are often raised to believe that showing emotion is weak in some way which is ridiculous. We are all human and need to cry, talk and do whatever else it takes to release grief and tension.

I'm lucky in that I am able to talk about most things quite openly but I know that not everyone is the same. It's so bad to bottle up our feelings and so good to talk so it makes me sad when I hear of people being estranged from their families, unable to talk about a relationship problem or even worse contemplating suicide. Reaching out to others is definitely the way forward;  if only more people could see that.
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It might not always be the person's fault they can't communicate. If the partner, friend, or co-worker doesn't take the time to listen to what the person has to say it makes it difficult to communicate your feeling and let a person know what is wrong.

Another reason could be that the person is trying to communicate and when explaining something the other person talks at the same time. This makes it hard to get your point across and you just give up.

Other issues have to do with today's society and how everything is done in text messages or online. People lose the skill to communicate with others and relay on a phone or table to say what they want.

Take, for example, the last time I was in Japan I noticed something about everyone on the street or on the train. Nobody talked and if you talked everyone looked at you so strangely. The way they communicated with each other was through text messages. I know this has to do with the culture of the country and respect the peace of the person around you. they feel being quiet is respectful and nobody in public seems to talk there. This also is another example of why it is hard to communicate with others. It can be because of your culture and how you were raised. 
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Pride creates a barrier between people, and it is the reason some people ignore others. Another reason is excessive class consciousness. This happens when certain group people or individual feel they don't belong to a certain class of people. Communication creates bond, and understanding. Lastly lack of confidence is another reason.
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The one who talks more has more feelings to show, the one who listens tries to understand the feelings of the other one
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Yes. For some people it is hard to communicate with others. The reason may be lack of communication skills. They don't know how to express their feelings in words. It doesn't mean they don't care for others. They do but they don't know how to express it. 

Apart from this there are many reasons. But I think this is the main reason for it.
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There are so many reasons why people don't communicate with each other. The only thing that we can do this is to be open to communication. It can also be based on people's persona.
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Persona, ego and inability to listen communication can also be a problem. 
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Well there is a lot of factor why it is hard to communicate. It could probably because of language barrier, different cultures and beliefs. 
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I agree with different beliefs because not all people can understand what do you believe in and why did you stick with it
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In my view there are two reasons behind that firstly, when we talk with that person who is unknown for us then it is very hard to communicate with them. Secondly, when we talk with that person whose language is totally different by our known language then also it is very hard to communicate.
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When it comes to the point where people don't communicate, it means they have problems which they think it cannot be solved in any way and prefer  to keep silent. 
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Others have a feeling that they couldn't explain while some are so showy about how they feel. It conflicts what to say and what to feel. Others are having hard time talking because it may harm the another to His opinion, at some point there are still people having trust issues that's why it's hard for them to speak out
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