How can i start to forgive someone?

Question

Finding peace and closure is difficult especially if that person has moved on with his/her life as if something didn't happen, how can one take a stand to forgive 

Answer 1

It is very difficult to forgive someone who has knowingly or unknowingly hurt us. It will take much time to be in that place of compassion as we are working on forgiving that person step by step. But we will get there, eventually, toward peace and moving on to a better situation than ever before.

Meanwhile, we should refuse to be in a wallowing situation where we blame, be not functioning and productive, or be a difficult person to be with.

There's always good plan and hope for each of us who might be in pain and emotionally hurting.

Comments

Thank you for your answer indeed when the time comes to forgive we do feel peace, God's always has a plan 

Answer 2

The best judge is you!

You can take revenge against that person or activity or you can decide to forgive.

Just remember that if you take revenge you will get the peace of mind for a while but if you forgive someone,the peace will sustain forever.

Start taking your own decision now.

Thank you.

Comments

I want peace forever even though this person keeps on hurting my feelings it is hard but I'll try thanks for your help I needed to hear it 

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I am glad that you liked my answer.

Time will heal everything up.

Just have your patience.

Answer 3

It depends on how deep the issue is. Personally, I can just forgive someone who had done so much pain in my life. But I will forget this person forever. The reason is I cannot befriend someone who hurt me big time. It is not my persona to be a martyr.

Answer 4

You can forgive someone by remembering his kindness and forgetting the bad thing he did to you. And realize that anger is not the right choice in social relationships. 

Answer 5

The way I forgive is simple, I set up a place where we can talk somewhere calm and welcoming because I like to manifest good vibes. I understand their side of the story, and exchange I tell mine. I try to stay as calm as I can be, because acting out of angry stirs up arguments. I figure out their intentions and also let them know mine. If we are on the same page maturely to however it works out in the end. Then ill possibly be acceptant and forgiving its the only way to be because I not gonna hold grudges, grudges last very long when you do not forgive that is just not how I will live my life.

Answer 6

First you have to remember that all the human being are not perfect and any way or another you might found somebody hurting you or you hurt him without any good reason, the best way you can do that is to take all the wrong deeds he or she done to you and treat him like you Young brother or sister, you have to only ask for forgiveness and continue to be good friends

Answer 7

the first step is to honestly assess and acknowledge the wrongs you've done and how they have affected others. Avoid judging yourself too harshly. If you're truly sorry for something you've said or done and want forgiveness, consider reaching out to those you've harmed. Speak of your sincere sorrow or regret.

Answer 8

You first need to realize how wrong they were to hurt you, and how ignorant they are for choosing to have you away instead of next to them. Then, give them time to realize it themselves, while you focus on your own well-being. Sooner or later they will. Just remember that some people just don't want to be forgiven, and they don't leave much room for that. 

Answer 9

Meanwhile, we should refuse to be in a wallowing situation where we blame, be not functioning and productive, or be a difficult person to be with.

There's always good plan and hope for each of us who might be in pain and emotionally hurting.

Answer 10

we should refuse to be in a wallowing situation where we blame, be not functioning and productive, or be a difficult person to be with.

There's always good plan and hope for each of us who might be in pain and emotionally hurting.