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It is a special day for our daughter but I'm a little worried because we didn't patch things up very well but I was wondering how to not be awkward when they arrive. It is weird because his family doesn't really have a filter and they can say some wild things, not in very appropriate times.

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be civil, just pretend everything is okay for the sake of your daughters' special day. I am sure you don't want any commotion that will happen that day. When you hear unwanted words from your ex-family ignored them. Just enjoy that special with your daughter.
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As a parent to a young child, you should be as strong as possible. Try not to show weakness because you broke up for a reason. Your child is above any exes or other family members or even friends. Things will be alright when you show that you are in excellent health mentally and physically. No matter what, no one should stand in your way of your happiness and your child’s.
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Ignore them,because they are not part of your wife. To make them feel sad you have to act like you are happy more now. They will try to provoke you be words but give them back a smile that will make them fool. Best answer is ignorance. What comes from ones mouth is how they are. If they say or do something weird , people hearing it will judge them.
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Is it okay for my boyfriend to celebrate his daughters birthday out of town with his ex in a hotel? He said he would stay Friday/Saturday and the ex would come to stay Saturday/Sunday? (I haven’t met the ex or child yet)
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First thing, accept the fact that the atmosphere won't be pleasant, and then try to be cool, besides it is your daughters birthday and please stop inviting then to such occassions.
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It depends on the circumstances and what is comfortable for your daughter. You may want to avoid looking happy or relaxed when her family arrives, as it will make it difficult for them to feel comfortable around her later on. On the other hand, if you are able to keep your cool and are ready to connect with her family, then by all means, do so.
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