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I'm a 21 year old male who has sexual attraction to 50 year old women. We flirt her and there. Should try taking it a step further? I don't know if sex is ok the table or not but if it is, should I take it?

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Love is a deep feeling of affection that you have for another person. It is not all about lust, it is a lasting attraction that goes beyond sex and turns into emotional attachment. In your case, you should ask your self first whether you proceed to the next level.
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I do agree he should take sometime to think and work things out before making a step he may regret.
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You are so young and need to control things up. It is your sexual desire why you are acting like this. It is normal to feel this way, but you need to be responsible. You cannot afford to ruin a marriage because of this.
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Definitely looking at things in that perspective is vital because such  may result to very devastating results for both.
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Really, I mean is it really normal to feel sexually attracted to such an aged person especialy being so young. Well I guess this is the rare situation.
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Excuse me , But is that lady married and has a family ? You should do a research on her before you take a step further . You don't want to get into trouble now do you 
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I do agree if the woman is married it may not be right for him to have sexual relations with her.
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Does it really even matter, I mean thinking about a women in her 50's in a sexual way, it just not normal. 
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When you you truly love someone, age doesn't matter. Whether it is a difference of 2 years or 30 years or 50 years, Love is Love. If you love some one, love someone.
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It's up to you to find your happiness, if you like her and comfortable to be with her, it's okey to make a try. Howevef, if you want a long relationship with having and raising kids, it's not good idea to be with her. 
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It could possible that you're attracted to older women as you're spending much of your time with them. You are only attract to something that you give a room in your imagination. You might be having fantasies towards them into your thoughts which making you attracted to them. So watch your thoughts.  
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I think you should keep it platonic and get to know this woman just because she flirts does not mean she wants to hook up it only means she is interested in you. I would suggest you slow especially since you have no idea what this woman has been through before she met you.
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Don't do that you are still young, you should look atleast your adge mate. You might found yourself in a dilemma situation which you will not avoid or escape. 
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Truely agreed, because it is just not normal for any person to think about a aged women in a sexual manner.
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You should pull yourself together because she is an old woman now and must be having a husband now ,so just wait and look for your own partner of the right age then have sex with them.
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You are on a wrong track. Control your feelings and mind. These kind of relationships never work out for long. You are young and she is much older than you. Lot of generation gap between you and her. You can find a better match for yourself. Anyone who is in your age group. You are spoiling your life. Two to 5 years of age gap is ok but this is too much. Think wisely before approaching her.
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I reckon you got mommy issues buddy! It's normal to feel that attraction in such case, but it's important to maintain professional boundaries at work and respect your colleague's boundaries.
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It is not all about lust, it is a lasting attraction that goes beyond sex and turns into emotional attachment. In your case, you should ask your self first whether you proceed to the next level.
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Sex without love is very dangerous. It can have a lot of negative effects on you. Get to know the person first check how compactible you guys are before proceeding. 
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