If a woman has kids from a previous relationship does it matter?

Question

I'm wondering if kids affect her getting into a new relationship.

Does it matter to men who don't have children?

Would you still wanna have kids with her.

Answer 1

Well, love is a strong bond that overlooks every single thing. When there is love, nothing else matters and perhaps that's why the saying goes "love is blind".

There is nothing wrong in the woman having a child or children from her past relationship.

Family or friends might mock the man but it doesn't matter. Everyone will answer to his name and our judgement are personal.

What matters is if truly the man loves her. Having children is not a curse. 

Answer 2

If doesn't really matter if a women has kids from her previous relationship as long as you are also okay with that. Everyone has a past and if you love that woman that you would accept her past too. 

Comments

It matters to questions relating to how the kids will be taken care of. Some will not be okay with having to raise children from other relationships. Many children have suffered in the hands of foster parents. 

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This wouldn't be a foster parent though it will be a step-parent and if he loves kids he won't mistreat the stepkids.

Answer 3

It totally depends on the man , what he think about it? True love doesn't mind such aspects of life as long as it is not a form of betrayal in relationship. 

Answer 4

It does matter since these are the things to discuss with your new partner and know how you are going to raise the kids together. Many atimes children from previous marriages have suffered do much in the hands of foster fathers. 

Answer 5

If a woman has kids from a previous relationship, it does matter to me. Well, maybe for others it doesn't matter. If I'm a boy, I would not marry a girl that already has kids, especially nowadays, money is hard to find.

Answer 6

Some men are not like others when it comes to accepting a woman with kids from her previous marriage or relationship. I know someone does not matter if they do have kids. For them, love counts the most.

Answer 7

If you love that woman, you'll accept anything that she have. Her flaws, her attitude, her past and what so ever. Love can make you stronger and you'll be able to prove your love by accepting her.

Answer 8

Of course, her previous relationship doesn't matter. It's over and in the past, what point is there dwelling on what someone did before they were with you? If you love each other and want to have a child together, her previous kids make no difference to the decision. Just because she had kids with someone else doesn't mean it affects her ability to have kids with you. I mean if you want kids what is the difference if some of them are stepkids and some are your biological kids? 

Answer 9

It depends on a variety of factors including the person's personal definition of "family." Some people might still want kids even if they are in a relationship with their children's mother.

Answer 10

Women having kids from the previous relationship and want enter into another relationship depend on 3 things 

1. Agreement between her and her new partner 

2. Her financial status to help the man raise the child /children 

3. Behavior and character of a woman

Answer 11

Family or friends might mock the man but it doesn't matter. Everyone will answer to his name and our judgement are personal.

What matters is if truly the man loves her. Having children is not a curse. 

Answer 12

No am very sure that before meeting that lady she told you about her kids so if she told you about that after that you still want to move in with her then no problem it doesn't matter at all.

Answer 13

The important thing is love. Note that such women will have attention towards the children and also the new love. Though this is not bad but it should be well understood by the new partner.