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The best way to solve a problem in any kind of relationship is to communicate with each other, be it partners, family and friends. Why then is it too hard for people to communicate their problems and let it out? 

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I think they are not really into saving a relationship because communication is the key and that even makes them hard to initiate that, well that would be very difficult to solve the problem itself.
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One reason for why it is hard to communicate is because people don't have a strong way of communicating with each other. Another reason is because people don't know how to communicate in a way that is meaningful to each other. Lastly, communication is key in order to build a relationship.
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Yea I noticed that too in my sorounding it is really hard for people to communicate.

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Several things contribute to hard communication. Some of them include:

Poor communication skills - some people are very poor when it comes to expressing themselves. They lack words to say or rather cannot air out their views.The only solution to this is just understand them.

Anger - this is the main reason behind dispute.Its very hard to solve a dispute with someone whose short tampered because you'll end up arguing like forever without solving the issue.

Misunderstanding - at times people tend to misunderstand words especially when Solving issues.It creates another issue and the issues end up piling up.At the end of the day you've not come up with any solution.
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Yes. Some people really don't know how to express their feelings. Thanks for your answer. 
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I agree some people do not know how to do it and my end up being misunderstood. 
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Yes agreed, they avoid misunderstandings when communicating. They must use right words to prevent hurting the people they talk to
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Yes you are really there you got the point directly I understand it too now.
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Some people just find it harder than others to talk about their emotions and I think in particular men. Men are often raised to believe that showing emotion is weak in some way which is ridiculous. We are all human and need to cry, talk and do whatever else it takes to release grief and tension.


I'm lucky in that I am able to talk about most things quite openly but I know that not everyone is the same. It's so bad to bottle up our feelings and so good to talk so it makes me sad when I hear of people being estranged from their families, unable to talk about a relationship problem or even worse contemplating suicide. Reaching out to others is definitely the way forward;  if only more people could see that.
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It might not always be the person's fault they can't communicate. If the partner, friend, or co-worker doesn't take the time to listen to what the person has to say it makes it difficult to communicate your feeling and let a person know what is wrong.

Another reason could be that the person is trying to communicate and when explaining something the other person talks at the same time. This makes it hard to get your point across and you just give up.

Other issues have to do with today's society and how everything is done in text messages or online. People lose the skill to communicate with others and relay on a phone or table to say what they want.

Take, for example, the last time I was in Japan I noticed something about everyone on the street or on the train. Nobody talked and if you talked everyone looked at you so strangely. The way they communicated with each other was through text messages. I know this has to do with the culture of the country and respect the peace of the person around you. they feel being quiet is respectful and nobody in public seems to talk there. This also is another example of why it is hard to communicate with others. It can be because of your culture and how you were raised. 
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Pride creates a barrier between people, and it is the reason some people ignore others. Another reason is excessive class consciousness. This happens when certain group people or individual feel they don't belong to a certain class of people. Communication creates bond, and understanding. Lastly lack of confidence is another reason.
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The one who talks more has more feelings to show, the one who listens tries to understand the feelings of the other one
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Yes. For some people it is hard to communicate with others. The reason may be lack of communication skills. They don't know how to express their feelings in words. It doesn't mean they don't care for others. They do but they don't know how to express it. 

Apart from this there are many reasons. But I think this is the main reason for it.
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There are so many reasons why people don't communicate with each other. The only thing that we can do this is to be open to communication. It can also be based on people's persona.
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Persona, ego and inability to listen communication can also be a problem. 
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Well there is a lot of factor why it is hard to communicate. It could probably because of language barrier, different cultures and beliefs. 
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I agree with different beliefs because not all people can understand what do you believe in and why did you stick with it
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In my view there are two reasons behind that firstly, when we talk with that person who is unknown for us then it is very hard to communicate with them. Secondly, when we talk with that person whose language is totally different by our known language then also it is very hard to communicate.
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When it comes to the point where people don't communicate, it means they have problems which they think it cannot be solved in any way and prefer  to keep silent. 
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Others have a feeling that they couldn't explain while some are so showy about how they feel. It conflicts what to say and what to feel. Others are having hard time talking because it may harm the another to His opinion, at some point there are still people having trust issues that's why it's hard for them to speak out
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Some people find it hard to communicate mainly because they are introverts and are barely open minded about the outside world.
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comunication between people is actualy all over the place as there are many different situations som people have ilnesses that make them unable to comunicate others just are plain out ignorant and some people it is simply just a choice not to comunicate. 
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People usually perceive a conversation as difficult when they are faced with telling someone something that person doesn't want to hear. And sometimes people don't like making conversation, especially small talk, some are shy and some people they're bad at it.
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A relationship that lacks communication is not a strong relationship and they might love each other but the relationship will not last long with that kind of attitude.
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There are several reasons why it can be hard for people to communicate. The first is fear of rejection or judgment. People may worry that if they open up about their feelings, the other person may not take them seriously or may not understand. Additionally, people may have difficulty expressing themselves in a way that is clear and concise. They may find themselves getting caught up in their emotions or not being able to state their needs or feelings in a way that the other person can comprehend. Additionally, people may feel like they don't have enough time to communicate or that they will be seen as weak if they open up about their feelings. Finally, people may not be used to communicating openly and may feel uncomfortable or awkward doing so.
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The most things that prevents or alters communication between the people are the barriers, their are many barrier like 

  Language barrier

   Age difference

   Cultural barrier

    Technical Barrier
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communication is best tool to get success in every phase of life but only few people know about how to communicate properly. everyone should work on improving communication skill.
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There are several reasons why people may find it difficult to communicate effectively:

Different communication styles: People have different ways of communicating based on their personality, culture, and background. This can lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations, making communication difficult.

Emotional barriers: People may have emotional barriers that prevent them from communicating effectively. For example, fear, anger, or sadness can hinder communication by causing people to shut down or become defensive.

Lack of listening skills: Effective communication requires active listening. However, many people are not trained to listen actively, and instead, they interrupt, talk over, or ignore others.

Cultural barriers: Different cultures have different communication norms and expectations. This can lead to misunderstandings and miscommunications when people from different cultural backgrounds try to communicate with each other.

Power dynamics: Power dynamics in a relationship can also make communication difficult. For example, if one person holds more power than the other, they may dominate the conversation and not allow the other person to express themselves fully.

Language barriers: Language is a fundamental barrier to communication, and people who do not speak the same language may find it difficult to communicate effectively.

Technical jargon: Many fields have their own technical jargon and language, which can make it difficult for people outside of that field to understand and communicate effectively.

Overall, effective communication requires self-awareness, empathy, active listening, and a willingness to understand and adapt to others' communication styles and needs.
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The root cause is that people are scared. People are afraid to show their feelings or to make friends or to make friends in general. They are afraid to make friends because they feel like they will not be able to trust them. They also are afraid to communicate their feelings because they feel like people will think that they are unapproachable. The result is that people can be very hard to communicate with.
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There can be many reasons why some people find it hard to communicate, including anxiety, shyness, language barriers, past traumas, social or cultural differences, lack of confidence, or communication disorders.
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