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There are some red flags to look for in an early relationship, but what do you think?
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The red flags to look for in relationship are;

Cheating

Lies

 

Disrespectful

 

Bullying

 

Unforgiveness

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There are definitely some red flags to pay attention to early in a relationship :

  1. They're controlling you: I mean by this that they are controlling the way you dress, the people you talk to, not accepting to give you your own space and even pressuring you towards unhealthy behaviors or beliefs.
  2. They're rude to other people:  You certainly know a lot about a person based on how they treat other people, you mostly notice this behavior with people who might not meet their social class.
  3. They make you feel stupid : There are people who keep bragging about how much they know so they drive you to believing they have more knowledge than you do, we all have something that we master more than other people but it doesn't make any of us less smart.
  4. Overactive jealousy : Feeling jealous over your partner is normal, but sometimes it can pass the level of normal, It might be crossing your own boundaries, a relationship must be built on trust and obsessive jealousy is just another criteria of toxic personality traits.
  5. They talk a lot about their exes : Now we all get curious to know about the lives of our partners and what they had been through , but none of us want to hear about a certain person so much, if they're talking about them in a good way or even a bad way, talking about their ex so much is just another turn off and a big relationship red flag.
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This is quite true most people at times don't see it from this point of view and now I see and understand what you are trying to say.this points are quite important.
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Trust,honest and faithfulness are most important aspects to be looked at early in a relationship. Without these three aspects am very sure that the relationship between two or more people will not last  for long. 
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I would consider this true basing on the variety of options and knowledgeable points you added to this answer.trust is very important.
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  • Ugh so many
  • They make you feel insecure on purpose
  • They act narcissistic toward everything that is directed toward them
  • They turn everything on you when its about them
  • Their negative all the time
  • Get defensive at the wrong times when you are tryna help them
  • Always ignoring you
  • Wont listen to you
  • When you express that they have hurt you they call it a day and say whatever
  • hold a big I don't care attitude all the time
  • hit you
  • scream at you 
  • lie
  • cheat
  • repeatedly do you wrtong
  • use u for sex
  • use u for money
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I didn't know this,but now I know this is very useful information about the matter at hand.partners may use each other for sex only.
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There are countless red flags to be aware of in the early relationship. Some might include the following:

  • Talking about their exes a lot
  • Not answering calls/texts as often as they should
  • Not introducing you to their friends or family
  • Taking you out only at specific timings or
  • Not taking you out at all
  • Always on the phone and ignoring you
  • Easily distracted by anything or any other person
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By reading this I have managed to add up on my knowledge about this topic this is very useful information about the topic.the red flags are countless.
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Its very simple and easy. Look out for these three things out of all others:

* Faithfulness

* Respect

* Support

Without any of these three in a relationship, that relationship is doomed for failure.

If your partner repeatedly behaving in a manner that would make you suspicious of cheatings. That relationship is doomed to fail.

If your partner talks down on you, and intend to embarrass you infront of people. That is not a healthy relationship.

If your partner doesn't show any support in case you're in an emergency or in some sort of trouble, they don't care. That means you should leave that relationship quickly.
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This is quite a reasonable and knowledgeable answer and I think you are quite right considering the angle you are seeing the question from, faithfulness and respect are quite important.
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Red flags in a relationship 

1 Constant fights

2 Misunderstandings

3 no communication or improper communication

4 lack of respect for each other

5 taking each other for granted

6 not respecting personal space and choices

7 being over possessive or over protective

8 being peevish, petulant

9 erratic or capricious behavior

10 incessant fights and stress

11 being rude to each other
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Here's what they said

They don't talk through issues

They're constantly testing your boundaries

They have a massive sense of entitlement

Something in your gut feels wrong

Everything is about them

They are overly critical of their previous partners
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Yes most of the time we tend to ignore the red flags and think that things will be better when you get together but it's totally wrong.some of the early signs to look at are: 

Too controlling through frequent calls and messages

A partner who doesn't want you to be away from his her sight 

Always complains 

That's are just few examples
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I think the red flags to look at would mainly be to test your partners loyalty and commitment to your love life and the rest will follow.
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in my opinion i think red flags are alot of things and remember no one is perfect one red flag would have to be jelousy and another red flag would have to be patience
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The best early read flag is not being invited to meet the parents. If a partner does not do this, you need to think more than twice.
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These are some red flags that I saw in other's relationships that ended their relationship. 

* No Loyalty

It is very important in sustaining a relationship because you must focus on your partner only and not be able to treat others on how you treat your partner

* Too demanding

Sometimes, it's not bad to give your partner a space and let them live their personal life.

* Toxicity

Too much attitude can ruin your relationship because of the pressure given by each other
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Sometimes in a relationship you need to have your eyes wide open.some people start misbehaving when they get tired you.behabiors like coming late, hiding phone call and text messages,being in the phone always.
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Early red flags in a relationship: too much controlling behavior, lack of communication, dishonesty, lack of respect, inconsistency, unwillingness to compromise.
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Red flags in a relationship include excessive jealousy and frequent lying. You should also be wary of a partner who frequently criticizes you or puts you down. Another major red flag is an unwillingness to compromise — relationships shouldn't be one-sided
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Some red flags to look for in a relationship include:

  • The partner has nohearing or knowledge of the claim.
  • The partner has never been married or been in a relationship with someone their age.
  • The partner has never had any children by the partner.
  • The partner has never had any major life changes by the partner.
  • The partner has never been in a committed relationship with the partner.
  • The partner has never been in a one-night stand with the partner.
  • Some things to watch for include:
  • The partner has never told the member of the relationship they were chosen for the relationship.
  • The partner has never given the member of the relationship the attention they need.
  • The partner has never been open and honest about their feelings and feelings about the partner.
  • The partner has never been open and clear about their needs and goals in the relationship.
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Love should be the focal point of any relationship. In love there are many fruits such as loyalty, faithfulness, trust, honesty and openness, forgiveness, and so on. So your partner should have a good portion of these qualities.
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recognizing early red flags in a relationship can help you avoid potential heartbreak so here. are some: lack of communication, disrectful behaviour, contolling behaviour, lack of trust, they're always the victim, they dont respect your boundaries and latly they're too rushed.
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