How would you feel if someone was with you to get their green card ?

Question

They lied throughout the whole relationship until you guys got married but they still had true feelings for you. Would you stay or file for a divorce?

Answer 1

If I fell in love with the person then absolutely heartbroken are you kidding, that must be devastating to find out that someone is using you and doesn't actually want to be with you

Answer 2

It will be a straight divorce because lying throughout is a hurtful feeling and the relationship cannot go on like that. That is a major determinant of a fake relationship 

Answer 3

I would feel betrayed and devastated by the mere fact that I was used. I would not allow the facade to go on and would file for divorce immediately. Dignity and integrity is above the sham of a relationship. 

Answer 4

Of course, I will feel bad. If it does happen to me, I will just let it go. It is not good to feel misery just because of their wrongdoings.

Answer 5

It was a common thing that happen in US, the foreigners get married to us citizens. After getting the green card, they will show the real faces. All people in this world are selfish, they make use for other for their own needs. Better to leave the relationship.

Answer 6

It's quite hard for someone lied to you from the start. Well, it depends if you also love the other party who loved you. If you are willing to forgive and give another chance to the person who also loved you even if they lied to you. If you think and feel the sincerity of the person is it worth giving another try or worth fighting for. Maybe if you are a soft-hearted person you might give yourself another chance but if you have too much pride that you are hurt badly maybe that’s the time you need to be separated from that person for good.

Answer 7

If they marry you to get the green card then there is no love there is benefit , many do this and get married for the green card and divorce after.

If there is only benefit no need to stay in a relationship , if there is love and they want to continue with a relationship without any problems you can stay together.

Answer 8

If you have true feelings for a person then it would be very hard for you to lie that person, but if you already find yourself in that situation then just live with it.

Answer 9

Having a Green Card (officially known as a Permanent Resident Card (PDF, 6.86 MB) allows you to live and work permanently in the United States.

Answer 10

If someone is with you to get their green card, they should stay with their decision. If someone lies to you throughout the entire relationship and keeps you believing that they love you, you may want to file for a divorce.

Answer 11

If you are willing to forgive and give another chance to the person who also loved you even if they lied to you. If you think and feel the sincerity of the person is it worth giving another try or worth fighting for. Maybe if you are a soft-hearted person you might give yourself another chance but if you have too much pride that you are hurt badly maybe that’s the time you need to be separated from that person for good