Do you think I should initiate to reconcile to a friend who had already severed relations with me?

Question

I considered this friend of mine my best friend. However, she changed a lot when she moved to Canada which put a strain on our relationship. Should I reconcile, or do nothing at all?

Answer 1

I don't think so. Life has moved on with her. And so you have, too. But asking her how she's been doing despite the pain she has caused you, will probably be helpful for her to renew her friendly relations with you. She might be hurting too.

Answer 2

It is not healthy if you are going to force yourself with this matter. Personally, I just let it go and find a real friend for me. First thing, she does need to put you in vain. Why? She is supposed to be your friend and not to hurt you big time.

Comments

True, a friend in need is a friend indeed. She should uphold your friendship no matter the distance or the commitments she might have. 

Answer 3

No,If it was right then it would not have spoiler the relationship with us already.

If he was concerned about our friendship ahead of us and whatever was happening in the midst of us coming or clearing the thing

Answer 4

Well this is totally depends on you if you really want to and why you want to. If your friend is fake and selfish then there's no reason but if there was some misunderstanding then you should do it.

Answer 5

People do change due to many factors such as location, job, family commitments among other things. Maybe she has met new friends, and the physical distance between you two has broaden you can try and reach out to her and let her know that her change is slowly affecting you. 

Answer 6

The thing about reconciling is that it should be initiated by the person who did you wrong. You wanting to reconcile won't really change thier behaviour towards you, they will put you in a difficult spot where you are forced to accept thier way or leave the relationship to die which won't be fair to you. So  don't reconcile. Let go. 

Answer 7

Si esta persona no, hiz nada que te ofenderá y defraudará, lo ideal sería conservar está amistad, tal vezvez el cambio de ciudad, empleo o ambiente hicieron que tomarán distancia. Pero la amistad se debe cultivar nuevamente.

Answer 8

She is your friend and don't think friendship is suppose to end that way, why not try to find out a way for the two of you to atleast talk once in a while.

Answer 9

If you still love your friend then you don't have to keep distance with him or her if they are putting up some attitude towards you then you should try to talk to them and know the reason.

Answer 10

She have moved already, so do you. You may chat her or even meet up with her but not the same best friend as you have in the past. She may be changed because she moved and you should just do nothing unless she insist.

Answer 11

You should resolve the issue with the person who had the power to ensure an issue would be resolved. If you don't want to resolve the issue, then do not engage in communication with this person.

Answer 12

But asking her how she's been doing despite the pain she has caused you, will probably be helpful for her to renew her friendly relations with you. She might be hurting too.

Answer 13

Yes do everything to live peacefully with humanity. This act will give your conscience peace, that you have done your best and played your role. Extend the olive branch, don't look at who was at fault or not.

Answer 14

Deciding to initiate reconciliation with a friend who has severed ties depends on the circumstances. Reflect on the situation, assess your genuine intentions, and respect their decision if they've expressed a desire for no contact. If you believe reconciliation is possible, choose an appropriate time, reach out respectfully, and be open to their response. Consider apologizing if needed and understand that successful reconciliation requires willingness from both parties.

Answer 15

A friend stays when others left,a friend forgives and is willing to help,give you what they can afford.yes sometimes it's one person that keep the fire of friendship on.just follow your heart.its ok to give one more push