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Sometimes, friends and even closest to you become a problem or are frustratingly unhelpful.  BUT you see them as challenges and they can never stop you carrying out your plans of success of reaching your goals. And doing that, the result is better. And optimism is a healthy form of attitude.

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You are right, people who try to pull us down with them should serve us more benefits and gain from their pessimism by strengthening our fortitude and focus towards the hope and good plan planned out for us. Thank you.

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If I am having some weaknesses in something or experience failures in life. I took them as a hard lesson and try my best to improve myself with these matters. I have some friends who are pessimistic in life. But I just ignore them since it will not help me anyway.
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I admire your wisdom and positive attitude. You are right, people who try to pull us down with them should serve us more benefits and gain from their pessimism by strengthening our fortitude and focus towards the hope and good plan planned out for us. Thank you.
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Thank you for appreciating my thoughts about it. Life is not that easy, but we can still deal with them. It is not a good idea to run away from these personal issues.
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You are absolutely right. Life is not so easy it's like a blueberry...
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I find this article quite reasonable and knowledgeable infact most people might not see it this way,am glad you do.
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every person has some strong and Weak points in them. I have stage fear and I was unable to reveal my potential in crowd. Now I overcame this problem by practice. 
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Basically this point of view is very very legit and understandable let's hope people can take it in the right way.
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I simply don't focus on its negativeness instead I try to create something that can have good results. I always put hope in everything that I do and believed that there is no such perfect thing. And the change in this world is permanent.

So if there are negative things that we can see, we need to be patient and need to believe that it will not last forever.
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Generally convincing and understandable I am now seeing things in a different point of view after reading this answer.
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I agree being optimistic is a key driver towards achieving your goals. Turning obstacles into stepping foundations and always seeing opportunities in the negativities. It is said seeing a bottle half full rather than half empty. This drives my inner strength. 
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Enlighting one another and sharing of adequate information is what we are all there for, i find you to be quite enlightening on this matter.
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Relationship breakup,turned to be the best thing that happened to me!I like my life as a single,i can do what ever i whant:i eat when and what i whant,i sleep when i whant,i do the house cleaning when i whant,go out when i whant,it's heaven!
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You are very wise and understanding,I like your point of view on the Matter at hand and you have enlightened me.
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That's a good one, I also had a toxic relationship that made me realized that I can live well when I don't have her in my life
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SOMETHING NEGATIVE THAT I HAVE TURNED INTO A POSITIVE IS NOT LISTENING TO THOSE PEOPLE WHO TELL ME THAT I CANNOT DO IT ALONE AND THAT WITHOUT THEM I AM NOTHING
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As of now and so on I will consider these logistics as to be very legit and wise to aim on better outcomes for the question asked above.
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MUCHÍSIMAS GRACIAS. I HAVE ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT INSTEAD OF MAKING SOMEONE GIVE UP ON THEIR DREAMS, YOU HAVE TO HELP THEM PURSUE THEM UNTIL THEY ACHIEVE THEM

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When I  was still in high school u used to be not friendly Pearson and most of the time I was all alone.

This behavior made my performance academically poor everytime,but one day I just changed my behavior and u stardet performing well in exams. 
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Your idea is legit and I would rate it a five out of five because of the wisdom in the paragraph above.
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I think a negative thing of doubting and having a sense of uncalmness I've managed to change whereby I don't really care or I accept my fate.
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Losing my job was the biggest negative of my life. I turned it positive by making money online. I couldnt let being unemployed ruin my life.i turned lemon into lemonade.
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My curiosity in some things is negative to my friends because they thought that I just ask useless questions. That redundant questioning let's me discover more knowledge that I must learn.
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One negative in my life is that I have not been able to turn my life around since my break up with my first love. I have money, status, and everything I wanted in a partner, but I know I can never have the life I want. I have had dreams of being in the top tier of people in my life, but I have always been lower than level. I know I can never achieve what I want, but this knowing has not stopped me from carrying on. I would like to know if I am worth carrying on with or not.
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I took them as a hard lesson and try my best to improve myself with these matters. I have some friends who are pessimistic in life. But I just ignore them since it will not help me anyway.
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