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Why some people refuse it? and How can create own closure officially?
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Closure is the ultimate answer for any broken relationship, without it you will never move on, you will always be wishing or hoping that things would go back to what they were. closure will make you realize once and for all that the relationship is over and there is nothing else that you can do to rekindle it. its the best thing one can do for oneself.

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Yes its very important so that you won't be disturbed when someone's just silent.At least you'll have the guts to move on comfortably knowing that you're single.Also its important so that people don't end up being surprised. This is done with very rare people and most of them are always mature and understand how important it is to close a relationship in a good way.

Actually they always say, its good to end your relationship in good way because you don't know what will happen soon.That same person is the one was meant for you.
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I admit. It is just waste of time when someone's just silent. Thanks for your answer. 
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No, not in all relationships. I have ended a few relationships because of the way the people were, I found out they were trying to hide the fact they were a drunk or a drug addict, or just the fact they were downright a horrible person. I never needed any type of closure in this.

Now, on the other hand, there was one relationship I had no idea what happened. We were great one day and the next he was gone. I guess in a situation like this it would have been nice to know what happened. I think if they were such a great person they would at least tell you why happened and why it ended like it did. 
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I think closure is necessary in every relationship. For your peace of mind and tranquility, you need it because you never know what's going on in their head. Whether they are carrying grudges that might affect you in future especially when they are part of your close circle of people.

Even when you'll never meet again, you still need closure. It eases whatever tension you might have and it frees that space in your soul for a better positive energy. When you think back, you'll know your heart is all clear and good to go. Hence you need closure for yourself. 
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Sometimes, I suppose it depends on how a relationship ends and how much it meant to the people involved.  I think if it has been serious and it has broken down there will be a lot of uncertainty and in that case they need to talk and find out whether they want to make it work or go their separate ways. Sometimes although a conversation might hurt it is better to know the truth.

If it's a very casual relationship then maybe no closure is needed.  I had a relationship where he just stopped ringing me and I kind of knew it wasn't really working and was relieved that the contact stopped. No explanation was needed.
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Actually, it all depends on how the both parties in the relationship decided to call it quit. In some instances, closure becomes inevitable as it would help either of the persons to know where he/she belongs, thus giving peace and serenity to them, instead of leaving them hanging, and not knowing their fate.

Other times, closure is not needed, especially if there were so much rancour surrounding the end of the relationship. This could be experienced when one of the couples just decided to call it it's over without prior knowledge of the other. And this would definitely lead to lack of closure, as the affected person would feel hurt and disappointed.

But whichever way a relationship ends, be it through closure or lack of it, there shouldn't be bad blood between the two parties, because burning of bridges is not ideal in human relationships.

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For every genuine relationship it  is very important to establish an understanding which will surely brings peace between you both,  relationship has different reasons while they have to end,  some are very genuine such you both know the circumstances is above your control and the best is to separate in such relationship it is necessary but in a relationship where your reason of separation does not hold water,  the separation process is not usually a peaceful so there is no need for peaceful closure because relationship are usually the genesis of some long existing hatred between families.
I have ended relationship peacefully because we both knows certain obstacles won't make it yield good results, I am still in good terms with the person till now despite long time separation.
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Definitely,everyone needs a bit of closure when they're emotionally , mentally and psychologically down. It never easy to keep up and keep moving when there's a break up some people are just weak minded and can't just do well on their own and will need to talk to someone that will not judge them or find fault.
This most times should be carried out by an expert that knows the ethics of his or job that will make sure that everything disclosed by his or client is kept confidential.

Getting closure helps one live above emotional torture, it can very depressing when someone is emotionally down so finding closure will help one live better.

It will help give one a better insight of what went wrong in the relationship and how to avoid it next time.
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Closure at the end of relationship that involved dating is never ideal. The best that will happen between two person is either to be family or to be in relationship. And once you're into a relationship and it all crashed; of course,  the crash must be accompanied by negative or not to good factors. The nerd to be close again is apparently not necessary. Come to think of it; if the partner or your self was good enough , then why the separation in the first place.
Thus, there is popular wise saying in my tribe that goes "never say good evening in the same place; where you've bid goodnight." Because you will always get hurt.Don't forget, if two person have ever dated before and later meet without creating distance: then,, it's either they date again or love they shared wasn't real.

Either way, the closure will hurt certainly.
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Closure is very necessary at the end of a relationship. It is because you have to set each other free formally. All you have to do is to accept that, that's the end of his or her part on your story, that you have to already put a period and close that chapter in your book. Move on. Let go. Start anew.
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Yes. Closure is necessary for peace of mind. Fake hopes and thinking leads to mental problem. The first thing one should do is admit the fact. The acceptance make you move forward towards your life. 
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If you are bothered a person is cheating on you because of long distance, then it could well happen when the person is close by. The important thing is maturity of mind and trusting your partner.
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Closure is an ultimate full stop to a relationship. It  is a must for any and every relationship when both the parties has realized that its the time to say good bye. Closure gives a sense of completion and a relief that one need to heal and move on in life. 
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Closure of a relationship helps you to end and a start over afresh with new and positive energy. It also helps you to improve on yourself and improve on the next. 
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Yes it is necessary for one to have a peace of mind and it comes with acceptance. 

People refuse it because they are still in the process of healing, accepting and hoping that it is still not the end for them. Closure can be done when the two parties talk in agreement that their relationship has ended. It should be done with sincerity and forgiveness. 
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I also heard you can write a letter. Just don't send it you don't have to. If you want you can. Sometimes t's impossible to get no manner how hard you try. That's what ghosting is. Doesn't give you a say. Which is just not nice.
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I do think every relationship, should know the ending of everything. Having closure is the best way for a person to move on and find himself or herself along the process.
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Closure is actually a great way of recovering from a broken relationship, it gives you peace of mind but it can also lead to disater if you are not in the right sense of mind.
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Closure at the end of a relationship is important for many people in order to gain peace of mind. For some, closure can help bring clarity, understanding, and validation to a difficult situation. It can also be a way to move on, accept the relationship ended, and move forward. 

Some people may refuse closure because they don’t want to face the reality that the relationship has ended, or because they don’t want to hurt the other person by discussing the breakup. 

If you need closure at the end of a relationship, you can create your own closure officially by writing a letter or talking to the other person. You can also reach out to friends or family to talk about the relationship and your feelings. Finally, you can practice self-care and focus on the things that bring you joy.
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Closure can help provide peace of mind and emotional healing after a relationship ends, but it's not always necessary and can come from within.
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Closure can be helpful for some people to find peace of mind after the end of a relationship. Closure can mean different things to different people, but generally, it refers to a sense of resolution and understanding about why the relationship ended and what happened.

For some individuals, having closure may involve having a conversation with their former partner to gain clarity and understanding about the breakup. Others may find closure through self-reflection and introspection, or through engaging in activities that help them move on, such as therapy, journaling, or spending time with friends and family.

However, it's important to note that closure is not always necessary for everyone to find peace of mind. Some individuals may be able to move on without closure or may find closure in other ways, such as accepting that the relationship has ended and focusing on personal growth and self-care.

Ultimately, whether closure is necessary for your peace of mind depends on your personal needs and preferences. If you feel that closure would be helpful for you, it may be worth exploring ways to gain it. However, if you feel that you can find peace of mind without closure, that is also a valid path to take.
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