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I think people should heal first from their last relationship before getting into a new one. The healing process takes time and when you dont allow yourself to heal then how do you accept to love someone else and trust someone else.
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Most day yes. So!stones it just happens. You just fall into one. It's good to be independent. Your not always with people. You have to be careful who you trust. Don't forget about two face people
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Yes my ex rushed out of our relationship to be with an underaged girl knowing he wasn't ready, still in love with and never got the closure we needed from one another which had caused to many issues when there was none to begin with. He met someone maybe a couple days after the break up they hit it hard but he's beating her now, using alot now, getting fired from almost every job, doesn't take care of his hygiene he's greedier unhealthy so thin I can see the mans bones eyes sunken in , I think go into another's relationships when your ready, healed , not depressed, happy with your life yourself and maybe try therapy to help

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To start a relationship with someone you have to be confident with yourself, think deeply inside you, know yourself and be emotionally stable.If you have started a relationship followed by another that has gone wrong, it's a sign that you emotionally need someone to feel complete. It is best to wait a while to reflect on what has failed in the previous relationship and be clear about your goals in the relationship.
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A person needs time to heal and reflect on their past relationship. The time spent being single is a time to learn more about yourself. It is the time for improvement whether it be at work or personal. Getting straight into another relationship is not the right move. Give yourself time, no matter how long, to just be you.
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Well, not all the time. Sometimes, after a  certain relationship has ended and someone came along immidiately after the break-up, this way you will know if you are really over with your previous partner. 
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yes i do think it can be a bad move but not allways i just think u need to take time out for yourself and collect your thought and maybe let yourself heal properly
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It is definitely yes. If we keep on doing this, I am sure you are not going to feel true happiness in the end. It is unhealthy not letting yourself rest and your heart heal.
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You need to heal first people who jump from one relationship to another do that since they think it is weird to stay single. The support they get from being in a relationship is enough for them and they tend to forget that love is important. 
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Yes rushing is very bad, there should be a time without another relationship to make sure that the old door is closed and then after that there can be a new relationship but also not fast it should be left to days and everything will happens, a person should not follow and rush in a new relationship fast to heal, this is not healing , it is hurt.
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For starters I hate the healing process. Never been one to do that. But this time I am going to heal.  Listened to my heart this time and it back fired n me so bad. If I could I would just move on and heal while I am at it but things are different now. So. Heal. Then move on.
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One's mistake should not be followed immediately. If you recently broke up, you shouldn't find another one yet. You're just hurting yourself and your current partner because you just need comfort that time and not love.
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I think that it is really bad because you have not finished going through the first truma you may have fault or make mistakes in the next relationship.
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This will depend on each person. Others think that moving to another relationship will help them get over or move on from the past relationship. The fact that you are still pending the broken heart doesn't mean that you can move on right away from the past it is one way of helping you to move on but you are only trying to escape that hurtful situation even though you are not yet fully recovered. It is in the situation of accepting it's done to moving on stage due to the hurt and bad experiences that you went through from that relationship.
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Once you have been dumped or separated in a relationship the best thing is to give yourself time to heal as you wait for possible reconciliation or new relationship.Its good to explore your previous relationship to know what caused break up before your engaged.
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After the end of any relationship allow sometime to heal, if you move on with the wound from the initial relationship it might affect your new relationship. But you can friendzone your intended partner to check out his/her qualities before making it serious. 
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In general, rushing into a new relationship shortly after ending another one can be a risky move. It's important to take the time to process and heal from the end of a previous relationship before jumping into a new one. This allows you to reflect on what went wrong in the past relationship and learn from any mistakes, as well as to work through any emotional baggage or unresolved feelings that may still be lingering.

Jumping into a new relationship too quickly can also be unfair to the new partner, as it may be difficult for them to build a strong foundation with someone who hasn't fully moved on from their past relationship.

However, it's worth noting that everyone's situation is unique, and there may be exceptions. For example, if the previous relationship was very short-lived or if the person had already emotionally checked out of it before it officially ended, they may be more ready to start a new relationship sooner. Ultimately, it's up to each individual to make the best decision for themselves and their own emotional well-being.
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the old door is closed and then after that there can be a new relationship but also not fast it should be left to days and everything will happens, a person should not follow and rush in a new relationship fast to heal, this is not healing , it is hurt.
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Well I will not say it is bad but for me I prefer to stay on my own and heal before going to another so that at least those things that made you leave that relationship you will know how to fix it in in this new relationship.
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The acceptability of rushing into one relationship immediately after another is a subjective matter and can depend on several factors, including personal preferences, circumstances, and individual experiences. Here are some considerations:

1. **Emotional Readiness**: It's important to assess your own emotional readiness for a new relationship. Rushing into a new relationship without adequately processing the emotions and experiences from the previous one can sometimes lead to unresolved issues surfacing later on.

2. **Healing and Growth**: Taking time between relationships can allow for healing and personal growth. Some individuals find it beneficial to reflect on past relationships and learn from them before entering a new one.

3. **Rebounds**: Rushing into a new relationship right after a breakup can sometimes be a rebound. Rebound relationships may not always lead to healthy, long-term connections as they are often initiated as a way to cope with the emotional fallout of a breakup.

4. **Communication**: If you are considering a new relationship shortly after the end of a previous one, open and honest communication with your potential partner is vital. Make sure you both have a clear understanding of each other's expectations and circumstances.

5. **Individual Circumstances**: People's situations vary. Sometimes, life circumstances, such as relocation or other significant changes, can prompt the quick start of a new relationship.

6. **Personal Preferences**: Some individuals may have a preference for shorter intervals between relationships, while others may prefer longer periods of being single. What's acceptable can vary greatly from person to person.

7. **Impact on Others**: If there are shared responsibilities or children from a previous relationship, the decision to rush into a new relationship may have an impact on those involved, and their needs and feelings should be considered.

Ultimately, what is considered acceptable when it comes to transitioning from one relationship to another is a personal decision. It's important to prioritize self-awareness, emotional well-being, and open communication when navigating these transitions. Each individual and relationship is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question.
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When we break up from a relationship the way and manner the break up occurs makes it bad to rush to a new relationship but not at all times in this scenario. 

Yes probably you'll need to heal after the breakup and get to know your strength if you are ready to begin another one.

Also if you don't love or match with the person you were in a relationship with you tend not to need any healing process because right there in the relationship you'll definitely be searching for someone compatible with you
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I think it's right you shouldn't rush after having a bad relationship,  you should take your time and try to heal yourself from your emotional pain and then if you feel attached to someone than try a new relationship it's not good to rush it can cause pain to you and other person as well as,  so just take time and heal and if you want to be with someone after that then go for it.
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