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It s defenitly no. When copules are so young they don`t  have enought experience about live.

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answered by LEGEND (6,011 points) 6 13 26
Early marriage is good if both couples are mature enough to handle everything marriage entails. There are times in marriage that it gets very hard and it takes very sensible and understanding people to make it work. 

In the event that the couples are not mature enough to make the right and rational decision, it really doesn't work well. So I think no matter the age, couples need to be mature enough to carefully make decisions in life generally and make marriage work. 
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answered by LEGEND (6,394 points) 6 14 36
Not a good idea at all and am in full denial of it.Early marriage has got lots of consequences. First the girl is only a kid and most of them haven't finished school.The are  consequences of not finishing school.This will mean that will have to depend on their husbands for everything which also has its effects.

Most of those girls are young and their sexual organs haven't matured.This will cause complications especially during birth and might even lead to the death of the kid.Its recommended that a lady should give birth when they're +25 years.This 16 year girl whose been forced into marriage barely knows nothing about pregnancy.

Finally, the lady will get bored with the marriage quickly and by the time they're 28years they will look like old women.

I call upon everyone if possible we should take part in shunning away early marriages. Let our girls learn and become independent, this is 21 st century and not 20th.
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answered by ELITE (4,083 points) 7 26 72
It depends on the people and their maturity. Making a marriage work takes a lot of hard work but some people meet when they are very young, at school even, and they stay together for life. Other people mistake lust for love and the relationship will fall apart very quickly.

I do envy people who marry young, raise children and stay happy throughout their lives together.  Years ago people stayed together even if they were unhappy because divorce was frowned upon but it does seem that many marriages fail now for various reasons regardless of what age they marry.
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answered by (842 points) 1 4 12
The premise early marriage will only be a good idea if and only if you are stable and you can provide everything for your family and have something to save for your future otherwise it's gonna be tough. It's good to take time to settle fast. Have at least a revenue generating asset before deciding to marry. 
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answered by VISIONARY (9,060 points) 5 21 52
From personal experience, I have to say no. I decided to get married at 18 to get away from all the mess and a few other reasons. This was the worst thing I had ever done. I ended up divorcing 13 months later and was happy to be single and free. 

Marriage is hard enough as it is, but when you are young, you want so much more out of life. Freedom is one of them. You end up fighting all the time, disagreeing on many things, and you find that finances are a major part of the disagreement. 

There are a few cultures that believe it is important to arrange and marry off their daughters as soon as possible. In these cultures, an arranged marriage can happen quite young. I have met some women who were married off as young as 14 years old. They are unhappy and now have children. They were married off to men who were quite a bit older than they were. This is a difficult life and I feel so bad for them. They can't get a divorce because it will disgrace their family, so they are stuck in a marriage they aren't happy with.

I believe a young woman or even a man should experience a bit of life before getting married. You are young want to have fun, go out with your friends, experience the bar scene and so much more. As a young married couple, your partner basically wants the same, but it is impossible because the other one gets jealous if they are left home alone. 

Speaking from experience, I wouldn't recommend this at all. I regret getting married so young and not having a chance to experience my life before I got married. After my divorce, I had several years to experience life before I decided I wanted to settle down. At that time I was ready to settle down and get married. This time it worked and all was wonderful. 
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answered by (292 points) 1 2 10
I don't think that this is a yer or no questions, I think it's really relative and the answer would pretty much differ concerning different people. There are young people that are very mature and that have a sense of responsibility and respect and that are able to start a family and make it work and take care of the children. But on the other hand, most young people today are not like this at all. They're not responsible and they don't have any sense of respect towards anyone. They're immature and they just want to have fun and spend their time playing and making chaos and drama. So for someone like this to get married and start a family, it's a disaster! The kids would suffer and the parents would likely end up having a divorce.
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answered by LEGEND (6,086 points) 3 27 50
If one you are stable, you are earning that is good for the family, you are ready, you think your husband or wife will take care of you, you are matured on every decision you have, you cannot live without each other and if your families are okay with it, you can provide for a marriage, even with simple ones, then I think  you are okay for an early marriage. May I ask if this early marriage means, you marry the person you just met a while ago, like 3 months ago or you are too young to get married but you feel marrying the one you love because you are so ready for it. My reason if I get married is because I love the person, but marriage will only happen when we are both stable. I really want both of us to have a savings that we will have money for 10 years if we lose our job. I hope my future husband's earnings are bigger than me.
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answered by VISIONARY (9,008 points) 7 17 71
Starting anything early enough is always good and marriage inclusive. Getting married early and having the number of children one really needs help parents grow with kids at a good pace hereby being in the kid's lives all the way than being so old to even be in the kid's lives and even understand what they're going through.

Early marriage help the women gives birth early also which helps to reduce the problem of complications during childbirth  faced by women of older ages.

Early marriage helps the men to be responsible at a very young age because marriage comes with responsibility, it will help them start thinking right and well for the future.

Early marriage will help couples start building  their lives in all areas like financially and otherwise as early as possible.
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answered by ELITE (3,054 points) 8 36 66

I think this depends on how early your definition of early is. However, general considerations about marriage would include not only financial but also emotional stability.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment and should not to be entered into lightly. The person you'll gonna marry now will still be the person you'll be with after 40 years. So make sure both of you have already spent quite enough time into becoming the type of person you'd want to marry. Because by the time you're living in the same roof, it won't provide guarantee that those traits and quirks that you find attractive before will not turn into an annoyance.

Finally, and I think the most important thing is to assess whether or not both of you will be able to put into work the vows that both of you will recite at the ceremony: "For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health"--that you will always choose to be with your partner no matter what the circumstances are.

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answered by LEGEND (6,072 points) 7 22 49
Early marriage can never be right because marriage is not for those that are immature. If marriage is entered by those that are inexperience to handle the challenges that is often encountered in it, there is high propability there is going to be frequent misunderstanding and if not proper curbed it would lead to divorce.

Early marriage between couples that are immature and inexperience is usually driven by fantasy and the ideas of false love. They are only drawn to each other perhaps they have high passion of being with each other, not they have true love that would help them during the moment of trials in the marriage. They think they have what it takes to survive the storm until something bigger than them would hit them, that the passion between them would not be enough for them to overcome.

We must know marriage is not for the young at heart, but for those that are mature enough to bear the upheaval it brings.

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